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[LEA] Previously on The Good Doctor...

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I'm Charlotte Lukaitis.

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- Charlie. You are on my team.
- Yes!

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Positive affirmations are
empowering for people with ASD.

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My autism is awesome.

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We should prep a bolus dose of TPA.

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No, we should not do that.

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You ordered a nurse to prep an
unindicated and very risky medication.

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I didn't order her.
I was just making a suggestion.

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Get out!

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I believe your intense curiosity

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and attention to organization

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will one day make you
an excellent pathologist.

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I don't want to be a pathologist.

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I just want to be a surgeon like you.

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You're nothing like me.

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So much of my life in Orthodox world.

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I still don't feel like
I know what I'm doing.

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I have so little figured out,

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except that I'm really into you.

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- Mom?
- Hey, Audie.

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But what are you doing here?
Are you okay?

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Oh, I'm just here for a drug trial.
For my hyperthyroid.

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You heard they're calling
a board meeting tomorrow?

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- Can you cover for me?
- I wish I could cover it.

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It would be preferable
to taking my mom shopping.

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I'll take her shopping.

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Thank you for your help.

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Oh, no. Happy to help.

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See, and here you are, stuck with me.

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Oh! [CHUCKLES] No.

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You have been very sweet.

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[FUSSING]

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[CRYING]

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- Should we just...
- No.

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Can't we just check on him?
It's been ten minutes.

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- Nine.
- I'm rounding up.

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You shouldn't. This process
is tiring and difficult.

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But once we finish,
we will all be happier

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and more well-rested.

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[CRYING CONTINUES]

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How does the crying not bother you?

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In prehistoric times,

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when infants awoke in the night

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and didn't see their parents,

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it could mean they had
been killed by wild animals

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or competing tribes.

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Steve's cries are designed by nature

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to alert other adults
to take care of him.

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Mm-hmm.

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How much longer?

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Ten seconds.

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Nine, eight...

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seven, six, five, four, three, two, one.

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Don't worry, Steve. Mommy's coming.

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[ALARM BEEPING]

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[BEEPING STOPS]

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Mm.

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Morning.

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Morning.

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That was fun.

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[BOTH CHUCKLE]

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Yeah.

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Mm.

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I have to go, unfortunately.

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When's your first meeting?

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After this.

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I have a consult.

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No, Shaun, please stay.

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Sorry. I was, um...

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Sorry.

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I was just about to tell Shaun

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that he'll be working
with Charlie Lukaitis today.

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No, I'm going to work with Dom.

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Charlie is disruptive and distracting.

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She should be failed
out of this rotation.

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That's a harsh assessment,

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and one you can't make until
she's completed her rotation.

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Then...

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I want to opt out of being
a teaching attending.

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You can't do that, Shaun.
This is a teaching hospital.

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You can't opt out.

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Well, actually, you can,
but you lose access to the residents...

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Jordan, Kalu, Asher.

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I prefer to work alone.

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And you'd stick to simple surgeries.

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Lap choles, appendectomies,
hernia repairs.

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Not to mention, you'd lose
a third of your salary.

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I cannot teach her.

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She interrupts me, and when
I point out her mistakes,

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she just argues with me.

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Well, why don't you stop
pointing out her mistakes?

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Why don't you start

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pointing out things she does well?

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Why would I do that?

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Because when you criticize
people, they feel bad,

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and that leads to arguments.

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And that leads to Charlie
standing alone, mute in an elevator.

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And that leads to more meetings with us.

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I can't just let her mistakes go.

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So, how about you try
a compliment sandwich?

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When you need to give negative feedback,

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stick it between layers of praise.

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Charlie...

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doesn't have two pieces
of bread to work with.

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Then make it a compliment
open-faced sandwich.

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Find the bread, Shaun.

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[THEME MUSIC PLAYING]

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Synced & corrected by -robtor-
www.addic7ed.com

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- Hi, honey.
- Hey, you okay?

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Your door was closed when I left.

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I wasn't there. I, um...

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stayed over at Aaron's.

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You... s-slept over there?

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Yes.

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- Like...
- Yes.

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I hope you don't have
a problem with that.

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You're a grown woman.

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That decided to have sex
with my co-president.

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Sure. That's... fine.

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Great.

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It was amazing, Audrey.

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I mean, for a man his age,

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you cannot believe the stamina
and the decisiveness.

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That's great, Mom.

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It's just sex.

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I'll be going home
after the study is over.

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But as sex goes,
this is pretty high quality.

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Where did you fall?

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In the shower.

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I hate how old that makes me sound.

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Don't worry, you also look old.

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Oh, thank you for that.

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BP's 100 over 70, heart rate 75 BPMs.

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Hip bone's swollen and deformed.

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Does this hurt?

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Ow! Ow!

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You have a fractured and dislocated hip.

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Oh, no.

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Don't worry. We'll get him
to the OR right away.

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- Your dad will be fine.
- [CHUCKLES]

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[CHUCKLES LIGHTLY]

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He's my fiance.

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Then your fiance will be fine.

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Thank you.

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Hi! I know the last time
we worked together

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could have gone better.

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I always quote the great Taylor
Swift at important moments,

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- so let me just say...
- Don't do that.

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I promise I won't interrupt you today.

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I'll work extra hard to be helpful.

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What were you doing when
you first started throwing up?

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Walking with Mom.

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We weren't overdoing it or anything.

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We walk together
every morning before school.

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It's our special time.

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That's awesome.
Do you know Mirna Valerio?

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She's a large-bodied woman
who runs ultramarathons.

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You could work your way up to that.

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Or just marathons.

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That wasn't an interruption.

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It was...

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good that you did not interrupt me,

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but you did not need to tell that story.

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Although, it was not
completely irrelevant.

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With the fever and white count,
I thought she had a UTI.

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Lucy, please lie down.

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[WINCES]

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Take a deep breath.

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[INHALES DEEPLY, GROANS]

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Positive Murphy sign.

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And it was spotted
by Dr. Murphy. So cool.

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It wasn't named after
Dr. Murphy, though.

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It is, in fact, named after Dr. Murphy.

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- He just wasn't me.
- It's still cool.

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There's nothing cool about it,

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since it means Lucy's
gallbladder is inflamed

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and will need to be removed.

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Why would she be having
trouble with her gallbladder?

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Probably because she's morbidly obese.

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But don't worry,

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we do the surgery every day.

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Not on teenagers, though.

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[ASHER] I shouldn't have assumed.

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Placing second guidewire.

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But are we all just going
to ignore how gross this is?

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I mean, he's old enough
to be her grandfather.

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[JEROME] Lots of people think it's
gross that you and I are together.

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[ASHER] Yes, but we're actually in love.

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Okay? She's gold-digging.

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- [JEROME] Another assumption.
- [ASHER] A deduction, actually.

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If he's not loaded,
why would she be with him?

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Also, I found her Instagram.

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You should see the hotel
they stayed at in Baja.

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And they've been engaged for a year,
but no wedding website.

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He's clearly stalling,

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trying to have as much sex
as he can before tossing her.

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- [JEROME] He's 74.
- [ASHER] Yeah.

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And a man.

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Implanting primary FNS screw.

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[DR. PARK] If she's after his
money and he's after her youth,

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then they're both
getting something out of it.

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[ASHER] Tightening locking screw.

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[JARED] Dissecting
the gallbladder off the liver.

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Processed foods, sugary drinks,
schools dropping PE...

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No wonder there's an epidemic
of childhood obesity.

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[CHARLIE] Weight is a bad proxy
for health, actually. BMI, too.

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It doesn't take into account
muscle mass or metabolic...

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[SHAUN] Excuse me. What are you doing?

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[JARED] Oh, I, um... I-I asked Charlie

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to learn the tools by laying them out.

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[SHAUN] Laparoscopic
instruments go on the left,

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then clamps, scissors,
retractors, and sutures.

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You have done the opposite.

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You... did lay them out, though.

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[CHARLIE] Thank you.

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[JARED] One thing, though.
Shaming people who are overweight,

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which, sorry, Shaun, you kind of did

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with that "morbidly obese" comment,

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can actually lead to overeating.

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[SHAUN] I was stating a medical fact.

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Ultrasonic coagulator. Starting the...

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[CHARLIE] But if your fact
made her feel ashamed,

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- then you...
- [SHAUN] You inter...

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Charlie, you did a good job

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when you were not
interrupting me earlier.

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[CHARLIE] Thank you.

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[SHAUN] But you did not do a good job

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when you were interrupting me just now.

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[CHARLIE] Oh, I just thought we
were talking at the same time.

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[SHAUN] But you are doing
a good job right now

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because you are not interrupting...

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[CHARLIE] It's mostly I'm completing
your train of thought, which helps.

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[SHAUN] Okay, I am running out of bread.

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[JARED] Shaun.

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Her liver has yellow
diffuse deposits and fibrosis.

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[SHAUN] She has advanced fatty liver.

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If this progresses,

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she will need a liver
transplant or she will die.

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It may take a few months
to regain full mobility,

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but that shouldn't stop you
from walking down the aisle.

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Thank you so much, Doctor.

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So, how'd you two meet?

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Well, we needed some
legal work done at the school

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where I teach seventh grade English,

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and somehow, a big fancy litigator

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took us on pro bono.

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- Not that fancy.
- No. Fancy.

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And very modest.

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I had, uh, lost my wife, Julie, to COVID

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a couple of years before and...

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Well, I was a mess.

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I certainly never thought
I could fall in love again.

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Neither of us expected this to happen.

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But we're real glad it did.

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It's a beautiful story.

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When's the big day?

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Hey, are you okay?

259
00:11:11,020 --> 00:11:12,614
Yeah, it's just my stomach thing.

260
00:11:13,540 --> 00:11:16,020
Uh, we're just waiting for Scott

261
00:11:16,060 --> 00:11:18,280
to finish converting to Judaism.

262
00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:20,630
I'm sure you know how long that
process can be, Dr. Wolke.

263
00:11:20,680 --> 00:11:21,831
You're Jewish, right?

264
00:11:22,693 --> 00:11:23,693
No.

265
00:11:24,590 --> 00:11:26,640
Oh, I-I'm sorry, I...

266
00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:28,338
I assumed...

267
00:11:31,860 --> 00:11:32,990
I feel sick.

268
00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:34,120
[SCOTT] Ronit?

269
00:11:34,170 --> 00:11:36,390
[RETCHING]

270
00:11:36,430 --> 00:11:37,430
Ronit.

271
00:11:39,750 --> 00:11:41,540
- Look at me.
- Ronit!

272
00:11:42,429 --> 00:11:43,559
Crash cart!

273
00:11:47,719 --> 00:11:49,849
[DR. PARK] Stomach and duodenum
are normal.

274
00:11:50,050 --> 00:11:52,028
Are you ready to admit
you're wrong about them?

275
00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:54,750
Fine. They're in love.

276
00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:56,540
But why not just peacefully live out

277
00:11:56,580 --> 00:11:58,100
his golden years together?

278
00:11:58,140 --> 00:11:59,930
Why is she making him jump
through all these hoops to get married?

279
00:11:59,980 --> 00:12:01,850
Does he really want to spend
the rest of his years

280
00:12:01,890 --> 00:12:03,280
studying the Book of Ruth?

281
00:12:03,305 --> 00:12:04,995
She's not forcing him to do anything.

282
00:12:05,020 --> 00:12:06,110
He wants to make her happy.

283
00:12:06,135 --> 00:12:07,525
Yeah, by pretending to care about

284
00:12:07,550 --> 00:12:09,210
something he doesn't
actually care about.

285
00:12:09,235 --> 00:12:11,455
If he wants to stay married,
I also recommend pretending

286
00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:13,650
to care about every
other thing she cares about.

287
00:12:13,675 --> 00:12:15,235
Transverse colon is normal.

288
00:12:15,263 --> 00:12:16,873
Also, it doesn't hurt
for a man of his age

289
00:12:16,898 --> 00:12:18,858
to have a younger medical proxy
who cares about him.

290
00:12:18,883 --> 00:12:20,933
So just give her power of attorney.

291
00:12:21,070 --> 00:12:23,860
Yeah, maybe in a ceremony.
She could wear white.

292
00:12:23,885 --> 00:12:25,535
- They could exchange rings.
- What's that called?

293
00:12:25,560 --> 00:12:27,541
Why are you so invested in this?

294
00:12:27,570 --> 00:12:28,830
Why are you so cynical?

295
00:12:29,163 --> 00:12:30,433
Guys.

296
00:12:31,140 --> 00:12:33,111
Left ovary and pelvic organs.

297
00:12:40,670 --> 00:12:42,630
Dr. Glassman and Dr. Lim

298
00:12:42,670 --> 00:12:44,410
suggested the compliment sandwich,

299
00:12:44,450 --> 00:12:45,800
but it is very distracting

300
00:12:45,850 --> 00:12:47,540
having to find two things
Charlie is doing right

301
00:12:47,590 --> 00:12:49,335
just so I can correct her mistakes.

302
00:12:49,890 --> 00:12:51,940
There are a lot of them.

303
00:12:51,980 --> 00:12:53,882
What do we do in sleep training
when Steve cries?

304
00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:57,210
We ignore him.

305
00:12:57,250 --> 00:12:58,340
Ignore her.

306
00:12:58,380 --> 00:12:59,990
Charlie isn't a baby.

307
00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:02,990
When she makes mistakes,
it affects patients.

308
00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:04,950
How often do med students
get to do something

309
00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:06,519
that could actually hurt a patient?

310
00:13:07,870 --> 00:13:08,938
Not very often.

311
00:13:08,963 --> 00:13:11,913
So, when she does something
annoying, just let it go.

312
00:13:12,310 --> 00:13:13,570
If you ignore the mistakes,

313
00:13:13,610 --> 00:13:15,403
you don't need to look
for the compliments.

314
00:13:16,223 --> 00:13:18,533
Well, yeah. That is worth a try.

315
00:13:18,558 --> 00:13:20,298
[CELL PHONE VIBRATING]

316
00:13:20,363 --> 00:13:22,583
Lucy's coming out of anesthesia.

317
00:13:22,608 --> 00:13:23,828
I have to go.

318
00:13:25,413 --> 00:13:27,543
Have you forgotten something?

319
00:13:27,670 --> 00:13:30,293
Something to steel you against
any level of annoyingness?

320
00:13:31,330 --> 00:13:34,680
It smells of adorableness
and diaper cream?

321
00:13:48,447 --> 00:13:49,927
Now go get your ignore on.

322
00:13:56,130 --> 00:13:58,570
You have stage three ovarian cancer.

323
00:13:58,620 --> 00:14:00,750
It's spread beyond
the ovaries and pelvis.

324
00:14:05,190 --> 00:14:06,450
I told my GP months ago

325
00:14:06,490 --> 00:14:08,060
that I was having back pain and nausea.

326
00:14:08,100 --> 00:14:09,540
He said that it was
probably just stress.

327
00:14:09,580 --> 00:14:11,542
Unfortunately, that's not uncommon.

328
00:14:11,650 --> 00:14:14,712
70% of cases are missed
at the early stages.

329
00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:20,340
We will do everything we can,

330
00:14:20,365 --> 00:14:23,972
starting with removing as many
of the tumors as possible.

331
00:14:25,030 --> 00:14:27,684
And hopefully chemo can get the rest.

332
00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:43,866
Thanks. Perfect.

333
00:14:45,140 --> 00:14:47,662
- Audrey!
- Oh!

334
00:14:48,750 --> 00:14:50,373
- Hi.
- Hello.

335
00:14:50,443 --> 00:14:52,833
So, we were just talking about
where to go for dinner.

336
00:14:53,100 --> 00:14:54,540
[DR. GLASSMAN] Yeah,
what was that place?

337
00:14:54,580 --> 00:14:57,330
- The Chinese fusion on Elm?
- East-West.

338
00:14:58,500 --> 00:15:00,008
Try the wonton tacos.

339
00:15:02,110 --> 00:15:04,940
[SIGHS] Excuse me. Um...

340
00:15:04,990 --> 00:15:08,730
Hey, uh, I'm guessing
you're not okay with this.

341
00:15:08,770 --> 00:15:10,380
You sleeping with my mom?

342
00:15:10,430 --> 00:15:12,380
My dad did it for years.
We got along fine.

343
00:15:12,430 --> 00:15:14,260
Since you're not okay with it, uh,

344
00:15:14,300 --> 00:15:16,740
is there anything that I can do

345
00:15:16,780 --> 00:15:18,390
to make this a little bit less awkward?

346
00:15:18,430 --> 00:15:20,194
There's not going out with her.

347
00:15:20,463 --> 00:15:21,513
Short of that?

348
00:15:22,530 --> 00:15:23,920
You asked.

349
00:15:27,100 --> 00:15:28,286
[SIGHS]

350
00:15:39,890 --> 00:15:40,947
Are they?

351
00:15:40,987 --> 00:15:43,330
Please don't make me think about
this any more than I already have.

352
00:15:43,370 --> 00:15:46,030
Ah! Wow.

353
00:15:46,070 --> 00:15:47,640
You've really gotta hand it to Glassman.

354
00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:48,770
[SIGHING] I really don't.

355
00:15:48,810 --> 00:15:50,030
Sleeping with your competitor's mom

356
00:15:50,070 --> 00:15:51,957
has got to be the 49th Law of Power.

357
00:15:51,997 --> 00:15:53,900
He's not my competitor.
He's my colleague.

358
00:15:57,300 --> 00:15:59,040
Imagine if they got married.

359
00:16:04,227 --> 00:16:07,592
That's why we are recommending
gastric sleeve surgery.

360
00:16:07,700 --> 00:16:09,270
She's 14.

361
00:16:09,310 --> 00:16:11,188
[DR. REZNICK] Lucy fits the guidelines.

362
00:16:11,238 --> 00:16:12,710
She has a BMI of 40,

363
00:16:12,750 --> 00:16:15,100
she's 136 pounds overweight,

364
00:16:15,140 --> 00:16:18,100
and she's having severe
medical problems as a result.

365
00:16:18,150 --> 00:16:19,970
Do other kids get surgery like that?

366
00:16:20,020 --> 00:16:21,980
There were 1,400 bariatric surgeries

367
00:16:22,020 --> 00:16:23,890
performed on adolescents in 2022,

368
00:16:23,930 --> 00:16:25,410
and it's becoming
more common every year.

369
00:16:25,460 --> 00:16:28,330
Dr. Murphy will remove a
large portion of your stomach.

370
00:16:28,370 --> 00:16:30,030
That will help you to eat less.

371
00:16:30,070 --> 00:16:31,810
And in ways
we don't fully understand yet,

372
00:16:31,860 --> 00:16:33,900
it reduces the hunger signals
in your brain.

373
00:16:35,437 --> 00:16:37,688
That is not wrong.

374
00:16:40,910 --> 00:16:42,300
I want to do this.

375
00:16:44,476 --> 00:16:47,306
Mom, I think about food all the time.

376
00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:49,867
I don't want to keep fighting my body.

377
00:16:49,976 --> 00:16:51,285
I'm just so tired.

378
00:16:52,790 --> 00:16:54,038
Baby, I didn't...

379
00:16:54,223 --> 00:16:56,663
I didn't realize you were
still hurting this much.

380
00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:00,420
I didn't want you to know.

381
00:17:00,970 --> 00:17:03,580
I was trying to fight it
on my own, but...

382
00:17:03,630 --> 00:17:05,133
I don't think I can anymore.

383
00:17:10,582 --> 00:17:12,502
Uh, okay. Let's do it.

384
00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:14,720
Let's do it.

385
00:17:17,120 --> 00:17:20,510
Charlie will return with
the preoperative consent form.

386
00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:22,340
Responsibility.

387
00:17:22,380 --> 00:17:23,690
Awesome.

388
00:17:27,470 --> 00:17:30,820
Gunderson's doing a robotic-assisted
thoracoscopic lobectomy.

389
00:17:30,930 --> 00:17:32,710
Gunderson. Isn't he a little green?

390
00:17:32,735 --> 00:17:35,395
Yeah. He'll probably push the wrong
button and start a robot rebellion.

391
00:17:35,570 --> 00:17:36,830
Can you assist?

392
00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:38,530
I could shuffle some stuff around.

393
00:17:38,570 --> 00:17:40,580
Great. Problem solved.

394
00:17:40,620 --> 00:17:42,800
I do need you to write
that memo to the board, though.

395
00:17:43,450 --> 00:17:44,380
What memo?

396
00:17:44,405 --> 00:17:46,774
"Latest Practices in Lean
Hospital Process Management."

397
00:17:47,100 --> 00:17:48,710
Oh, that memo.

398
00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:50,067
The one you were supposed to write.

399
00:17:50,117 --> 00:17:52,597
- Now that I'm bailing Gunderson out...
- You don't have the time.

400
00:17:53,846 --> 00:17:55,236
Let me guess, it's due...

401
00:17:55,279 --> 00:17:57,059
- Tomorrow.
- What a coincidence.

402
00:17:57,084 --> 00:17:59,312
Now I can't take your mom out to dinner.

403
00:18:00,349 --> 00:18:01,519
OR awaits.

404
00:18:05,730 --> 00:18:07,820
Before I have you sign this,
I need to tell you

405
00:18:07,860 --> 00:18:09,820
about the risks
of gastric sleeve surgery.

406
00:18:09,870 --> 00:18:11,610
- Yeah, okay.
- Okay.

407
00:18:11,650 --> 00:18:13,260
One, acid reflux.

408
00:18:13,300 --> 00:18:15,417
Two, vitamin or iron deficiency.

409
00:18:15,442 --> 00:18:16,705
Three, hernias.

410
00:18:16,730 --> 00:18:18,867
Four, internal bleeding
during surgery or afterwards.

411
00:18:18,892 --> 00:18:20,683
- That doesn't sound good.
- It's not.

412
00:18:20,750 --> 00:18:22,880
Five, surgical wound infection.

413
00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:24,230
Six, fatal blood clots.

414
00:18:24,270 --> 00:18:26,400
- Fatal?
- Yeah, like a pulmonary embolism.

415
00:18:26,450 --> 00:18:28,010
Oxygen is blocked from your lungs,

416
00:18:28,060 --> 00:18:29,091
and you start to suffocate.

417
00:18:29,273 --> 00:18:30,943
Seven, sepsis leading to organ failure.

418
00:18:30,968 --> 00:18:32,578
- Wait. Hold on.
- I've changed my mind.

419
00:18:32,603 --> 00:18:34,733
So have I. We're not doing this.

420
00:18:38,110 --> 00:18:40,102
Guess you don't need
to hear about number eight.

421
00:18:45,446 --> 00:18:48,096
You have put that girl's life
at risk by telling her that.

422
00:18:48,121 --> 00:18:49,471
I did what I was supposed to.

423
00:18:49,496 --> 00:18:51,326
I listed all the possible complications.

424
00:18:51,351 --> 00:18:53,841
- Did you say how unlikely each one was?
- No, but...

425
00:18:53,866 --> 00:18:55,089
Or explain that many were

426
00:18:55,113 --> 00:18:56,369
- a complication of any surgery?
- I didn't think!

427
00:18:56,393 --> 00:18:58,304
Or that this was a
relatively safe surgery?

428
00:18:58,329 --> 00:19:00,679
- This is unfair.
- Stop interrupting me.

429
00:19:00,704 --> 00:19:02,184
You're interrupting me.

430
00:19:02,209 --> 00:19:04,349
I am the attending.

431
00:19:04,530 --> 00:19:06,750
I have tried complimenting you,

432
00:19:06,790 --> 00:19:07,964
but that didn't work.

433
00:19:07,989 --> 00:19:10,066
I have also tried ignoring you,
but that also didn't work.

434
00:19:10,091 --> 00:19:12,661
But I am required
to keep teaching you, though,

435
00:19:12,686 --> 00:19:14,516
so you will have to go back to learning

436
00:19:14,541 --> 00:19:16,151
by observing only.

437
00:19:16,370 --> 00:19:18,330
You will not bother me.

438
00:19:18,370 --> 00:19:19,940
You will not say a word,

439
00:19:19,980 --> 00:19:22,290
either in surgery
or in front of the patient.

440
00:19:31,340 --> 00:19:32,446
You're quiet.

441
00:19:34,430 --> 00:19:36,242
I can't stop thinking about Ronit.

442
00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:40,660
If her doctor had
only taken her seriously.

443
00:19:40,685 --> 00:19:42,645
Imagine trying to plan a wedding

444
00:19:42,670 --> 00:19:45,100
while she's in chemo and he's
recovering from a broken hip.

445
00:19:45,125 --> 00:19:47,255
Who cares about their wedding planning?
She could die.

446
00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:49,280
- They care.
- Well, they shouldn't.

447
00:19:49,305 --> 00:19:51,005
Marriage is an outdated institution

448
00:19:51,030 --> 00:19:53,990
that was invented
as a property transaction,

449
00:19:54,015 --> 00:19:55,715
not as an expression of love.

450
00:19:55,740 --> 00:19:57,221
How people feel about it now is...

451
00:19:58,670 --> 00:19:59,760
That's all that matters.

452
00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:01,760
Well, sometimes our feelings trap us

453
00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:04,500
in conventional ways of thinking.

454
00:20:04,550 --> 00:20:07,231
Like, Rashi says
that most of the Israelites

455
00:20:07,289 --> 00:20:09,469
stayed enslaved in Egypt
because it's all they knew.

456
00:20:09,494 --> 00:20:11,844
Are you seriously comparing
a loving marriage to slavery?

457
00:20:11,979 --> 00:20:14,809
Both were invented as a means
of exchanging human chattel.

458
00:20:14,834 --> 00:20:17,194
That is offensive on so many levels.

459
00:20:17,219 --> 00:20:19,439
And I doubt it's what Rashi,
whoever that is,

460
00:20:19,516 --> 00:20:21,346
meant when he wrote that parable.

461
00:20:21,371 --> 00:20:22,901
It's a Midrash, not a parable.

462
00:20:23,023 --> 00:20:24,463
Well, you sure know a lot about Judaism

463
00:20:24,488 --> 00:20:25,928
for someone who isn't Jewish.

464
00:20:25,953 --> 00:20:27,433
Okay, I'm not a practicing Jew,

465
00:20:27,458 --> 00:20:29,028
but I don't have to share
my life story with a patient.

466
00:20:29,053 --> 00:20:31,793
Why didn't you just say,
"I was raised Jewish, but I don't"...

467
00:20:31,818 --> 00:20:32,908
[INHALES SHARPLY]

468
00:20:33,140 --> 00:20:34,675
Hold on. I'll get you a bandage.

469
00:20:38,580 --> 00:20:39,580
Here.

470
00:20:43,590 --> 00:20:45,460
I don't feel like cooking anymore.

471
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:47,550
I'm going home.

472
00:20:50,980 --> 00:20:53,200
[DOOR OPENS, CLOSES]

473
00:20:57,380 --> 00:20:58,900
What are you still doing here?

474
00:20:58,950 --> 00:21:01,340
Aaron and I are going out to dinner.

475
00:21:01,390 --> 00:21:02,690
And salsa dancing.

476
00:21:03,137 --> 00:21:04,407
You dance salsa?

477
00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:06,610
You dance salsa?

478
00:21:06,650 --> 00:21:09,390
My Spanish teacher got me into it.

479
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:10,700
You have a Spanish teacher?

480
00:21:10,740 --> 00:21:12,310
She could actually be a Spanish teacher.

481
00:21:12,350 --> 00:21:14,270
Habla muy bueno.

482
00:21:14,310 --> 00:21:16,230
- [EILEEN] Ah, bien, actually.
- Bien, actually.

483
00:21:16,270 --> 00:21:19,970
So, I was doing research
for this very urgent memo,

484
00:21:20,010 --> 00:21:23,890
and I came upon this great
article on Lean Practices

485
00:21:23,930 --> 00:21:25,980
in the Argentinian Journal
for Hospital Administration,

486
00:21:26,020 --> 00:21:27,370
and it was in Spanish.

487
00:21:27,410 --> 00:21:29,200
So I translated it for him.

488
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:30,940
So she translated it for me

489
00:21:30,980 --> 00:21:34,330
and had some great ideas
for the memo itself

490
00:21:34,380 --> 00:21:37,120
and saved me hours of work.

491
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:39,865
Oh, don't wait up tonight, hon.

492
00:21:44,120 --> 00:21:45,430
[ASHER] With an open surgery,

493
00:21:45,470 --> 00:21:47,080
Park and I can get more of the tumors.

494
00:21:47,130 --> 00:21:50,390
Laparoscopic surgery lowers
the risk of complications,

495
00:21:50,430 --> 00:21:52,040
which would allow her
to start chemo sooner.

496
00:21:53,090 --> 00:21:54,714
Ronit's pre-op labs.

497
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:58,400
- Hey, Jordan.
- Hey, Jerome.

498
00:21:58,440 --> 00:21:59,716
How's Grandma E?

499
00:21:59,756 --> 00:22:01,320
Doctor said she'll recover fine.

500
00:22:01,360 --> 00:22:02,930
Whether they'll recover
from me second-guessing

501
00:22:02,970 --> 00:22:04,670
everything they're doing
is another question.

502
00:22:04,710 --> 00:22:07,393
I'm glad to hear it. On both counts.

503
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:11,670
What was that?

504
00:22:13,500 --> 00:22:14,984
We had a fight last night.

505
00:22:17,940 --> 00:22:19,380
All right, this weekend,

506
00:22:19,420 --> 00:22:21,657
I found a box in Jerome's drawer.

507
00:22:22,250 --> 00:22:24,340
I'm pretty sure it was a ring box.

508
00:22:24,380 --> 00:22:26,829
Tomorrow night's the second
anniversary of our first date.

509
00:22:27,470 --> 00:22:28,730
I think he's going to propose.

510
00:22:28,780 --> 00:22:32,260
Or I should say, was.
I don't know about now.

511
00:22:32,300 --> 00:22:35,260
- But isn't that what you wanted?
- No, it is.

512
00:22:35,310 --> 00:22:37,530
There's just something
about the ceremony of it all,

513
00:22:37,570 --> 00:22:40,220
the ancient rituals,
it just feels... icky.

514
00:22:40,270 --> 00:22:42,270
Ancient rituals?

515
00:22:42,310 --> 00:22:45,230
We're talking about you getting married,
not sacrificing a goat.

516
00:22:45,270 --> 00:22:47,933
I worry we'd only be doing it
because we're supposed to.

517
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:52,354
In Brooklyn, my path
was laid out for me.

518
00:22:53,550 --> 00:22:56,770
Study the Talmud,
get married, have kids.

519
00:22:56,795 --> 00:22:59,065
I didn't really have a choice.

520
00:22:59,106 --> 00:23:00,716
What if this is the same thing?

521
00:23:01,496 --> 00:23:03,406
Do you love Jerome?

522
00:23:03,431 --> 00:23:05,911
- Absolutely.
- Then you do have a choice.

523
00:23:05,936 --> 00:23:08,116
You can make a life
with the man you love

524
00:23:08,141 --> 00:23:10,491
or find another path without him.

525
00:23:18,470 --> 00:23:21,300
Bariatric surgery is conducted
hundreds of thousands

526
00:23:21,325 --> 00:23:23,585
of times a year
in United States hospitals.

527
00:23:23,610 --> 00:23:25,690
But what Ms. Lukaitis talked about,

528
00:23:25,715 --> 00:23:27,495
the bleeding, the clots...

529
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,780
Serious complications are very rare.

530
00:23:30,010 --> 00:23:31,140
How rare?

531
00:23:31,190 --> 00:23:33,230
Based on my surgical record,

532
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,320
site infection rate is less than 1.5%,

533
00:23:35,370 --> 00:23:38,280
and I would identify it early
and treat it well.

534
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,070
Excess bleeding is less than 1%,

535
00:23:40,110 --> 00:23:42,196
and death is 1/20th of that.

536
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,032
What do you think, Mom?

537
00:23:49,990 --> 00:23:51,250
I don't know.

538
00:23:51,416 --> 00:23:53,166
I don't want her to be ashamed.

539
00:23:55,439 --> 00:23:56,794
Last year...

540
00:23:57,636 --> 00:24:01,590
she was suicidal because of
the teasing and the bullying.

541
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,718
And I was too, when I was her age.

542
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:06,595
We got counseling

543
00:24:06,807 --> 00:24:10,637
and were really in a place
where she loved herself,

544
00:24:10,662 --> 00:24:12,792
and I don't want you to lose that.

545
00:24:15,390 --> 00:24:18,090
I was diagnosed with ASD
when I was five years old.

546
00:24:18,115 --> 00:24:20,075
[SHAUN] That's not relevant.
And I told you not...

547
00:24:20,100 --> 00:24:22,660
Shaun, I think they want to
hear what Charlie has to say.

548
00:24:29,460 --> 00:24:30,460
Thank you.

549
00:24:32,030 --> 00:24:33,340
My brain...

550
00:24:33,380 --> 00:24:35,990
it doesn't process emotional signals

551
00:24:36,030 --> 00:24:37,730
like other people's brains.

552
00:24:37,780 --> 00:24:40,000
Same with Lucy's brain with hunger.

553
00:24:41,193 --> 00:24:43,023
My parents wanted what was best for me,

554
00:24:43,048 --> 00:24:45,308
but my mom, she didn't want me
to feel different.

555
00:24:45,333 --> 00:24:48,283
So she was against me
having an in-school aid.

556
00:24:48,308 --> 00:24:51,398
Thought it would stigmatize me,
but my dad convinced her.

557
00:24:51,423 --> 00:24:53,083
They found a great aid

558
00:24:53,270 --> 00:24:56,604
that helped me learn
to navigate the world.

559
00:24:57,010 --> 00:24:59,648
This surgery won't stigmatize
your daughter.

560
00:25:00,043 --> 00:25:02,393
It will give her
what she needs to thrive.

561
00:25:04,213 --> 00:25:05,905
Everyone needs help sometimes.

562
00:25:06,777 --> 00:25:08,427
Let Dr. Murphy help you.

563
00:25:14,420 --> 00:25:15,770
Mom, please.

564
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:20,170
Yeah.

565
00:25:21,553 --> 00:25:22,553
Okay.

566
00:25:25,300 --> 00:25:26,592
Good job.

567
00:25:31,036 --> 00:25:32,386
[DR. PARK] After radical debulking,

568
00:25:32,411 --> 00:25:34,099
I don't see any obvious gross tumor.

569
00:25:35,383 --> 00:25:38,562
[ASHER] Assessing
abdominal organs and spleen.

570
00:25:40,773 --> 00:25:43,067
There are sub-centimeter
lesions on her liver.

571
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:45,736
[DR. PARK] Infiltrative
hepatic metastasis.

572
00:25:48,843 --> 00:25:50,153
Check her diaphragm.

573
00:25:56,106 --> 00:25:57,626
[ASHER] It's everywhere.

574
00:25:57,730 --> 00:26:00,470
[DR. PARK] She probably only
has a couple months, if that.

575
00:26:02,843 --> 00:26:04,103
Let's close.

576
00:26:08,506 --> 00:26:10,726
What exactly is your motivation here?

577
00:26:10,830 --> 00:26:14,260
Are you trying to piss me off?
Mark your territory?

578
00:26:14,310 --> 00:26:15,310
What are you talking about?

579
00:26:15,350 --> 00:26:17,267
You, dating my mom.

580
00:26:17,750 --> 00:26:19,880
[CHUCKLES] You think this is about you?

581
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,315
It's crossed my mind.

582
00:26:21,340 --> 00:26:23,115
Are you out of your mind?

583
00:26:23,140 --> 00:26:24,660
Oh, come on. What do you
have in common with her?

584
00:26:25,476 --> 00:26:26,649
My mom's...

585
00:26:27,360 --> 00:26:28,410
She's, uh...

586
00:26:28,970 --> 00:26:29,970
Yes?

587
00:26:30,540 --> 00:26:31,540
Dull.

588
00:26:32,630 --> 00:26:34,535
- My mom's dull.
- No, she's not.

589
00:26:36,136 --> 00:26:39,707
She's a great person, a loving mother.

590
00:26:40,900 --> 00:26:42,510
But she was a homemaker.

591
00:26:42,550 --> 00:26:44,770
Not exactly the world's
most interesting woman.

592
00:26:44,820 --> 00:26:45,950
[SCOFFS]

593
00:26:45,990 --> 00:26:48,340
Let me tell you something
about your mom.

594
00:26:48,380 --> 00:26:51,300
She learned Spanish
so she could read Don Quixote

595
00:26:51,340 --> 00:26:53,095
in the original. Who does that?

596
00:26:53,189 --> 00:26:55,929
She's seen every movie
in the Criterion Collection.

597
00:26:55,954 --> 00:26:57,304
That's five stars right there.

598
00:26:57,329 --> 00:27:00,159
She buys The New York Times
in paper form

599
00:27:00,239 --> 00:27:01,669
so she can do the crossword,

600
00:27:01,773 --> 00:27:03,723
which she does through Saturday.

601
00:27:03,748 --> 00:27:05,858
I don't even get past Wednesday.

602
00:27:07,220 --> 00:27:09,611
- She does?
- Yes, she does.

603
00:27:10,393 --> 00:27:12,213
Maybe you should get to know
your mom a little bit better.

604
00:27:12,238 --> 00:27:13,628
- [SCOFFS]
- I certainly will.

605
00:27:14,630 --> 00:27:16,150
Thrilled for you two.

606
00:27:16,323 --> 00:27:17,983
Plus, the sex is amazing.

607
00:27:27,250 --> 00:27:28,714
I want to marry you.

608
00:27:32,300 --> 00:27:34,870
It won't be a Jewish wedding, but...

609
00:27:36,350 --> 00:27:38,891
der mentsh trakht un got lakht.

610
00:27:42,313 --> 00:27:44,480
"Man plans, God laughs."

611
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,360
But if a Beit Din,

612
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,616
a council of three rabbis,
approves your conversion,

613
00:27:56,930 --> 00:27:58,930
then there are only a couple steps left.

614
00:27:58,980 --> 00:28:01,413
The big one being a ritual bath.

615
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:06,770
You can have a Jewish wedding here.

616
00:28:09,550 --> 00:28:10,990
I'll set it all up for you.

617
00:28:13,820 --> 00:28:15,260
I was raised Hasidic.

618
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,350
[IN HEBREW] You've done this
with strength.

619
00:28:22,390 --> 00:28:23,390
You will be blessed.

620
00:28:35,100 --> 00:28:37,710
[STEVE CRYING]

621
00:28:42,540 --> 00:28:44,810
[IN ENGLISH] I'm sorry.
I just can't take this anymore.

622
00:28:44,850 --> 00:28:46,680
- No. No.
- I have to rock him to sleep.

623
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,240
No, that is the worst thing we could do.

624
00:28:49,290 --> 00:28:51,250
It will teach Steve that
if he cries for ten minutes,

625
00:28:51,290 --> 00:28:53,730
he will get rewarded
with a hug from Mom.

626
00:28:53,770 --> 00:28:55,550
Steve isn't a test subject.

627
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:59,730
He's our baby, and we need
to be flexible with him.

628
00:28:59,780 --> 00:29:02,080
He will be fine.

629
00:29:02,130 --> 00:29:03,520
I'm not sure I will be fine.

630
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,596
This is so hard.

631
00:29:05,646 --> 00:29:07,220
And you have surgery tomorrow.

632
00:29:07,260 --> 00:29:08,960
Don't you need your sleep?

633
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:13,880
We should focus
on how much better it will be

634
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:15,970
for all three of us in a few weeks.

635
00:29:17,620 --> 00:29:18,660
Okay.

636
00:29:18,710 --> 00:29:20,620
[CRYING CONTINUES]

637
00:29:27,530 --> 00:29:29,880
Thank you for doing this,
Rabbi Benjamin.

638
00:29:29,905 --> 00:29:32,605
I've adored Scott and Ronit
since I met them last year.

639
00:29:32,969 --> 00:29:34,359
I'd do anything for them.

640
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,130
Now, time for some Jewish math.

641
00:29:38,340 --> 00:29:41,990
300 gallons is about 150 se'ah.

642
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:45,040
We need 40 se'ah of natural water

643
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:48,520
and a wall between the
natural water and tap water.

644
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,260
And we aren't getting rainwater in here,

645
00:29:51,310 --> 00:29:54,140
but Rav Kook and the Ben Ish Chai

646
00:29:54,180 --> 00:29:56,400
wrote that we can use ice,

647
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:57,570
so we're going to need a lot.

648
00:29:57,620 --> 00:30:00,360
We have a giant ice maker
on every floor.

649
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:01,750
[SPEAKING HEBREW]

650
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:05,020
Where do you go to shul, Asher?

651
00:30:06,710 --> 00:30:08,190
Uh, I don't.

652
00:30:10,670 --> 00:30:13,720
Or, you know, not since I came out.

653
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,420
You can't be gay and Jewish?

654
00:30:15,460 --> 00:30:19,730
Well, aside from the explicit
prohibitions in Vayikra 18 and 20,

655
00:30:19,770 --> 00:30:21,080
there's the Noahide laws

656
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,640
and the sin of Sodom,
as explained in Sanhedrin.

657
00:30:23,690 --> 00:30:25,250
You should brush up on Sanhedrin.

658
00:30:25,300 --> 00:30:26,990
According to the Midrash,

659
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:29,040
the sin of Sodom was cruelty
toward strangers, not homosexuality.

660
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:30,080
[CHUCKLES]

661
00:30:31,260 --> 00:30:32,910
Is an Orthodox rabbi telling me

662
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,180
that the real sodomites
are the homophobes?

663
00:30:35,220 --> 00:30:36,985
If the Midrash fits...

664
00:30:37,573 --> 00:30:39,793
You are a Jew, Asher.
Whether you want to be or not.

665
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,970
Anti-Semites don't give you a pass

666
00:30:42,010 --> 00:30:44,140
because you have no mezuzah
on your door,

667
00:30:44,190 --> 00:30:46,010
so might as well get
something positive out of it.

668
00:30:46,060 --> 00:30:48,750
Respectfully, Rabbi,
I have everything I need in my life.

669
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,800
5,000 years of tradition,

670
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:52,890
and you can't find anything of value?

671
00:30:52,930 --> 00:30:54,890
The Torah isn't all or nothing.

672
00:30:54,940 --> 00:30:57,477
Try lighting some candles
on a Friday night.

673
00:30:57,501 --> 00:30:59,031
Take a little break on a Saturday.

674
00:30:59,071 --> 00:31:00,771
Put some spare change in
the Tzedakah box for the poor.

675
00:31:00,811 --> 00:31:02,094
Read Rambam...

676
00:31:02,771 --> 00:31:04,012
or Philip Roth.

677
00:31:07,731 --> 00:31:09,171
I do love bagels.

678
00:31:09,211 --> 00:31:12,651
They're super carby, but I can
always scoop out the middle, right?

679
00:31:12,691 --> 00:31:15,091
Heresy. And yet, a start.

680
00:31:15,131 --> 00:31:16,091
[CHUCKLES]

681
00:31:18,131 --> 00:31:19,391
Ahh.

682
00:31:19,441 --> 00:31:20,661
Now let's make a mikveh.

683
00:31:20,701 --> 00:31:26,451
♪ Ohh, ohh, ohh... ♪

684
00:31:26,491 --> 00:31:27,751
[IMPERCEPTIBLE]

685
00:31:27,791 --> 00:31:33,151
♪ Ohh, ohh, ohh ♪

686
00:31:33,191 --> 00:31:35,281
♪ Oh, oh ♪

687
00:31:35,321 --> 00:31:41,291
♪ You save my life ♪

688
00:31:43,071 --> 00:31:49,991
♪ You take the pain away... ♪

689
00:31:54,211 --> 00:31:58,001
[PRAYING IN HEBREW]

690
00:32:08,791 --> 00:32:11,101
♪ Oh, oh ♪

691
00:32:11,141 --> 00:32:18,151
♪ You bring me 'round ♪

692
00:32:18,191 --> 00:32:24,591
♪ When I'm down ♪

693
00:32:25,681 --> 00:32:29,811
♪ You take my ♪

694
00:32:29,861 --> 00:32:34,861
♪ Breath away... ♪

695
00:32:36,301 --> 00:32:37,431
[IMPERCEPTIBLE]

696
00:32:43,391 --> 00:32:49,661
♪ You make me feel ♪

697
00:32:50,571 --> 00:32:52,661
♪ Alive ♪

698
00:32:52,711 --> 00:32:55,061
♪ One, two ♪

699
00:32:55,101 --> 00:32:57,061
♪ One, two, three, four ♪

700
00:32:57,101 --> 00:33:04,591
♪ Ohh, ohh, ohh ♪

701
00:33:04,631 --> 00:33:11,641
♪ You make me feel ♪

702
00:33:11,681 --> 00:33:14,291
♪ Alive ♪

703
00:33:14,341 --> 00:33:16,991
[SHAUN] Placing the final staples.

704
00:33:17,031 --> 00:33:19,951
[JARED] Okay.
Removing the amputated stomach.

705
00:33:19,975 --> 00:33:21,096
[SHAUN YAWNS]

706
00:33:21,131 --> 00:33:22,466
[JARED] You okay?

707
00:33:22,506 --> 00:33:25,278
[SHAUN] I got less than the
optimal amount of sleep last night,

708
00:33:25,978 --> 00:33:27,906
but I am fine to operate.

709
00:33:28,949 --> 00:33:32,831
[JARED] Partial stomach is removed.

710
00:33:32,881 --> 00:33:34,141
[ALARM BEEPING]

711
00:33:34,181 --> 00:33:37,581
[SHAUN] Heart rate's 115.
BP is 146 over 93.

712
00:33:37,621 --> 00:33:39,101
[JARED] Splenic infarct?

713
00:33:39,141 --> 00:33:41,411
[SHAUN] No,
it is baseline color and well perfused.

714
00:33:41,453 --> 00:33:43,151
- [CHARLIE] It could be an intestinal...
- [SHAUN] No, it couldn't.

715
00:33:43,191 --> 00:33:44,548
[CHARLIE] Why not?

716
00:33:45,018 --> 00:33:46,307
[JARED] Charlie, we don't have time to
answer your questions

717
00:33:46,331 --> 00:33:47,452
right now, okay?

718
00:33:47,501 --> 00:33:48,501
[CHARLIE] That makes sense.

719
00:33:53,291 --> 00:33:55,811
[SHAUN] Submerge the remaining
stomach in saline.

720
00:33:55,861 --> 00:33:57,731
Shoot air in from the endoscope.

721
00:33:57,771 --> 00:33:59,601
That will tell us what the problem is.

722
00:34:03,171 --> 00:34:04,561
It's a leak.

723
00:34:04,601 --> 00:34:06,741
We need to reinforce our
staple line with sutures and...

724
00:34:06,781 --> 00:34:07,951
[ALARMS BEEPING]

725
00:34:08,001 --> 00:34:09,701
[JARED] Heart rate 128. BP 170.

726
00:34:09,741 --> 00:34:12,481
[SHAUN] 4-0 Vicryls, fibrin glue.

727
00:34:12,521 --> 00:34:14,221
[NURSE HAWKS] Get the 4-0's
from the suture cart.

728
00:34:14,271 --> 00:34:15,881
Why aren't they on the back table?

729
00:34:15,921 --> 00:34:17,621
[CHARLIE] I read in The Journal
for Bariatric Surgery

730
00:34:17,661 --> 00:34:18,921
that they were rarely used, so...

731
00:34:18,971 --> 00:34:20,271
[SHAUN] You should have
asked an attending.

732
00:34:20,311 --> 00:34:22,401
I know she can be quite unrelenting,

733
00:34:22,451 --> 00:34:23,711
but you should not make changes

734
00:34:23,751 --> 00:34:25,321
based on the instructions
of a medical student.

735
00:34:25,361 --> 00:34:27,631
- Starting sutures.
- [CHARLIE] It's not her fault or mine.

736
00:34:27,671 --> 00:34:29,021
You have the stitches now, so...

737
00:34:29,061 --> 00:34:31,201
I am trying to concentrate.

738
00:34:31,241 --> 00:34:32,761
- Suturing.
- [CHARLIE] I need to explain myself!

739
00:34:32,811 --> 00:34:34,501
[SHAUN] Stop talking.
You're distracting me.

740
00:34:34,551 --> 00:34:36,241
[CHARLIE] I wanted to impress you.
It's a top journal...

741
00:34:36,291 --> 00:34:37,681
[SHAUN] Get out of the OR!

742
00:34:37,721 --> 00:34:39,161
[ALARM CONTINUES BEEPING]

743
00:34:41,291 --> 00:34:42,731
Get out right now.

744
00:34:50,221 --> 00:34:51,261
Goggles.

745
00:34:56,741 --> 00:34:58,091
[ALARM STOPS]

746
00:34:59,011 --> 00:35:00,749
No more anastomotic leak.

747
00:35:02,361 --> 00:35:03,621
Let's close.

748
00:35:11,281 --> 00:35:13,451
Lucy, we'll keep you here
for a couple of days,

749
00:35:13,501 --> 00:35:15,071
and then you'll be good to go home.

750
00:35:15,111 --> 00:35:16,981
When will I start to lose weight?

751
00:35:17,021 --> 00:35:20,641
You can expect to lose
five to fifteen pounds per week

752
00:35:20,681 --> 00:35:22,729
over the next few months.

753
00:35:31,431 --> 00:35:32,431
[DOOR OPENS]

754
00:35:35,261 --> 00:35:36,368
You look nice.

755
00:35:36,987 --> 00:35:38,077
Going out?

756
00:35:38,671 --> 00:35:39,671
Maybe.

757
00:35:42,271 --> 00:35:44,401
I could tell that you were uncomfortable

758
00:35:44,441 --> 00:35:46,531
when I saw you with Aaron.

759
00:35:46,571 --> 00:35:50,541
And I think I knew you were
uncomfortable even before then.

760
00:35:50,581 --> 00:35:54,344
But I just was having so much fun, I...

761
00:35:54,891 --> 00:35:56,241
It was unfair of me.

762
00:35:56,281 --> 00:35:58,241
- And I think that maybe I should just...
- Mom.

763
00:36:00,411 --> 00:36:01,643
It was unfair of me.

764
00:36:02,631 --> 00:36:03,641
Go have fun.

765
00:36:04,664 --> 00:36:06,014
Are you sure?

766
00:36:06,901 --> 00:36:08,031
Yeah.

767
00:36:10,421 --> 00:36:12,654
Thank you, honey.

768
00:36:18,611 --> 00:36:21,571
Why didn't you ever tell me
about learning Spanish

769
00:36:22,571 --> 00:36:25,871
or salsa dancing or anything?

770
00:36:27,181 --> 00:36:28,670
You never asked.

771
00:36:30,531 --> 00:36:32,757
I guess I never thought
there was much to hear.

772
00:36:39,191 --> 00:36:41,021
You and Dad...

773
00:36:41,061 --> 00:36:44,551
He always seemed so in charge,

774
00:36:44,591 --> 00:36:46,104
and you just...

775
00:36:47,511 --> 00:36:48,681
went along.

776
00:36:51,941 --> 00:36:55,301
I'm sure it did seem that way,

777
00:36:55,341 --> 00:36:56,781
because I knew it was important to him.

778
00:36:56,821 --> 00:36:58,951
He was old school.

779
00:36:58,991 --> 00:37:00,452
But at its heart...

780
00:37:01,651 --> 00:37:03,330
it was a partnership.

781
00:37:05,221 --> 00:37:06,416
I didn't know.

782
00:37:08,181 --> 00:37:13,401
You have always been
so ambitious, driven.

783
00:37:13,441 --> 00:37:16,661
Is that because you didn't
want to be someone who just...

784
00:37:18,231 --> 00:37:19,429
went along?

785
00:37:21,671 --> 00:37:22,671
Maybe.

786
00:37:26,461 --> 00:37:28,813
Is that why you and Clay broke up?

787
00:37:29,631 --> 00:37:32,031
He hasn't called since I've been here.

788
00:37:32,071 --> 00:37:34,527
None of his clothes are in the closet.

789
00:37:40,251 --> 00:37:41,910
He wanted to get married.

790
00:37:44,341 --> 00:37:45,664
And I wasn't sure.

791
00:37:47,611 --> 00:37:48,911
So I did my usual.

792
00:37:48,961 --> 00:37:52,587
I just avoided him
and I focused on work.

793
00:37:54,351 --> 00:37:56,011
And he took the job in Chicago.

794
00:37:58,401 --> 00:38:00,136
I'm so sorry.

795
00:38:06,191 --> 00:38:07,644
I love my job.

796
00:38:09,151 --> 00:38:11,021
I like who I am.

797
00:38:11,071 --> 00:38:12,941
I don't need to get married again.

798
00:38:15,331 --> 00:38:18,601
[VOICE BREAKING] But I don't
always like being alone.

799
00:38:23,341 --> 00:38:27,131
I am always here for you.

800
00:38:46,281 --> 00:38:48,101
Charlie Lukaitis won't listen to me.

801
00:38:48,151 --> 00:38:52,461
She is putting patients at risk.

802
00:38:52,501 --> 00:38:55,551
She should finish her rotation
at another hospital.

803
00:38:55,591 --> 00:38:57,501
I cannot work with her anymore.

804
00:39:00,331 --> 00:39:03,825
Well, apparently she can't
work with you, either.

805
00:39:06,691 --> 00:39:08,371
She filed a complaint against you.

806
00:39:22,011 --> 00:39:24,011
Thanks for the ride.

807
00:39:24,051 --> 00:39:25,921
I really enjoyed our conversation today.

808
00:39:25,971 --> 00:39:27,101
Yeah.

809
00:39:27,141 --> 00:39:28,808
Yeah. Me too.

810
00:39:29,621 --> 00:39:31,478
Asher, when was the last time
you wrapped tefillin?

811
00:39:35,281 --> 00:39:37,281
Maybe another time.

812
00:39:37,331 --> 00:39:40,461
Sorry, I just have an important
dinner to get to with my boyfriend.

813
00:39:40,501 --> 00:39:42,906
I think he's going to pop the question.

814
00:39:43,461 --> 00:39:45,161
And if he doesn't, I will.

815
00:39:46,211 --> 00:39:47,251
Mazel tov.

816
00:39:47,291 --> 00:39:48,578
Thank you.

817
00:39:49,901 --> 00:39:51,781
- Until next time.
- Yeah.

818
00:40:08,011 --> 00:40:09,711
[GLASS SHATTERS IN DISTANCE]

819
00:40:09,751 --> 00:40:11,491
- [BENJAMIN] Hey! What are you doing?
- [MAN] Get out of here, man!

820
00:40:11,541 --> 00:40:13,411
[INDISTINCT SHOUTING]

821
00:40:15,971 --> 00:40:17,801
You're desecrating a house of worship.

822
00:40:17,851 --> 00:40:19,541
- [MEN SHOUTING]
- What's going on?

823
00:40:19,591 --> 00:40:20,811
I've asked them to leave.

824
00:40:26,241 --> 00:40:27,771
Go.

825
00:40:27,811 --> 00:40:30,081
Go, and there won't be a problem.

826
00:40:30,121 --> 00:40:31,251
What do you care?

827
00:40:31,291 --> 00:40:32,831
He's a Jew too.

828
00:40:36,121 --> 00:40:38,171
Yeah, I am a Jew.

829
00:40:38,211 --> 00:40:39,561
A gay one, in fact.

830
00:40:39,611 --> 00:40:40,911
And I'm calling the cops.

831
00:40:40,961 --> 00:40:43,481
[LINE RINGING]

832
00:40:43,521 --> 00:40:44,921
Go!

833
00:40:44,961 --> 00:40:46,701
[RINGING CONTINUES]

834
00:40:51,971 --> 00:40:53,581
Are you okay?

835
00:40:53,621 --> 00:40:55,478
Yeah. I'll call our security.

836
00:40:56,361 --> 00:40:58,106
- Are you sure?
- Yeah.

837
00:41:00,761 --> 00:41:02,193
Now go get engaged.

838
00:41:04,111 --> 00:41:06,851
[LEONARD COHEN'S "WHO BY FIRE" PLAYS]

839
00:41:16,821 --> 00:41:20,431
♪ And who by fire ♪

840
00:41:20,471 --> 00:41:22,781
♪ Who by water ♪

841
00:41:23,911 --> 00:41:26,961
♪ Who in the sunshine ♪

842
00:41:27,001 --> 00:41:30,051
♪ Who in the nighttime ♪

843
00:41:30,091 --> 00:41:33,181
♪ Who in your merry Merry month of May ♪

844
00:41:33,231 --> 00:41:35,791
♪ Who by very slow decay ♪

845
00:41:35,841 --> 00:41:39,451
♪ And who shall I say ♪

846
00:41:41,541 --> 00:41:43,061
♪ Is calling? ♪

847
00:41:48,501 --> 00:41:51,981
♪ And who by brave assent ♪

848
00:41:52,031 --> 00:41:55,071
♪ Who by accident ♪

849
00:41:55,121 --> 00:41:56,641
♪ Who in solitude... ♪

850
00:41:56,681 --> 00:41:58,691
[SIRENS WAILING]

851
00:41:58,731 --> 00:42:01,341
♪ Who in this mirror ♪

852
00:42:01,381 --> 00:42:04,301
♪ Who by his lady's command ♪

853
00:42:04,341 --> 00:42:07,481
♪ Who by his own hand ♪

854
00:42:07,521 --> 00:42:09,041
♪ Who in mortal chains... ♪

855
00:42:09,091 --> 00:42:10,611
[PRAYING IN HEBREW]

856
00:42:10,651 --> 00:42:13,401
[SONG CONTINUES] ♪ Who in power ♪

857
00:42:13,441 --> 00:42:17,361
♪ And who shall I say... ♪

858
00:42:17,401 --> 00:42:19,101
[THUNDER RUMBLES]

859
00:42:19,141 --> 00:42:20,451
♪ Is calling? ♪

860
00:42:31,071 --> 00:42:33,021
[CLOSING THEME MUSIC PLAYING]