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Previously on This Is Us...
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I just got six messages
from the adoption agency.
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We have a match.
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I free you from your "Jerry
Maguire at the U-Haul",
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what-if marriage
proposal that you made.
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Yeah, I don't think
I'm gonna take it back.
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Your life has really been
defined by your mothers.
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William told me everything
he knew about my birth mother.
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I'll never know much about her.
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There are things, Dr. Leigh,
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that I don't feel comfortable
talking to you about.
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I'm gonna make a change, and...
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find a Black therapist.
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Oh!
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Three pounds heavier.
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Hey, hey, you hear that, kid?
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Three pounds heavier than last year.
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He's still only in the 30th percentile.
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What's that supposed to mean?
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It means you've got a long
way to go to be average.
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Randall, just try to
be supportive, okay?
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Your brother's playing
football this year.
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He's gonna need the extra weight.
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Kev's going out for quarterback.
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Well, you boys are definitely
at the age where your bodies
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will start changing.
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Growth spurts. Added
muscle. Facial hair.
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Geez, Doc, would it kill you
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to have a Consumer Reports lying around?
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What is taking them so long?
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Stewart and Tonya will be
at the house in an hour.
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Stewart? I thought you
weren't talking to Stewart
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after the big breakup.
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He chose to be in my group project.
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Oh.
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He chose you.
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Interesting. Mm.
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- Oh.
- What happened
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- to the candies?
- What are you, six years old, nerd?
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At least I'm not built like
a six-year-old, dumb-ass.
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No, you guys just act like
a bunch of six-year-olds.
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- Ha-ha-ha! Ha!
- Dad!
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- Guys. Both of you.
- Come on, let's go to the car.
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Shotgun!
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Thanks.
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Not often do I send
parents off with three teens
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the exact same age going through puberty
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at the exact same time.
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I'm not a religious man,
but I'll pray for you.
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- Good luck.
- Mm-hmm.
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Hmm.
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- Yeah.
- Mm.
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I don't think of myself as
a therapist who works alone,
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I think of this as a... collaboration,
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like two songwriters.
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We will find your positive rhythms
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while minimizing any negative beats.
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- Uh-huh.
- Feel what I'm saying?
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Okay.
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I'm a proponent
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of CBT and CPT.
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CBT is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy,
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and CPT is Cognitive Processing Therapy.
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I'm sorry, are you frozen?
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No. No, I am not.
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That said, this isn't about me.
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You're gonna have to put in the work.
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I'm just here to help you find
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a deeper understanding of yourself
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and the loved ones around you.
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I... am so sorry.
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My wife had to run out.
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Downside of working from home, right?
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That's okay, man. Go ahead.
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Can you say hi?
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Hi.
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Hi.
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Oh, wow.
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I got three of those.
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Uh, this is my daughter, April.
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April, this is... I
can't tell you his name
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because of doctor-patient privilege.
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Excuse me.
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Potential patient.
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I don't mean to toot my own horn,
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but I put my foot up in these pancakes.
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Who wants some?
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- Please.
- Oh, yes.
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Thanks, Mom.
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- Put my foot in these pancakes...
- We heard.
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Yeah, I'm good with cereal.
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All right, well, y'all eat up, then.
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I don't want you late
for online school, okay?
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That's just a bad look.
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Made 'em from scratch.
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Yeah, a lot of love went into them
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- is all I'm saying.
- Oh, my God. Fine.
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Okay.
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- Morning.
- Morning, Dad.
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How is everybody?
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There's a lot of teen
attitude this morning.
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Yeah, one day you hung the moon,
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the next you're famine,
war and pestilence.
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Hey, um...
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I think I found my guy,
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- to replace Dr. Leigh.
- Oh, wow. That's great.
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So, did you talk about
family stuff, or...?
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Just generally.
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We, uh, we talked about
transracial identity.
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I'm having a longer Zoom
session with him today.
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But, uh, he checks all the boxes, Beth.
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He's cool, smart, funny,
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Black, a young father.
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We got a lot in common.
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- Young father?
- Hey, watch your mouth now.
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- Mm, mm.
- Mm-hmm.
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Hey. You barely touched the pancakes.
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You refuse to use cage-free eggs.
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- Tess, you need to eat.
- I had some yogurt. I'm good.
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Ugh. That girl is killing
me three times a day.
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Mm.
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Mmm.
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Damn, Beth, you put your
foot up in these pancakes.
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Thank God for you, baby.
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- Mm. Thank God for you.
- Mwah.
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Thank God for these pancakes.
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Hey.
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Geez, how many workouts
are you up to a day now?
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Two. Maybe two and a half. Why?
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- Curious. Me learning about you.
- Ah, yes.
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You know, I feel like lately
the half sessions are just me
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burning through crap I got going
on with my brother, you know?
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Not sure those are the
muscles you work on for that,
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but I am not a professional.
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Who brought those?
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Those are balloons from
your mom and Miguel.
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I thought you told 'em we're
not doing engaged engaged.
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No, I did. I did. I
told 'em the whole thing.
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But, you know, they're... old.
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So...
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Anyway, are you, um...
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What are we doing?
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We are doing a
nontraditional engagement,
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where the woman gets pregnant first
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and then the man moves in with her
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because of a global pandemic.
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Mm. That's right. Now it's...
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Now I remember. You know,
they really got to start
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making Hallmark cards for
people like us. You know?
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A-And you're-you're good
with... with where we are?
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Yeah.
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- You?
- Uh, yeah.
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Yes.
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Don't worry. These are
gluten-free and low-cal.
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- But no shirt, no service.
- I'm on it.
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What's going on here?
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Oh, wow.
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What?
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Uh...
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I think I just got the part.
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I mean, pending a-a good
meeting with the director,
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I-I got the part.
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The legal movie? The
lawyer with the glass eye?
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Yeah. Yeah, yeah. No, it's not...
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The-the title of the movie is Glass Eye.
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He's got two eyes just
like mine, made out of...
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- uh...
- I don't know
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what eyes are made out of.
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- But congratulations.
- This is... Thank you.
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Yeah, this is great.
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Um...
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Although I probably should, uh,
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stick to, like, just
straight-up lean chicken breast
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and water from here on out.
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I got to have my shirt off in the movie
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for a couple of scenes, love scenes.
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So I'm going straight-up
Gosling for this
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or Pitt in Fight Club or something.
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I don't know. I'm not...
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This is my agent. Sorry,
I have to take this.
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Um, I'm sorry about this.
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I'm-I'm gonna cook you
dinner, okay? I'll make dinner?
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Okay?
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I'm nervous.
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Yeah, I'm nervous, too.
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But I'm nervous and I'm excited.
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- What is that, like, nerve-cited?
- Yeah. Yeah.
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Remember, we're just meeting
a potential birth mother.
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- Right.
- All right? We're gonna get to know her.
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She's gonna get to know us.
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No expectations. Right?
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Now, am I looking for
her and her daughter
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or just Ellie?
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No, just Ellie.
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Someone's watching her daughter.
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Whose name is Willow, by the way.
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And she's eight years
old, just as a reminder.
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Babe.
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Oh, my gosh.
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Which mask should I wear?
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- You brought options?
- Yes.
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- Uh-huh.
- This one.
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And...
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Yeah.
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Ugh. Flowers.
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- What?
- Definitely the flowers.
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- Really?
- Yeah.
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I thought you would love this one.
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I love it. Wrong vibe.
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Okay. All right.
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Okay, kiss me.
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Okay. All right.
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Okay, uh...
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Gosh, Tobe, I want this so bad.
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I know.
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Now, are we in San Pee-dro or San Pay-dro?
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I-I don't want to come
off looking like a rube.
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- I think it's Pay-dro.
Yeah. - Pay-dro.
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- Pay-dro. San Pay-dro.
- Pay-dro. Yeah.
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- San Pay-dro.
- Kate and Toby?
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- Hi.
- Hi!
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- Hi, I'm-I'm Ellie.
- Hi!
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Hi.
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How nice to meet you.
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Yeah. Welcome to San Pee-dro.
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Pee-dro. Damn it.
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- 'Kay.
- Ha-ha!
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- That is an amazing mask.
- Oh.
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Stewart chose to be in your
project for a reason, Kate.
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He clearly still likes you.
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You think so?
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I have got snacks. Nothing healthy.
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Only the fun stuff,
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- including Funyuns.
- Mom.
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Bagel Bites.
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Stewart loves Bagel Bites.
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Oh. How could I forget?
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- Thanks, Mom.
- Yeah.
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Hi, Randall.
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- Hey.
- We're building a desert biome.
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Want to see?
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No, I made that in third grade.
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Got it!
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Hi. I brought Play-Doh for
the cacti and aquarium sand
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- for the desert floor.
- Great. Come on in.
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By the way,
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- I love your mask.
- Oh.
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Um, my family's from Pittsburgh.
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We are diehard Steelers fans.
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I know. I saw it in your profile.
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I wore it as an homage.
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My dad is from Johnstown.
263
00:10:17,333 --> 00:10:18,500
- Really?
- Yeah.
264
00:10:18,501 --> 00:10:19,835
But don't tell me
that you actually named
265
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your daughter Willow
266
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- after...
- Willow Rosenberg. Yes.
267
00:10:22,805 --> 00:10:25,073
- No way.
- Yes. Oh, I'm a huge Buffy fan.
268
00:10:25,074 --> 00:10:26,408
- Huge. Yes.
- What?
269
00:10:26,409 --> 00:10:27,609
Okay. All right.
270
00:10:27,610 --> 00:10:28,810
So can we adopt you?
271
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Can we, Tobe? Can we...?
272
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- You know?
- I'm free.
273
00:10:32,248 --> 00:10:33,682
Is that crazy? Okay,
it's crazy. All right...
274
00:10:33,683 --> 00:10:35,450
No, it's not, I just think we might
275
00:10:35,451 --> 00:10:37,052
have strayed from the topic here.
276
00:10:37,053 --> 00:10:38,136
Yes, sorry, sorry.
277
00:10:38,137 --> 00:10:39,831
Having too much fun, okay.
278
00:10:40,707 --> 00:10:43,075
Okay, so, um,
279
00:10:43,076 --> 00:10:46,755
why am I placing this
child for adoption?
280
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I married my high school sweetheart,
281
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Willow's father, and
I lost him to cancer.
282
00:10:54,888 --> 00:10:55,930
Oh.
283
00:10:56,489 --> 00:10:57,956
And it was...
284
00:10:57,957 --> 00:11:01,135
awful beyond awful, so I
don't want to dwell on it,
285
00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:03,862
except to say that
it took me a few years
286
00:11:03,863 --> 00:11:07,725
to even think about another
man, let alone go out with one,
287
00:11:07,750 --> 00:11:10,151
in the middle of raising
my daughter by myself.
288
00:11:10,445 --> 00:11:11,795
But all of my girlfriends
289
00:11:11,796 --> 00:11:14,030
said that it was time for
me to get back out there.
290
00:11:14,032 --> 00:11:19,136
So I went on Match and I met
up with this handsome stranger
291
00:11:19,137 --> 00:11:21,180
and there were drinks,
292
00:11:21,439 --> 00:11:25,309
a lot of drinks, and
I ended up in his bed
293
00:11:25,310 --> 00:11:28,046
about five hours after
learning his name.
294
00:11:31,883 --> 00:11:33,968
You must think I'm so messed up.
295
00:11:34,919 --> 00:11:36,429
Not at all.
296
00:11:37,430 --> 00:11:40,791
Trust me, I have thought about this.
297
00:11:40,934 --> 00:11:43,168
I have thought about this
more than I have ever thought
298
00:11:43,170 --> 00:11:45,070
about anything else in my whole life.
299
00:11:45,071 --> 00:11:49,975
And... this baby will do better
if she is raised elsewhere.
300
00:11:49,976 --> 00:11:54,113
With parents who... really want her.
301
00:11:57,091 --> 00:11:59,953
And it'll make me feel like
I'm doing something right.
302
00:12:00,287 --> 00:12:01,996
Oh.
303
00:12:02,764 --> 00:12:04,790
I am so sorry. That is my friend.
304
00:12:04,791 --> 00:12:07,326
She's watching Willow today,
so just one sec. Sorry.
305
00:12:07,327 --> 00:12:09,261
♪ Ghostbusters! ♪
306
00:12:09,262 --> 00:12:11,397
When there's something
strange in the neighborhood.
307
00:12:11,398 --> 00:12:13,432
- She has "Ghostbusters". What?
- I know.
308
00:12:13,433 --> 00:12:15,034
It's like... it's like she's combed
309
00:12:15,035 --> 00:12:17,011
through our social media or something.
310
00:12:17,237 --> 00:12:20,139
It's validating that she has
exquisite taste in pop culture,
311
00:12:20,140 --> 00:12:22,541
- but we should exercise caution.
- I am so sorry.
312
00:12:22,542 --> 00:12:24,243
- No, it's okay.
- My child is having a meltdown,
313
00:12:24,244 --> 00:12:26,011
so, uh, I may have to wind this up
314
00:12:26,012 --> 00:12:27,780
- just a little sooner than I wanted.
- Oh, no.
315
00:12:27,781 --> 00:12:29,815
Like, got to call a Lyft in, like, 15.
316
00:12:29,816 --> 00:12:33,452
- Oh. All right, well...
- I mean, we could take you,
317
00:12:33,453 --> 00:12:35,563
- if you want, right, Tobe?
- Oh, no, you don't need to do that.
318
00:12:35,588 --> 00:12:37,365
No, it's fine. Like...
319
00:12:37,824 --> 00:12:40,626
- Okay, all right, then. Well, that buys us more time.
- Let's roll.
320
00:12:40,627 --> 00:12:42,061
So, how have things been since we spoke?
321
00:12:42,062 --> 00:12:43,913
All good, thanks.
322
00:12:44,264 --> 00:12:47,199
I, uh... I like that
painting behind you.
323
00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,685
Don't tell me. Uh, Kadir Nelson?
324
00:12:49,686 --> 00:12:51,721
Yes. You collect him?
325
00:12:51,722 --> 00:12:53,623
Uh, well, no.
326
00:12:53,624 --> 00:12:56,559
Um, I mean, I've seen his stuff before.
327
00:12:56,560 --> 00:12:58,461
My wife's the one who
turned me on to him.
328
00:12:58,462 --> 00:13:00,429
She's a big fan.
329
00:13:03,182 --> 00:13:06,050
Beth's her name... my wife.
330
00:13:06,051 --> 00:13:08,719
She's Black. Just so you know,
I'm married to a Black woman,
331
00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:10,154
so, you know...
332
00:13:11,846 --> 00:13:13,824
Randall, you know you
have absolutely nothing
333
00:13:13,825 --> 00:13:15,593
to prove to me, right?
334
00:13:17,162 --> 00:13:19,630
Uh...
335
00:13:21,845 --> 00:13:23,494
I'm a little nervous.
336
00:13:24,736 --> 00:13:26,404
I know I told you this morning
337
00:13:26,405 --> 00:13:28,416
what brought me here, and I just...
338
00:13:28,917 --> 00:13:30,642
This is important to me.
339
00:13:30,643 --> 00:13:33,177
- I want to do this right.
- I hear you.
340
00:13:33,178 --> 00:13:34,689
But this is a process.
341
00:13:34,947 --> 00:13:38,092
And keep in mind, not all the
work is done here in this room.
342
00:13:38,684 --> 00:13:40,718
You seem like a guy
who likes homework, so,
343
00:13:40,719 --> 00:13:42,119
here's your first assignment.
344
00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:44,989
Tonight, I want you
to write down a story
345
00:13:44,990 --> 00:13:46,957
from your childhood... just one story.
346
00:13:46,959 --> 00:13:49,493
Something that you think might
tell me something about you.
347
00:13:49,494 --> 00:13:52,196
Uh, grab a notebook and keep
it handy when it comes to you.
348
00:13:52,197 --> 00:13:54,699
Just something you'd like me to know.
349
00:13:56,168 --> 00:13:57,168
Okay.
350
00:13:58,370 --> 00:14:00,031
Um...
351
00:14:00,056 --> 00:14:06,220
Sorry. Let me shut this down. _
352
00:14:06,411 --> 00:14:07,789
Whew!
353
00:14:08,413 --> 00:14:10,915
All right, I'm all yours.
354
00:14:10,916 --> 00:14:12,717
Yeah, you've probably never
heard of the director before.
355
00:14:12,718 --> 00:14:14,819
His name is Jordan Martin Foster.
356
00:14:14,820 --> 00:14:17,254
He won the Jury Prize at Cannes.
357
00:14:20,926 --> 00:14:22,293
Are you okay?
358
00:14:22,294 --> 00:14:24,028
Yeah, fine.
359
00:14:27,199 --> 00:14:30,428
Sex scenes couldn't be less sexy.
360
00:14:30,453 --> 00:14:31,971
Okay? And I'm not even kidding.
361
00:14:31,996 --> 00:14:33,121
I mean, you got crew members
362
00:14:33,122 --> 00:14:34,556
standing around all over the place.
363
00:14:34,557 --> 00:14:36,267
Plus, with COVID now, I don't even know
364
00:14:36,292 --> 00:14:37,210
if we'll be in the same studio.
365
00:14:37,211 --> 00:14:38,677
For all I know, I'll
be in Burbank somewhere,
366
00:14:38,678 --> 00:14:40,045
she'll be in Culver
City, and they'll just
367
00:14:40,046 --> 00:14:41,755
throw us together in post.
368
00:14:41,756 --> 00:14:42,798
You got nothing to worry about.
369
00:14:42,799 --> 00:14:44,692
I'm not worried about it. Let's go back.
370
00:14:44,717 --> 00:14:46,918
- My feet hurt.
- I'm sorry. Excuse me.
371
00:14:46,919 --> 00:14:50,422
I'm so sorry. I just wanted
to say I am a big fan.
372
00:14:50,423 --> 00:14:52,190
- Oh, thank you.
- Um, Julia.
373
00:14:52,191 --> 00:14:53,625
- Hi.
- Could I get a picture?
374
00:14:54,210 --> 00:14:55,194
Okay.
375
00:14:55,195 --> 00:14:58,129
Oh. Wow. Congratulations.
376
00:14:58,130 --> 00:14:59,698
How many weeks do you have to go?
377
00:14:59,699 --> 00:15:02,200
- Um, just a few months.
- Oh, lucky girl.
378
00:15:02,201 --> 00:15:04,111
You just have the cute
little basketball belly.
379
00:15:04,112 --> 00:15:07,072
Me? My son's a year old,
I'm still running it off.
380
00:15:07,890 --> 00:15:09,574
Uh... let's get
381
00:15:09,575 --> 00:15:11,076
that socially-distanced selfie, right?
382
00:15:11,077 --> 00:15:12,537
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
383
00:15:14,580 --> 00:15:16,748
There you go. All right.
384
00:15:16,749 --> 00:15:18,116
- Thanks.
- It's a good one. Thank you.
385
00:15:18,117 --> 00:15:19,618
Madison! Hey, hey.
386
00:15:19,619 --> 00:15:21,586
Madison? Listen, if
you're upset with me...
387
00:15:21,587 --> 00:15:24,498
- I'm not.
- Okay, listen, you can come
388
00:15:24,499 --> 00:15:26,367
to the filming of the
love scene if that's really
389
00:15:26,368 --> 00:15:28,102
- what's bothering you.
- I am not upset about the love scene.
390
00:15:28,103 --> 00:15:29,436
It seems like you're
upset about the love scene.
391
00:15:29,437 --> 00:15:30,738
I'm not upset about the love scene!
392
00:15:30,739 --> 00:15:32,639
I'm upset about the pancakes.
393
00:15:32,641 --> 00:15:34,608
I'm upset that she
can tell I'm pregnant.
394
00:15:34,609 --> 00:15:36,276
Okay, I'm-I'm upset about
a whole bunch of stuff
395
00:15:36,278 --> 00:15:37,678
I'm not comfortable sharing with you
396
00:15:37,679 --> 00:15:39,422
because we're basically strangers.
397
00:15:47,355 --> 00:15:49,381
Don't follow me.
398
00:15:49,532 --> 00:15:51,558
I'm walking back to the house.
399
00:15:51,559 --> 00:15:53,311
Go a different way.
400
00:15:55,997 --> 00:15:59,666
I'm so sorry. Could I
get another? I-I blinked.
401
00:16:00,602 --> 00:16:01,986
What?
402
00:16:12,447 --> 00:16:14,553
The oil's boiling.
403
00:16:14,578 --> 00:16:16,642
_
404
00:16:18,186 --> 00:16:20,889
You said we only have
to speak Vietnamese
405
00:16:20,890 --> 00:16:22,524
when we are fishing.
406
00:16:22,940 --> 00:16:25,802
You always get the last word
407
00:16:26,162 --> 00:16:28,063
in every language.
408
00:16:28,679 --> 00:16:30,990
Everything takes so long.
409
00:16:31,234 --> 00:16:33,074
Fishing the fish, cooking the fish.
410
00:16:33,075 --> 00:16:35,036
Let's play Go Fish.
411
00:16:35,620 --> 00:16:37,873
You need to learn patience, Linh.
412
00:16:37,874 --> 00:16:41,751
Preparing a meal is the way
to show someone you love them.
413
00:16:42,001 --> 00:16:43,294
I learned to cook
414
00:16:43,319 --> 00:16:46,422
because I want to impress
someone very special to me.
415
00:16:46,616 --> 00:16:47,616
Who?
416
00:16:47,740 --> 00:16:50,475
So many questions in such a little body.
417
00:16:50,975 --> 00:16:51,975
Sit.
418
00:16:53,913 --> 00:16:56,381
I will not tell you who I cook for,
419
00:16:56,382 --> 00:16:59,785
but I will show you how I cook for her.
420
00:16:59,810 --> 00:17:02,797
Her! It's a girl.
421
00:17:04,615 --> 00:17:05,758
Sit.
422
00:17:06,017 --> 00:17:07,442
Hey,
423
00:17:07,443 --> 00:17:09,503
- what you doing?
- Oh, just straightening up a bit.
424
00:17:09,528 --> 00:17:10,995
Yeah, well, we don't go in
425
00:17:11,347 --> 00:17:13,641
for that sort of stuff around here.
426
00:17:14,053 --> 00:17:15,183
Huh.
427
00:17:15,208 --> 00:17:18,177
So, you, uh, didn't
find anything, did you?
428
00:17:18,202 --> 00:17:19,996
- Such as?
- Nothing. I mean,
429
00:17:19,997 --> 00:17:21,998
- I just lost Inky's ball.
- Inky?
430
00:17:21,999 --> 00:17:23,833
I love Mr. Belvedere.
431
00:17:23,834 --> 00:17:27,103
Although I'm more of
a Who's the Boss? girl.
432
00:17:29,375 --> 00:17:32,209
I bet you're the Brainiac that
doesn't need to do homework.
433
00:17:32,234 --> 00:17:35,369
You just watch TV all
day and get all As.
434
00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:37,347
I have a routine.
435
00:17:37,348 --> 00:17:41,410
Snack, watch Mr. Bel,
and then do my homework.
436
00:17:41,435 --> 00:17:43,854
I'm in the middle of
my routine right now.
437
00:17:43,855 --> 00:17:45,722
Hey, everybody.
438
00:17:45,723 --> 00:17:47,190
Hey.
439
00:17:47,191 --> 00:17:48,492
How was football?
440
00:17:48,493 --> 00:17:50,227
- Fine.
- Fine?
441
00:17:50,228 --> 00:17:53,030
Coach said we've got another
Terry Bradshaw right here.
442
00:17:53,031 --> 00:17:54,431
Minus the hair loss.
443
00:17:54,432 --> 00:17:55,899
- Yeah, of course.
- Obviously, Kevin.
444
00:17:55,900 --> 00:17:57,567
Hey, you know what else Coach said?
445
00:17:57,569 --> 00:17:59,670
Kev gets a little stronger,
he's gonna be a force.
446
00:17:59,671 --> 00:18:02,539
So I'm gonna take him out in
the garage, pump a little iron.
447
00:18:02,540 --> 00:18:05,642
Oh. The garage. Dad's sanctuary.
448
00:18:05,643 --> 00:18:07,911
- Okay.
- Go upstairs and change, all right?
449
00:18:07,912 --> 00:18:10,647
What's going on here?
450
00:18:11,590 --> 00:18:13,175
Study group.
451
00:18:14,343 --> 00:18:15,519
Studying what?
452
00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:17,788
Relax. They're fine, Jack.
453
00:18:17,789 --> 00:18:19,180
Really? You're not gonna meddle?
454
00:18:19,181 --> 00:18:21,792
No, no, no, no. Meddling
was so Seventh Grade Rebecca.
455
00:18:21,793 --> 00:18:23,326
- This is Eighth Grade Rebecca.
- Oh.
456
00:18:23,328 --> 00:18:25,228
Cool Mom Rebecca.
457
00:18:25,229 --> 00:18:29,250
You know, I can monitor the
situation, but in a cool way.
458
00:18:29,275 --> 00:18:31,501
- Okay. Yeah, Cool Mom.
- Cool Mom.
459
00:18:31,502 --> 00:18:32,637
Cool Mom.
460
00:18:33,004 --> 00:18:34,680
- Hey, babe.
- Yeah.
461
00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,941
You really think it's okay
for Kev to be pumping iron?
462
00:18:37,942 --> 00:18:41,244
I mean, teens' bones and
muscles are still developing.
463
00:18:42,734 --> 00:18:44,247
Say the thing you want to say.
464
00:18:44,732 --> 00:18:47,235
No. Cool Mom Rebecca doesn't meddle.
465
00:18:48,027 --> 00:18:50,220
Okay. I-I got this.
466
00:18:52,173 --> 00:18:53,373
Yeah, it's really cute.
467
00:18:53,398 --> 00:18:55,299
He, like, has his own
little made-up language.
468
00:18:55,300 --> 00:18:57,094
And everything rhymes.
469
00:18:57,119 --> 00:19:00,263
It's really cute. Oh,
hey, Tobe, the sitter said
470
00:19:00,264 --> 00:19:01,764
that she can't find any diapers.
471
00:19:01,765 --> 00:19:02,819
Yeah, well, you bought some yesterday.
472
00:19:02,820 --> 00:19:04,952
- Yeah. Yeah, I did.
- Well, where are they?
473
00:19:04,977 --> 00:19:06,644
I don't know. You
brought the groceries in.
474
00:19:06,645 --> 00:19:08,547
Okay.
475
00:19:10,916 --> 00:19:13,210
Ugh. Come on, Tobe.
476
00:19:13,235 --> 00:19:15,320
You were supposed to check the
diaper supply before we left.
477
00:19:15,321 --> 00:19:16,964
No, I checked the
diaper supply yesterday
478
00:19:16,989 --> 00:19:18,031
and saw that we were low
479
00:19:18,032 --> 00:19:19,932
and wrote "diapers"
on the shopping list.
480
00:19:19,933 --> 00:19:22,001
Right, and then I bought
the diapers that were
481
00:19:22,002 --> 00:19:23,669
on the shopping list, and
you were supposed to take them
482
00:19:23,671 --> 00:19:25,505
- out of the trunk.
- We wouldn't run out of diapers so fast
483
00:19:25,506 --> 00:19:27,673
if we could please just buy in bulk.
484
00:19:27,675 --> 00:19:29,809
I'm not gonna hoard diapers, Tobe.
485
00:19:30,169 --> 00:19:32,070
Like, other people need diapers, too.
486
00:19:32,071 --> 00:19:34,706
I'm not talking about buying
all of the diapers in the world,
487
00:19:34,707 --> 00:19:36,241
but this kid is a human outhouse.
488
00:19:36,242 --> 00:19:37,884
Maybe if we just get,
like, an extra box or two.
489
00:19:37,885 --> 00:19:40,553
Okay, so it's my fault? It would
be really great, just, like,
490
00:19:40,554 --> 00:19:42,655
one time if you could
be like, "My fault",
491
00:19:42,656 --> 00:19:44,357
like you took the blame
just for something.
492
00:19:44,358 --> 00:19:45,558
Just like, "Hey, it was me."
493
00:19:45,559 --> 00:19:47,727
I take the blame for everything.
494
00:19:47,728 --> 00:19:51,597
I am this family's blame piñata! Pow!
495
00:19:51,598 --> 00:19:53,801
Blame scattered on the floor.
496
00:19:54,844 --> 00:19:55,968
Blame piñata.
497
00:19:55,969 --> 00:19:57,270
That's good.
498
00:19:57,271 --> 00:19:59,181
Thanks, it felt good
rolling off the tongue.
499
00:19:59,782 --> 00:20:01,807
I'm sorry I left the
diapers in the trunk.
500
00:20:01,809 --> 00:20:03,442
- I'm an idiot.
- Babe, you're not an idiot.
501
00:20:03,443 --> 00:20:05,344
And we both know that,
uh, we've had our son
502
00:20:05,345 --> 00:20:07,113
sit in his diaper for a
lot longer than this, so...
503
00:20:07,114 --> 00:20:09,348
Yeah, I actually think he likes it.
504
00:20:09,349 --> 00:20:11,050
'Cause he's gross.
505
00:20:17,057 --> 00:20:18,824
- Ready?
- Yes.
506
00:20:24,298 --> 00:20:27,233
♪ Okay, you wanna,
you wanna play with me ♪
507
00:20:27,234 --> 00:20:29,769
♪ But so confused,
all the things to say ♪
508
00:20:29,770 --> 00:20:31,270
♪ Want to be invited to parties ♪
509
00:20:31,271 --> 00:20:33,139
♪ But you can't even pronounce my name ♪
510
00:20:33,140 --> 00:20:36,175
♪ You need to be up on this,
right here's where... ♪
511
00:20:36,176 --> 00:20:39,245
Hey, Mr. Phillips,
I'm a they, not a she.
512
00:20:39,246 --> 00:20:41,380
Told you about 17 times now,
513
00:20:41,381 --> 00:20:44,483
so if you've got a problem
with that, then screw you!
514
00:20:44,484 --> 00:20:47,153
♪ Gettin' lit, all of these
weekends I spend gettin' lit ♪
515
00:20:47,154 --> 00:20:49,488
♪ I swear to Jesus
it's been on my list... ♪
516
00:20:49,489 --> 00:20:51,557
Hey, Ms. Jennings.
When we get back to school,
517
00:20:51,558 --> 00:20:53,059
don't touch my hair anymore.
518
00:20:53,060 --> 00:20:56,629
Like Solange says, don't touch my hair.
519
00:20:56,630 --> 00:20:58,097
Does this make you uneasy?
520
00:20:58,098 --> 00:20:59,632
Does this make you uncomfortable?
521
00:20:59,633 --> 00:21:01,300
Because that's how you make us feel.
522
00:21:01,301 --> 00:21:02,468
- Screw you!
- Screw you!
523
00:21:03,704 --> 00:21:05,771
♪ Okay. ♪
524
00:21:09,810 --> 00:21:12,578
There anything you want
to say before we do?
525
00:21:14,514 --> 00:21:17,850
We did it last year after
Ms. Jennings touched my hair,
526
00:21:17,851 --> 00:21:20,386
- then kept doing it to other kids.
- Tess,
527
00:21:20,387 --> 00:21:22,006
if a teacher touched your hair,
528
00:21:22,031 --> 00:21:23,231
you know what, you should have gone
529
00:21:23,232 --> 00:21:24,732
to that teacher, or you
should have come to us.
530
00:21:24,733 --> 00:21:26,234
You do not post
531
00:21:26,235 --> 00:21:28,970
a profane, mocking dance video
532
00:21:28,971 --> 00:21:30,121
for the world to see.
533
00:21:30,122 --> 00:21:31,689
I did tell the teacher.
534
00:21:31,774 --> 00:21:34,250
I said, "Please don't touch my hair."
535
00:21:34,251 --> 00:21:35,444
And did she stop?
536
00:21:35,919 --> 00:21:37,386
She stopped with me.
537
00:21:37,388 --> 00:21:39,122
But not with all the
other Black students.
538
00:21:39,123 --> 00:21:41,090
Well, Tess, the other
students aren't your problem.
539
00:21:41,091 --> 00:21:42,758
Silence in the face of injustice
540
00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:44,511
is complicity with the oppressor.
541
00:21:44,512 --> 00:21:46,512
Okay, the teachers
didn't get the message
542
00:21:46,514 --> 00:21:49,564
when we asked nicely, but they
definitely got the message now.
543
00:21:49,589 --> 00:21:50,589
Hey.
544
00:21:50,590 --> 00:21:51,885
Check the attitude, okay, Tess?
545
00:21:52,561 --> 00:21:54,812
Now, this Alex, did
she make you do this?
546
00:21:54,813 --> 00:21:56,940
Alex is not a she. They're a they.
547
00:21:56,941 --> 00:21:58,775
Fine. They.
548
00:21:59,385 --> 00:22:01,929
No one made me do anything.
549
00:22:04,014 --> 00:22:06,183
You tell me to be myself.
550
00:22:07,017 --> 00:22:09,186
Well, this is me now, guys.
551
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:12,388
Have you seen what's
going on in the world?
552
00:22:12,690 --> 00:22:15,818
I'm done waiting to figure out who I am.
553
00:22:16,427 --> 00:22:20,004
I'm done being the
prissy, quiet little girl
554
00:22:20,005 --> 00:22:22,106
you raised in the
straight, white suburbs
555
00:22:22,107 --> 00:22:24,285
surrounded by straight, white people.
556
00:22:25,369 --> 00:22:27,246
This is who I want to be.
557
00:22:28,146 --> 00:22:29,832
This is who I am.
558
00:22:33,696 --> 00:22:35,546
Go to your room, Tess.
559
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,761
This'll go right here.
560
00:22:50,786 --> 00:22:54,088
Stewart, we can stop pretending
why you picked my study group.
561
00:22:54,892 --> 00:22:56,684
I miss you, too.
562
00:22:56,709 --> 00:22:59,645
I picked your group
because I like deserts.
563
00:22:59,670 --> 00:23:01,055
This is where the action is.
564
00:23:01,900 --> 00:23:04,382
Snakes, Gila monsters,
565
00:23:04,383 --> 00:23:06,035
scorpions.
566
00:23:21,700 --> 00:23:24,044
It's crazy. This tastes
just like root beer.
567
00:23:24,069 --> 00:23:25,721
Want to try?
568
00:23:28,006 --> 00:23:30,893
I should really get to my homework.
569
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:37,900
That's an angry pour.
570
00:23:43,216 --> 00:23:44,490
Grazie.
571
00:23:46,342 --> 00:23:47,383
What's that?
572
00:23:47,384 --> 00:23:49,352
It's a journal for Dr. Vance.
573
00:23:49,353 --> 00:23:52,388
Supposed to write down a
story about my childhood.
574
00:23:52,389 --> 00:23:55,960
Can only imagine what Tess is
gonna write about us someday.
575
00:23:56,293 --> 00:23:58,254
She's lashing out.
576
00:23:58,629 --> 00:24:00,548
She should know better.
577
00:24:00,864 --> 00:24:03,299
The Internet has a long memory.
578
00:24:03,300 --> 00:24:05,001
We taught her to know better, Randall.
579
00:24:05,002 --> 00:24:06,969
Yeah. Yeah, we did.
580
00:24:06,971 --> 00:24:09,014
As a parent, I agree with you.
581
00:24:09,557 --> 00:24:12,326
She did not go about this the right way,
582
00:24:12,615 --> 00:24:15,521
but... and just stay with me here...
583
00:24:16,665 --> 00:24:18,932
part of me is kind of proud of her.
584
00:24:18,933 --> 00:24:20,859
Oh.
585
00:24:21,369 --> 00:24:24,004
If something bothered
me when I was her age,
586
00:24:24,005 --> 00:24:25,973
I swallowed it.
587
00:24:26,907 --> 00:24:29,243
I've always been worried
that Tess was like me.
588
00:24:29,244 --> 00:24:32,379
You know, internal. Anxious.
589
00:24:33,038 --> 00:24:34,807
But all of a sudden,
590
00:24:35,583 --> 00:24:37,585
she's coming into her own.
591
00:24:38,586 --> 00:24:40,621
She's not afraid of who she is.
592
00:24:40,622 --> 00:24:43,040
She's not gonna have to
go see a therapist at 40
593
00:24:43,065 --> 00:24:44,124
to figure that out.
594
00:24:44,149 --> 00:24:47,111
- I know. And I hear you.
- Mm-hmm.
595
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,339
But they are teenagers now, husband.
596
00:24:50,364 --> 00:24:51,572
- Okay?
- Mm-hmm.
597
00:24:51,573 --> 00:24:53,408
This is what we have been training for.
598
00:24:53,409 --> 00:24:55,969
There has got to be consequences
599
00:24:55,994 --> 00:24:58,161
for what she's done. All right?
600
00:24:58,162 --> 00:25:02,067
And strong parenting is not
playing good cop, bad cop.
601
00:25:02,860 --> 00:25:05,227
We have to be on the same page.
602
00:25:05,229 --> 00:25:06,963
Starting now.
603
00:25:09,450 --> 00:25:12,828
So you want me to go talk to her?
604
00:25:13,754 --> 00:25:15,456
Ding, ding, ding.
605
00:25:18,125 --> 00:25:19,692
- No, just pull it once.
- Maybe. No. Hold on.
606
00:25:19,693 --> 00:25:21,360
- Just pull it once. Yeah.
- I'm sorry.
607
00:25:21,361 --> 00:25:23,162
There you go.
608
00:25:23,163 --> 00:25:26,041
Thank you for the ride. This was fun.
609
00:25:26,066 --> 00:25:29,261
Oh, i-i-it was. Yeah.
610
00:25:31,047 --> 00:25:32,104
Uh...
611
00:25:32,105 --> 00:25:35,634
and I'm sorry if our arguing
made you feel uncomfortable.
612
00:25:35,659 --> 00:25:38,627
I mean, we actually get
along very well, so...
613
00:25:38,628 --> 00:25:40,529
Yeah, which works out
good, 'cause we're married.
614
00:25:41,665 --> 00:25:43,666
Well, Doug... my husband...
615
00:25:43,667 --> 00:25:46,602
he used to overbuy condiments.
616
00:25:46,603 --> 00:25:49,171
It was as if he lived in perpetual fear
617
00:25:49,172 --> 00:25:50,406
of running out of mustard.
618
00:25:50,407 --> 00:25:51,907
It drove me nuts,
619
00:25:51,908 --> 00:25:54,977
and we fought about it constantly.
620
00:25:54,978 --> 00:25:58,280
Mustard-gate. Ketchup-gate. Mayo-gate.
621
00:25:58,281 --> 00:26:00,726
Mayo-gate was, uh,
it was especially bad.
622
00:26:01,602 --> 00:26:04,129
I think you can tell a lot
about a couple by how they fight.
623
00:26:04,443 --> 00:26:06,148
How they recover.
624
00:26:08,926 --> 00:26:11,136
I have a strong feeling about you guys.
625
00:26:12,596 --> 00:26:14,923
Thanks for coming all
the way to San Pedro.
626
00:26:14,948 --> 00:26:16,574
- Yeah.
- Oh, of course. Our pleasure.
627
00:26:16,575 --> 00:26:18,075
Yeah, love San Pedro.
628
00:26:18,076 --> 00:26:19,578
"We love San Pedro."
629
00:26:20,179 --> 00:26:22,146
Okay, bye.
630
00:26:22,147 --> 00:26:23,115
See you.
631
00:26:23,116 --> 00:26:24,358
Bye.
632
00:26:35,928 --> 00:26:37,871
Hey. How you feeling?
633
00:26:38,497 --> 00:26:41,533
Fine. Soaked my feet.
634
00:26:41,534 --> 00:26:43,877
Oh, good. Good.
635
00:26:46,138 --> 00:26:48,674
- So, I-I didn't mean to, uh...
- Don't.
636
00:26:49,008 --> 00:26:50,909
You did nothing wrong.
637
00:26:50,910 --> 00:26:52,744
I said something. I don't...
638
00:26:52,745 --> 00:26:55,647
Was it about the movie
or the babies? Uh...
639
00:26:58,184 --> 00:27:00,644
I had an eating disorder, Kevin.
640
00:27:01,187 --> 00:27:02,721
I'm not sure how much you know,
641
00:27:02,722 --> 00:27:05,790
but I've been struggling
with eating issues
642
00:27:05,791 --> 00:27:08,485
for as long as I can
remember, and, um...
643
00:27:09,653 --> 00:27:12,030
then comes this pregnancy.
644
00:27:16,193 --> 00:27:18,661
You know why that ultrasound
picture is on the fridge
645
00:27:18,662 --> 00:27:22,166
and not on a bulletin
board or a bathroom mirror?
646
00:27:23,375 --> 00:27:25,185
I keep that there
647
00:27:25,435 --> 00:27:28,630
to remind me to eat.
648
00:27:30,424 --> 00:27:32,217
To eat food, Kev.
649
00:27:33,343 --> 00:27:36,196
To eat food to keep our babies healthy.
650
00:27:38,932 --> 00:27:40,716
Do you know when I go to the doctor,
651
00:27:40,717 --> 00:27:42,885
the first thing they do is weigh me?
652
00:27:42,886 --> 00:27:45,654
And they announce the number out loud,
653
00:27:45,981 --> 00:27:48,483
and I have to remind myself
654
00:27:48,484 --> 00:27:51,035
to act proud that I've put on two pounds
655
00:27:51,060 --> 00:27:53,796
when... for most of my adult life,
656
00:27:53,797 --> 00:27:56,241
news like that would
just make me spiral.
657
00:27:58,540 --> 00:28:00,412
It's hard to adjust.
658
00:28:04,333 --> 00:28:05,709
I didn't know.
659
00:28:09,021 --> 00:28:10,672
Of course you didn't.
660
00:28:12,244 --> 00:28:15,219
I've been hiding a
lot of myself from you.
661
00:28:16,136 --> 00:28:18,430
This whole thing isn't normal, Kev,
662
00:28:18,864 --> 00:28:21,466
as much as we pretend it is.
663
00:28:21,467 --> 00:28:23,468
Everything came backwards here,
664
00:28:23,469 --> 00:28:26,396
and I'm all over the place.
665
00:28:26,772 --> 00:28:28,497
Insecurities running wild,
666
00:28:28,498 --> 00:28:30,633
and-and you're walking around
667
00:28:30,634 --> 00:28:32,694
like an Olympic swimmer
most of the time.
668
00:28:34,279 --> 00:28:35,938
I'm sorry.
669
00:28:37,574 --> 00:28:39,034
I'm fine.
670
00:28:40,327 --> 00:28:42,262
I love our babies.
671
00:28:44,981 --> 00:28:47,292
I'm just dealing with a lot right now.
672
00:28:48,335 --> 00:28:49,711
It's on me.
673
00:28:59,488 --> 00:29:01,689
All right.
674
00:29:03,433 --> 00:29:04,826
You ready?
675
00:29:05,335 --> 00:29:06,768
I am Hans.
676
00:29:06,770 --> 00:29:08,120
And I am Franz.
677
00:29:08,121 --> 00:29:11,725
And we want to pump you up!
678
00:29:12,709 --> 00:29:14,276
Okay. Let's, uh...
679
00:29:14,277 --> 00:29:17,505
You know, let's start with just the bar.
680
00:29:17,506 --> 00:29:19,358
'Cause, you know, you're still
developing and everything.
681
00:29:19,383 --> 00:29:21,351
Come on, man, throw in some lead.
682
00:29:21,352 --> 00:29:22,468
No, Kev, come on.
683
00:29:22,469 --> 00:29:26,305
The bar is-is plenty
heavy. All right? But first,
684
00:29:26,306 --> 00:29:28,641
what I want you to do
is, you got to warm up.
685
00:29:28,642 --> 00:29:30,109
Right? We got to loosen things up.
686
00:29:30,110 --> 00:29:32,645
Pull your arm through.
Warm your shoulders up.
687
00:29:32,646 --> 00:29:35,457
There you go. Yeah. Go
the other arm. All right.
688
00:29:35,482 --> 00:29:38,360
Go across. Go across.
689
00:29:42,990 --> 00:29:44,683
All right, here we go.
690
00:29:46,227 --> 00:29:47,961
Knuckle popping is optional.
691
00:29:47,962 --> 00:29:49,705
All right.
692
00:29:53,601 --> 00:29:55,584
Stewart's a desert groupie, Mom.
693
00:29:55,585 --> 00:29:57,962
That's why he wanted to
be in our study project.
694
00:29:57,963 --> 00:29:59,964
- It wasn't to be with me.
- Oh.
695
00:29:59,965 --> 00:30:01,365
I see.
696
00:30:01,366 --> 00:30:03,300
I feel like an idiot.
697
00:30:03,301 --> 00:30:05,913
No, don't.
698
00:30:07,681 --> 00:30:10,074
Following your heart is
a real strength, Kate.
699
00:30:10,375 --> 00:30:13,954
Yeah, sometimes you end up getting hurt,
700
00:30:13,979 --> 00:30:15,847
but most of the time,
701
00:30:15,848 --> 00:30:17,633
it'll all work out.
702
00:30:18,851 --> 00:30:21,619
I know it's not the cool thing to say,
703
00:30:21,620 --> 00:30:24,598
but I'm really proud of you,
704
00:30:25,057 --> 00:30:27,158
and I love you.
705
00:30:37,687 --> 00:30:42,407
All right. Emergency
diaper stash restocked.
706
00:30:44,593 --> 00:30:46,677
- Ah...
- What's so funny?
707
00:30:46,678 --> 00:30:51,500
Oh, uh, Ellie said the Buffy
episode "Hush" was on, so...
708
00:30:52,918 --> 00:30:54,719
Babe, "Hush"?
709
00:30:54,962 --> 00:30:56,796
The one where everyone in Sunnydale
710
00:30:56,797 --> 00:30:57,964
loses the ability to talk?
711
00:30:57,965 --> 00:31:00,366
Do not insult me. I know the episode.
712
00:31:00,367 --> 00:31:02,235
- Please.
- Excuse me.
713
00:31:02,236 --> 00:31:04,945
But c-could we just not
714
00:31:04,946 --> 00:31:07,933
- text her as much, please?
- She texted me.
715
00:31:09,018 --> 00:31:11,218
Come on. Just admit, it went well.
716
00:31:11,219 --> 00:31:13,346
And could you just be a little excited
717
00:31:13,371 --> 00:31:14,638
- about that?
- Not really.
718
00:31:14,639 --> 00:31:16,873
This baby stuff wasn't
that easy the first time.
719
00:31:16,874 --> 00:31:18,241
You know, with this, we're dealing
720
00:31:18,242 --> 00:31:20,211
with a 33-year-old single mother
721
00:31:20,212 --> 00:31:22,731
who could, literally, at any moment,
722
00:31:22,756 --> 00:31:24,491
change her mind about us.
723
00:31:25,075 --> 00:31:27,076
So instead of asking
me to be more excited,
724
00:31:27,077 --> 00:31:30,697
could maybe you... you try
to be a little more terrified?
725
00:31:30,722 --> 00:31:33,049
Okay.
726
00:31:33,984 --> 00:31:37,254
You know what, she does smile
a lot when she rubs her belly.
727
00:31:37,621 --> 00:31:40,489
Which is better than
the opposite, obviously,
728
00:31:40,490 --> 00:31:42,958
but I don't know, I clocked it.
729
00:31:43,343 --> 00:31:45,477
- Oh, babe.
- See? Thank you.
730
00:31:45,478 --> 00:31:47,279
Thank... no, that makes me feel better.
731
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:51,650
Thank you for registering an
acceptable level of terror.
732
00:31:51,651 --> 00:31:53,327
- Mm.
- I appreciate it.
733
00:31:53,328 --> 00:31:54,862
Yeah, okay, you're welcome.
734
00:31:55,188 --> 00:31:58,874
She did say that her
favorite Star Wars character
735
00:31:58,875 --> 00:32:00,342
was Babu Frik.
736
00:32:00,343 --> 00:32:02,677
That's a fresh take. Respect.
737
00:32:02,678 --> 00:32:05,614
And did you see the look
on her face when she noticed
738
00:32:05,615 --> 00:32:07,682
that we had forgotten
the diapers in the car?
739
00:32:07,683 --> 00:32:11,686
That was the look of a woman
who is falling hard for us.
740
00:32:11,687 --> 00:32:14,422
- Babe.
- Yeah. Those are good things.
741
00:32:14,423 --> 00:32:16,960
- Those are good things.
- Okay, well, thank you
742
00:32:17,326 --> 00:32:20,997
for registering a, you know, an
acceptable level of excitement.
743
00:32:21,022 --> 00:32:22,398
Thank you.
744
00:32:22,399 --> 00:32:25,667
Also, I, um, bought the
diapers, for the record.
745
00:32:25,668 --> 00:32:28,703
- You left 'em in the trunk.
- Uh...
746
00:32:28,704 --> 00:32:29,971
Uh, excuse me.
747
00:32:32,341 --> 00:32:33,534
"Come in."
748
00:32:33,535 --> 00:32:36,637
"Oh, thanks, daughter,
don't-don't mind if I do."
749
00:32:51,453 --> 00:32:54,021
"Silence in the face of inequality
750
00:32:54,022 --> 00:32:56,166
is complicity with the oppressor."
751
00:32:56,458 --> 00:32:59,126
- Ginetta Sagan.
- You caught that.
752
00:32:59,127 --> 00:33:00,879
I catch everything, daughter.
753
00:33:04,833 --> 00:33:06,667
There's a right way and a wrong way
754
00:33:06,668 --> 00:33:08,444
to get your point across.
755
00:33:08,445 --> 00:33:10,847
Even loudly, if need be.
756
00:33:11,949 --> 00:33:14,784
And this was the wrong way.
757
00:33:15,227 --> 00:33:17,128
And it's not you.
758
00:33:17,479 --> 00:33:20,456
Telling adults to screw
themself on the Internet?
759
00:33:20,457 --> 00:33:21,694
- That's not you.
- It is me.
760
00:33:21,719 --> 00:33:22,758
It's not.
761
00:33:24,528 --> 00:33:28,240
That is not the person who
made my life somersault.
762
00:33:32,236 --> 00:33:34,621
- It's an old reference.
- I remember.
763
00:33:40,662 --> 00:33:43,004
We're taking your phone
away for six weeks.
764
00:33:43,423 --> 00:33:45,856
What? What if I'm out?
765
00:33:45,857 --> 00:33:48,210
You won't be, 'cause you're
grounded for six weeks, too.
766
00:33:48,235 --> 00:33:50,002
Fascist! This is bull...
767
00:33:50,003 --> 00:33:52,472
You finish that sentence,
tack on three more weeks.
768
00:33:57,244 --> 00:33:58,478
Good choice.
769
00:34:00,992 --> 00:34:02,357
God.
770
00:34:09,573 --> 00:34:11,215
Did she call you a fascist?
771
00:34:11,216 --> 00:34:14,327
Yeah, hon. I believe she did.
772
00:34:19,349 --> 00:34:22,702
What you want to do is, you
line your thumbs up, okay?
773
00:34:22,727 --> 00:34:25,004
Make sure that bar is nice and center.
774
00:34:25,005 --> 00:34:27,648
Wrap them around the
bar. Very important.
775
00:34:27,649 --> 00:34:30,051
Thumb around the bar. Important.
776
00:34:31,845 --> 00:34:33,212
Come on.
777
00:34:34,181 --> 00:34:35,515
Come on.
778
00:34:35,849 --> 00:34:37,016
Come on.
779
00:34:37,017 --> 00:34:38,651
Nice, Kev. You're doing great.
780
00:34:38,652 --> 00:34:39,919
Last one, Kev. Last one. Here we go.
781
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:41,721
Push it, push it, push it.
782
00:34:41,722 --> 00:34:43,064
Push it.
783
00:34:43,724 --> 00:34:45,024
Work that chest.
784
00:34:45,025 --> 00:34:47,026
Push. Push.
785
00:34:47,027 --> 00:34:48,728
Push. Push, push, push, push,
786
00:34:48,729 --> 00:34:50,529
push, push, push. Yeah, hey.
787
00:34:50,530 --> 00:34:52,798
- All right, let's pull this up.
- No, don't touch it.
788
00:34:52,799 --> 00:34:54,233
What's it, too heavy? I
could take some weight off.
789
00:34:54,234 --> 00:34:57,169
- No, I got it.
- Well, come on. Man up.
790
00:34:57,170 --> 00:34:58,804
Come on, Kev, you're good.
791
00:34:58,805 --> 00:35:01,140
A couple more.
792
00:35:03,510 --> 00:35:04,586
Good.
793
00:35:06,847 --> 00:35:08,189
Look at you.
794
00:35:08,423 --> 00:35:09,595
You're a monster.
795
00:35:09,620 --> 00:35:10,775
I did it.
796
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:13,887
Hey, look, Kev.
797
00:35:15,572 --> 00:35:19,374
You put your mind to it,
you can accomplish anything.
798
00:35:20,777 --> 00:35:22,077
Okay?
799
00:35:28,693 --> 00:35:30,654
I'm playing a trial lawyer.
800
00:35:32,263 --> 00:35:34,866
In the movie I-I play a trial lawyer.
801
00:35:36,619 --> 00:35:38,135
Let me ask you a question.
802
00:35:38,136 --> 00:35:40,680
Why does a trial lawyer
need to be ripped?
803
00:35:41,806 --> 00:35:42,958
I don't know.
804
00:35:43,458 --> 00:35:44,834
He doesn't.
805
00:35:49,331 --> 00:35:52,025
I count calories, too, Madison.
806
00:35:53,426 --> 00:35:56,070
And I panic inside if I don't get
807
00:35:56,071 --> 00:35:58,205
a second workout in every single day.
808
00:35:58,556 --> 00:36:01,116
And I prefer sweating in a dingy garage
809
00:36:01,117 --> 00:36:03,979
than going to some
celebrity gym because...
810
00:36:08,858 --> 00:36:11,194
Oh, God, so many reasons, actually.
811
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:13,528
This one's stronger, right here.
812
00:36:13,529 --> 00:36:15,163
Put your hand right there. Strong...
813
00:36:15,164 --> 00:36:18,868
Eight, nine,
814
00:36:20,282 --> 00:36:21,469
ten.
815
00:36:21,470 --> 00:36:22,470
Switch it up.
816
00:36:22,844 --> 00:36:24,099
Flex that!
817
00:36:24,307 --> 00:36:25,724
At the top.
818
00:36:25,725 --> 00:36:27,893
Yeah, you did it!
819
00:36:27,894 --> 00:36:30,996
My boy's gonna be a beast.
820
00:36:33,133 --> 00:36:36,094
And as an actor, it
just became my currency.
821
00:36:36,736 --> 00:36:40,405
I actually... got famous...
822
00:36:41,808 --> 00:36:43,909
...by taking my shirt off.
823
00:36:47,113 --> 00:36:50,567
I'm getting older and
it's getting harder.
824
00:36:51,952 --> 00:36:54,253
And I'm not drinking anymore,
which is my other addiction,
825
00:36:54,254 --> 00:36:57,032
so I just come in here and I just...
826
00:36:57,490 --> 00:37:01,786
I channel all of that
here, and it's, uh...
827
00:37:03,330 --> 00:37:04,956
...not exactly healthy.
828
00:37:08,335 --> 00:37:10,202
I got stuff, too, Madison.
829
00:37:10,203 --> 00:37:12,505
I got a lot of stuff.
830
00:37:14,774 --> 00:37:17,643
Including stuff with my brother
that I still have to work out.
831
00:37:17,644 --> 00:37:18,887
And I...
832
00:37:22,816 --> 00:37:25,560
I lay in bed sometimes and I, um...
833
00:37:27,604 --> 00:37:30,148
...I just stare at the
ceiling and I worry.
834
00:37:34,444 --> 00:37:37,838
I worry that I'm gonna pass all
that on to my kids, you know?
835
00:37:37,839 --> 00:37:42,452
All that... my unhealthy stuff.
836
00:37:45,380 --> 00:37:46,664
Me, too.
837
00:37:58,927 --> 00:38:00,928
You know, I suppose being parents
838
00:38:00,929 --> 00:38:02,639
is gonna be hard enough on its own,
839
00:38:03,264 --> 00:38:05,699
without us walking around trying to be
840
00:38:05,700 --> 00:38:08,268
polite strangers in front of each other.
841
00:38:10,805 --> 00:38:14,225
I mean, I had the greatest,
most connected parents
842
00:38:14,250 --> 00:38:17,779
you can imagine, and
they missed so much.
843
00:38:55,459 --> 00:38:57,460
It's crazy. This tastes
just like root beer.
844
00:38:57,537 --> 00:38:58,862
Want to try?
845
00:39:01,328 --> 00:39:04,033
I should really get to my homework.
846
00:39:11,240 --> 00:39:12,849
I always wondered what it would be like
847
00:39:12,850 --> 00:39:14,544
to kiss someone like you.
848
00:39:33,606 --> 00:39:36,439
Sorry I was so preoccupied
with Kate's project,
849
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,308
I didn't even get to
ask you how your day was.
850
00:39:40,277 --> 00:39:41,946
- It w... it was good.
- Yeah?
851
00:39:42,279 --> 00:39:44,240
Tonya seems very nice.
852
00:39:44,948 --> 00:39:47,350
Yeah. Night, Mom.
853
00:39:58,929 --> 00:40:01,174
Madison, I'm an alcoholic
854
00:40:02,066 --> 00:40:05,201
and I'm a workout
addict with daddy issues.
855
00:40:11,508 --> 00:40:13,342
Also, sometimes I get foot corns,
856
00:40:13,344 --> 00:40:14,944
and when that baby
flares up in the summer,
857
00:40:14,945 --> 00:40:17,113
I've been known to wear
shoes and socks at the beach.
858
00:40:26,256 --> 00:40:27,784
It's bulimia,
859
00:40:29,626 --> 00:40:31,454
my eating disorder.
860
00:40:32,763 --> 00:40:37,877
Um, it almost killed me when I was 17.
861
00:40:43,340 --> 00:40:45,051
I have a handle on it,
862
00:40:46,261 --> 00:40:49,212
but even now, sometimes,
my daily state of mind
863
00:40:49,213 --> 00:40:51,933
is still determined by my weight.
864
00:40:57,997 --> 00:40:59,482
Also,
865
00:41:00,624 --> 00:41:03,361
I am obsessed with the show Outlander.
866
00:41:04,404 --> 00:41:06,696
I've gone to conventions.
867
00:41:08,565 --> 00:41:09,591
No.
868
00:41:09,592 --> 00:41:10,992
- Yeah.
- You're one of those people?
869
00:41:10,993 --> 00:41:14,372
Yeah. I'm one of those people.
870
00:41:44,260 --> 00:41:45,945
Hey, Grandpa.
871
00:41:46,295 --> 00:41:47,697
The woman?
872
00:41:48,264 --> 00:41:50,365
The one you were trying to
impress with your cooking?
873
00:41:50,967 --> 00:41:54,535
Is she the woman in all
the pictures around here?
874
00:41:54,929 --> 00:41:58,906
So many questions in such a little body.
875
00:42:02,811 --> 00:42:07,215
Linh, it's the woman
in all the pictures.
876
00:42:09,118 --> 00:42:10,551
I knew it.
877
00:42:27,657 --> 00:42:32,270
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