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Previously on This Is Us...
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Hey, I picked up the turkey
for our three-day brine.
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I-I love a good brine.
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You know, you're welcome to join us.
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Kate, you just need to relax.
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- Okay?
- Really? What you needed to do
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was put him to bed at 3:00
like I asked you to.
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Build me that house.
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The house he was gonna build for me.
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A-Aren't you having a piece?
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No.
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We have to watch ourselves, Rebecca.
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Hey, do you think your dad's
actually gonna let me carve?
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Yeah. Of course.
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- This is our Thanksgiving.
- Mm.
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I mean, the sugar pie might
not turn out exactly right,
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but that's only because my mom
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refuses to reveal
the secret ingredient.
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- Mm.
- But it doesn't matter.
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Today, Rebecca Malone is in charge.
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- Yes, she is. And soon to be Rebecca Pearson.
- Mm-hmm. Mm, yeah.
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Mm-hmm.
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Mmm.
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- Mmm. Hey. Do you know what time it is?
- Mmm. Yeah.
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Because I want to be sure to clean up
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before they...
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... get here.
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- Yep.
- Uh, okay, let me put this in the oven.
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Okay.
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'Kay.
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So, Mom, you nervous
about your boyfriend
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coming to Thanksgiving dinner?
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I'm okay.
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I just hope the boys
don't feel threatened
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- by Matt.
- Mm.
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I am excited
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to meet Miguel's girlfriend.
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She's French.
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Marguerite.
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- Oh.
- Yeah.
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Remember making this pie
when you were a little girl?
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You loved being my sous chef.
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Here.
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Taste.
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Mm.
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You want to try and guess
the secret ingredient
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like you used to?
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Oh, I think it's the massive
amounts of butter and sugar
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that make it taste so good.
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♪ And Anna begin ♪
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Mm. Eh.
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♪ And Anna begin ♪
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No. No, no, no.
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♪ And Anna begins... ♪
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Okay...
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What are you doing?
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I am writing down the sugar pie
recipe, in case I forget.
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Oh. You mean in case I forget.
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Well, you don't need to worry,
because these recipes
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live deep inside.
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Besides, I don't know if I'm ready
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to reveal the secret ingredient
quite yet.
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Here.
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Let my grandson lick that.
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- Ooh!
- Mm-hmm.
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Jack, do you want to try
Grandma's pie?
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You want to try? You want to taste it?
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- What do you think?
- Good.
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- Is it good? Would you like some more?
- Yeah.
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Okay, let's-let's not go sugar crazy.
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He's already got sugary cereal,
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- so...
- Um, actually,
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his cereal's whole grain.
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Are you sure?
'Cause it tastes frosted.
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Yeah, no, I'm positive. Yeah.
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You would know if you went
on our grocery runs with us.
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Hey, I said I was willing to go
on the weekends,
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but you said
you wanted to go with your mom.
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- So...
- You know what? It's Thanksgiving.
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Can we just let our son enjoy it?
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Fine.
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Yeah.
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♪ My twins are in Reseda ♪
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♪ On this Turkey Day ♪
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♪ I wish I was with them ♪
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♪ But Elijah got his way ♪
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♪ Even Uncle Nicky's
got a girlfriend ♪
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♪ He's in Topeka with her now ♪
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I guess I'll just be alone.
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Till my tin heart goes...
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... ka-plow.
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I just made that up on the fly.
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Um, has anyone heard from Randall?
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♪ Call me Al ♪
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♪ Call me Al. ♪
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Come on, man. What's going on?
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Hey, I'm trying
to get my gobble on, Jae-won.
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This better be of the utmost.
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Sorry, I know. But I figured
this was worth the interruption.
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Senator Gamble's office keeps calling.
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He saw the article
in The Philadelphia Local
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and sends his regards.
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Huh.
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Tell the senator
I have to call the old fart back
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after the holiday.
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Today's a family day.
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I'll polish up the language
and pass it on.
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You the man. Gobble, gobble.
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- Gobble, gobble.
- We're so cute.
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I know. All right, later.
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Later.
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My man.
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- Brushing off the senator.
- Pshh.
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No more work calls, no emails.
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The only thing
I'm using this phone for
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is to record every memory
of this epic Pearson holiday.
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I want the girls to spend
some quality time with my mom.
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Hey, ladies.
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Girls.
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Girls... !
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- Yeah.
- What? What?
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- Are we there?
- Ladies,
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I would like to make a request,
all right?
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That you put your phones away
for today.
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No Instagram, no TikTok.
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Deja, do you think you can refrain
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for one day from texting with Malik?
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Well, that shouldn't be a problem.
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He's acting so weird.
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He hasn't texted all morning.
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Huh.
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Okay.
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All right, you guys can go back to...
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Yeah, exactly what you're doing
right now.
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Great.
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Anyway,
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it's gonna be a rewarding
and drama-free Thanksgiving.
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Aw, baby.
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- I love your heart.
- Mm.
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- Dig your ambition.
- Thank you.
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But the Pearson epitaph will read,
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"Lovely people,
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"cried a lot,
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traumatic-as-hell Thanksgivings."
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We're here.
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- Happy Thanksgiving.
- Happy Thanksgiving, y'all.
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Sophie and I broke up.
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Beer?
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Uh, nah, man, it's-it's
only noon, so I'm good.
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Yeah, he cheated on her,
like a freakin' idiot.
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What? Want to say something?
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Oh, no, n... uh, nothing,
it's just good to see my sis.
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- Ah.
- Hey.
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All of my babies are here.
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- Hey, Mom, how you doing?
- Oh...
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- Hi. Happy Thanksgiving.
- Happy Thanksgiving.
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Happy Thanksgiving, sweetheart.
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Hi.
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Oh, you guys, thank you so much
for being supportive today.
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I know it might feel
a little weird, but...
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Matt's a, he's a really
great guy, I promise.
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Well, that was nice to hear.
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- Oh. Hi.
- Sorry, the door was open.
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It's okay, come on in.
Good to see you.
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- Happy Thanksgiving. Hi.
- Happy Thanksgiving.
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Um, these are my kids.
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- Well, uh, you know Kevin and Kate.
- Yeah, good to see you.
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And then this is my son Randall
and his girlfriend Beth.
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- Nice to meet you.
- Yeah.
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Matt.
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Firm handshake.
You own your own house?
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- I mean, it's a town house.
- Oh, man,
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this is gonna be a good one.
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Hey!
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- Happy Thanksgiving.
- Hello, family.
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The Black Pearsons have arrived
for Thanksgiving.
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So good to see you.
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- Hi. Oh...
- Ah.
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Mwah. Hi, I'm Marguerite.
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I've been waiting
an eternity to meet you.
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- You are stunning.
- Oh.
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Miguel talks about you all the time.
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Oh, come on in. Hi, thank you.
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- Hi. Hey.
- Hi.
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- Happy Thanksgiving.
- Happy Thanksgiving.
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- Come in, come in.
- Right on.
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- Oh, you remember Matt, right?
- Oh, yeah.
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- Yeah. Hey. Hey, Miguel. Yeah.
- Hey. Good to see you.
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Hmm.
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- Um...
- That was awkward, right?
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- Yeah, there's a lot going on here.
- Mm-hmm.
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- Hey, Kate.
- Yeah.
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Tell the story of Mom making us
those homemade turkey costumes.
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Oh, my gosh, okay, they were so cute,
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but there were so many ruffles.
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Like, you couldn't even
move your arms.
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Hey, guys?
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Um, so after dinner, I'd love
to have a little family talk.
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Just the four of us and Miguel.
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It's so rare that we're all
together like this.
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It's nothing bad, I just...
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I want to go over a few things, okay?
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Okay.
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- Yeah, of course, Mom.
- Of course. Yeah, yeah.
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- You got it.
- Cool. Yep.
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Yep. It's gonna be a hell
of a Thanksgiving.
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sync and corrections by awaqeded
www.addic7ed.com.
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Okay.
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Ooh.
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Did you add the secret ingredient?
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I did not, 'cause you didn't
tell me what it is.
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- I didn't?
- No.
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- You did not, and you know that.
- Ah. Well...
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So, have you found your wedding dress?
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'Cause I can dig through
my closet for mine.
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I'm okay. I think
I'm gonna go with something
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flowy, less traditional.
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Well, you know, the months
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leading up to the wedding
are so stressful.
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- Uh-huh...
- My advice:
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starve yourself early on,
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and it'll give you a buffer
for bad decisions later.
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You know what,
Mom? I think I look just fine.
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You think they're gonna
kill each other?
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Oh, it's quite, quite possible.
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So, how is the gravy coming?
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Ooh, you didn't strain it.
Look, see all the lumps?
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Yeah, okay, Mom,
I'm just getting started...
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- Yeah, okay. Yeah.
- ... so give me a chance.
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Sorry I'm-I'm not more help.
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I'm a horrible cook.
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When I'm in the kitchen, it's like,
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"Houston, we have a problem."
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Um, where-where is the-the toilet?
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Oh, this way. I'll show you.
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- You need some help with that?
- Yeah.
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- Yeah, that'd be great.
- All right.
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Yeah, it's, uh, it's Pinot noir.
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It's, uh, Rebecca's favorite.
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- Oh, yeah? Oh, wow.
- Yeah.
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- Uh, let's see. There we go.
- All right.
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Is it okay?
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Sure.
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I-I just want this to go well.
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I want the kids to like me, you know?
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I'm hoping to stick around for
as long as Rebecca will have me.
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- Yeah? Yeah. Oh.
- Yeah.
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Dan Marino thinks it's a blitz...
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Why do you keep looking at Kate, man?
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She's just gained a lot of weight.
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Of course she has.
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Think about her life, man.
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She lives with Mom,
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she's got the worst ex-boyfriend
of all time,
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she thinks her dog killed our dad.
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I can totally tell when
they're talking about me.
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00:11:02,540 --> 00:11:04,852
Randall was shocked
when he saw how big I've gotten.
258
00:11:04,876 --> 00:11:08,088
Hey, everybody gains
the freshman 15 at college.
259
00:11:08,112 --> 00:11:10,724
Yeah, well, I gained the freshman 40
260
00:11:10,748 --> 00:11:12,249
and I'm not even in college.
261
00:11:18,156 --> 00:11:20,334
All right, everybody.
262
00:11:20,358 --> 00:11:22,403
So, this is it, this is the land
263
00:11:22,427 --> 00:11:26,407
that will eventually become
the Pearson family mecca.
264
00:11:26,431 --> 00:11:27,741
Soak it in, people.
265
00:11:27,765 --> 00:11:29,510
Hey.
266
00:11:29,534 --> 00:11:31,612
So, this talk.
267
00:11:31,636 --> 00:11:32,980
You think Mom's gonna
tell us she needs
268
00:11:33,004 --> 00:11:34,615
to have her driver's license
taken away?
269
00:11:34,639 --> 00:11:37,117
Or what if she lost all
her money to online scammers?
270
00:11:37,141 --> 00:11:40,087
Or maybe she and Miguel
want to become a throuple.
271
00:11:40,111 --> 00:11:41,855
- Oh, Lord. Man... Kate?
- What?
272
00:11:41,879 --> 00:11:44,158
- It could be anything.
- Kate, what do you think?
273
00:11:44,182 --> 00:11:47,194
I just think that we should
trust Mom, you know?
274
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Let her share what she wants to share.
275
00:11:49,387 --> 00:11:52,766
- Yeah.
- Hey, Kate? I'm-I'm at my wit's end.
276
00:11:52,790 --> 00:11:54,368
I had to strap him into the stroller,
277
00:11:54,392 --> 00:11:56,136
'cause he-he w... he just...
he won't walk with his cane,
278
00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:57,438
and when I pick him up,
he goes nuclear.
279
00:11:57,462 --> 00:11:59,139
Have you tried narrating to him?
280
00:11:59,163 --> 00:12:00,941
Like, the colors of the birds
or the trees?
281
00:12:00,965 --> 00:12:02,276
He just gets really frustrated
282
00:12:02,300 --> 00:12:04,044
when he doesn't know the full picture.
283
00:12:04,068 --> 00:12:06,347
Yeah, I-I know what he likes,
it's just hard to narrate
284
00:12:06,371 --> 00:12:08,816
a David Attenborough documentary
when he's losing his mind
285
00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:12,086
because he's had too much sugar.
286
00:12:12,110 --> 00:12:13,654
Seriously?
287
00:12:13,678 --> 00:12:14,989
Yeah, seriously.
288
00:12:15,013 --> 00:12:16,590
You know, guys, when I... um,
289
00:12:16,614 --> 00:12:18,025
if Jack's upset at home sometimes,
290
00:12:18,049 --> 00:12:20,361
I'll just, I'll sing to him.
291
00:12:20,385 --> 00:12:22,029
Oh, Jack likes music?
292
00:12:22,053 --> 00:12:23,364
- Toby.
- Wow. Thanks, Kev.
293
00:12:23,388 --> 00:12:25,065
Hey, can you just, can you help me
294
00:12:25,089 --> 00:12:27,824
- instead of instructing me?
- Yeah, Tobe, I can.
295
00:12:30,928 --> 00:12:32,506
They're like that all the time lately.
296
00:12:32,530 --> 00:12:34,108
Yeah, baby stage is rough.
297
00:12:34,132 --> 00:12:37,144
Beth and I used to have
these intense wordless fights.
298
00:12:37,168 --> 00:12:39,079
You ever had a woman
scream at you with her eyes?
299
00:12:39,103 --> 00:12:41,515
Oh, stop the presses,
300
00:12:41,539 --> 00:12:43,083
ladies and gentlemen.
301
00:12:43,107 --> 00:12:46,420
The Pearson girls are teaching
Grandma how to floss.
302
00:12:46,444 --> 00:12:48,222
Aww, snap.
303
00:12:48,246 --> 00:12:49,990
Get it, Rebecca.
304
00:12:50,014 --> 00:12:52,960
All right, everybody, come on.
Gather around, let's go.
305
00:12:52,984 --> 00:12:55,095
Come on. I want to show you what's up.
306
00:12:55,119 --> 00:12:58,265
So, uh, all right, I know
it's just flags for now, right?
307
00:12:58,289 --> 00:13:02,136
But, um, I'm following
Dad's sketch to a T.
308
00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:04,671
And, uh, okay, so we got Randall
right behind you.
309
00:13:04,695 --> 00:13:07,141
That right there, that is your
family wing, that whole thing.
310
00:13:07,165 --> 00:13:09,943
- Whoa, whoa, whoa!
- You know? And then, uh,
311
00:13:09,967 --> 00:13:12,146
Kate, your family wing
is gonna be right there.
312
00:13:12,170 --> 00:13:16,517
That whole thing right there,
and then, uh, uh, well...
313
00:13:16,541 --> 00:13:19,620
- Mom.
- Mm-hmm?
314
00:13:19,644 --> 00:13:22,623
The primary suite, for you.
315
00:13:22,647 --> 00:13:24,725
Right-right in the center.
316
00:13:24,749 --> 00:13:27,027
- Wow.
- Yeah. Yeah... And I haven't decided
317
00:13:27,051 --> 00:13:28,595
what we're gonna do
with this area quite yet.
318
00:13:28,619 --> 00:13:30,230
But, you know, I was tinkering
around a couple of ideas.
319
00:13:30,254 --> 00:13:32,032
Bocce ball court, I thought, maybe?
320
00:13:32,056 --> 00:13:34,234
- That'd be fun.
- Hey. Guys.
321
00:13:34,258 --> 00:13:37,037
Pearsons, Damons, Rivases,
let's do a family photo.
322
00:13:37,061 --> 00:13:39,262
- All right.
- Oh.
323
00:13:42,467 --> 00:13:43,811
You all right?
324
00:13:43,835 --> 00:13:45,145
Yeah, I'm just, uh,
taking everything...
325
00:13:45,169 --> 00:13:47,014
- taking everything in.
- All right.
326
00:13:47,038 --> 00:13:49,383
Let me ask you
a question, Kevin. Um...
327
00:13:49,407 --> 00:13:51,185
Do you have any plans
for a guesthouse,
328
00:13:51,209 --> 00:13:53,543
maybe for people
outside of the family?
329
00:13:54,445 --> 00:13:55,756
Oh, uh...
330
00:13:55,780 --> 00:13:57,191
Well, you know, it's a, it's a,
331
00:13:57,215 --> 00:13:58,725
it's a family compound, Miguel,
332
00:13:58,749 --> 00:14:00,761
so it really wasn't on the top
of my priority list.
333
00:14:00,785 --> 00:14:03,030
And I know that you're
Mr. Construction Guy,
334
00:14:03,054 --> 00:14:04,765
- and all that... No, I mean, I get it, I get it.
- I'm just...
335
00:14:04,789 --> 00:14:07,067
- But-but I-I...
- Amigos, por favor.
336
00:14:07,091 --> 00:14:09,269
Family photo time.
337
00:14:09,293 --> 00:14:10,704
Yeah. All right.
338
00:14:10,728 --> 00:14:12,596
Come on.
339
00:14:13,479 --> 00:14:17,106
Huddle for the Miami Dolphins.
340
00:14:17,107 --> 00:14:20,586
Mom. The plates are fine. Stop.
341
00:14:21,978 --> 00:14:23,189
Great.
342
00:14:23,213 --> 00:14:25,614
- You think I should go in there?
- No.
343
00:14:25,615 --> 00:14:27,699
No, no, no. I think you should stay
344
00:14:27,700 --> 00:14:30,779
right here with me and Tom Collins.
345
00:14:30,803 --> 00:14:33,348
You see, Jack,
346
00:14:33,372 --> 00:14:36,251
the relationship between
mothers and daughters
347
00:14:36,275 --> 00:14:40,022
is very complicated,
and it is a dynamic
348
00:14:40,046 --> 00:14:42,024
that us men will never understand.
349
00:14:42,048 --> 00:14:45,861
They live in a perpetual hellscape...
350
00:14:45,885 --> 00:14:48,297
- Dinner is ready.
- Ooh.
351
00:14:48,321 --> 00:14:50,399
- Wow. That looks wonderful.
- Ah.
352
00:14:50,423 --> 00:14:52,200
Okay, time to carve.
353
00:14:52,224 --> 00:14:55,737
Oh, no. Jack is gonna carve, right?
354
00:14:55,761 --> 00:14:57,773
- Yeah.
- Yep.
355
00:14:57,797 --> 00:14:59,207
Carve that turkey, son.
356
00:14:59,231 --> 00:15:01,176
It's the only way
we all get out of here alive.
357
00:15:03,169 --> 00:15:04,936
Ah...
358
00:15:09,675 --> 00:15:10,886
- Hey.
- Hi.
359
00:15:10,910 --> 00:15:13,889
I know this is anti-feminist,
360
00:15:13,913 --> 00:15:15,891
but can you please carve the turkey?
361
00:15:15,915 --> 00:15:18,694
- Of course. Yeah.
- Thank you.
362
00:15:18,718 --> 00:15:22,831
Oh, have you had a chance
to chat with Matt yet?
363
00:15:22,855 --> 00:15:24,366
Uh, yes.
364
00:15:24,390 --> 00:15:26,535
He is very nice.
365
00:15:26,559 --> 00:15:29,638
Uh, he is no sommelier,
but he is nice.
366
00:15:29,662 --> 00:15:31,640
Oh, like that matters to me.
367
00:15:33,566 --> 00:15:35,177
He is really great, though, huh?
368
00:15:35,201 --> 00:15:38,180
- He's so sweet.
- Yeah, he is the sweetest.
369
00:15:38,204 --> 00:15:39,414
I mean, he's not the sweetest,
370
00:15:39,438 --> 00:15:41,750
he is the perfect amount of sweet.
371
00:15:41,774 --> 00:15:46,321
Not too sweet, not too sour,
just right down the middle.
372
00:15:46,345 --> 00:15:49,658
Yeah.
373
00:15:49,682 --> 00:15:53,729
Oh, um, and Marguerite
is really beautiful.
374
00:15:53,753 --> 00:15:55,197
- Oh, yeah.
- Yeah.
375
00:15:55,221 --> 00:15:56,832
I have to admit, though, I-I thought,
376
00:15:56,856 --> 00:16:01,103
with her accent, she might be
a little more... worldly?
377
00:16:01,127 --> 00:16:05,107
But she's-she's actually
remarkably normal.
378
00:16:05,131 --> 00:16:07,709
- Uh... Is she?
- Mm-hmm.
379
00:16:07,733 --> 00:16:09,567
Yeah, very normal.
380
00:16:11,737 --> 00:16:13,615
♪ Anna begin... ♪
381
00:16:13,639 --> 00:16:15,083
Nope.
382
00:16:15,107 --> 00:16:17,152
♪ Be... ♪ Ugh... ♪ Begin... ♪
383
00:16:17,176 --> 00:16:19,788
There she is, the Thanksgiving Queen.
384
00:16:19,812 --> 00:16:21,289
Good, right?
385
00:16:21,313 --> 00:16:23,558
What should I do first,
should I use the knife
386
00:16:23,582 --> 00:16:27,729
to stab Randall's iPhone
or slice Kevin's guitar strings?
387
00:16:27,753 --> 00:16:29,264
Hey, Kevin, you want to take
a break from that guitar
388
00:16:29,288 --> 00:16:31,299
- for a little while?
- Oh, so sorry,
389
00:16:31,323 --> 00:16:32,768
is it bothering you
that I'm playing? The...
390
00:16:32,792 --> 00:16:35,070
Is it a bigger faux pas
than me not building a...
391
00:16:35,094 --> 00:16:36,838
extra wing on our family compound
392
00:16:36,862 --> 00:16:38,774
for your fishing buddies?
393
00:16:41,500 --> 00:16:42,751
I'm telling you, Matt,
394
00:16:42,752 --> 00:16:44,585
Y2K is real.
395
00:16:44,586 --> 00:16:47,665
I mean, I-I'm gonna put
all of my money in a mattress
396
00:16:47,689 --> 00:16:49,801
because I am freaked out about Y2K.
397
00:16:51,427 --> 00:16:52,771
Here you go.
398
00:16:52,795 --> 00:16:54,038
Whoa... Oh.
399
00:16:54,062 --> 00:16:55,240
- Uh...
- Uh-oh.
400
00:16:55,264 --> 00:16:57,108
Houston, we have a problem.
401
00:16:59,034 --> 00:17:01,179
She likes that line, huh?
402
00:17:01,203 --> 00:17:02,781
Big Apollo 13 fan?
403
00:17:02,805 --> 00:17:06,151
Oh, no, we just have this
inside joke going on right now.
404
00:17:06,175 --> 00:17:08,186
- Yeah.
- Oh.
405
00:17:08,210 --> 00:17:09,721
Hmm.
406
00:17:09,745 --> 00:17:11,823
Mmm.
407
00:17:11,847 --> 00:17:14,692
You know, if you two want
to get married at the club,
408
00:17:14,716 --> 00:17:17,762
we've got to put your names in soon.
409
00:17:17,786 --> 00:17:20,999
Can we hold off on the wedding
talk for now, please?
410
00:17:21,023 --> 00:17:22,967
- Thank you.
- Ah.
411
00:17:34,036 --> 00:17:35,346
Hey, Kate.
412
00:17:35,370 --> 00:17:36,948
Uh, I know it probably gets quiet here
413
00:17:36,972 --> 00:17:38,249
with just you and Mom.
414
00:17:38,273 --> 00:17:40,552
You should come visit Beth and I
at Carnegie Mellon more.
415
00:17:40,576 --> 00:17:43,911
Maybe audit a class.
Check out a party?
416
00:17:53,589 --> 00:17:55,099
So good.
417
00:17:56,492 --> 00:17:58,159
Uh, easy, easy.
418
00:18:00,329 --> 00:18:01,806
You know what, Mom?
419
00:18:01,830 --> 00:18:03,875
I'm actually gonna eat
the food that I cooked
420
00:18:03,899 --> 00:18:07,735
because I am hungry and Jack
loves me just the way I am.
421
00:18:08,437 --> 00:18:10,348
Mmm.
422
00:18:10,372 --> 00:18:11,950
Mmm...
423
00:18:24,887 --> 00:18:28,032
And we're not gonna get married
at your stuffy country club,
424
00:18:28,056 --> 00:18:30,134
and none of your friends
are invited because the day
425
00:18:30,158 --> 00:18:31,569
is about us, right?
426
00:18:31,593 --> 00:18:34,205
Not about the silly women
that you play bridge with
427
00:18:34,229 --> 00:18:35,896
that you secretly hate.
428
00:18:36,865 --> 00:18:39,544
Oh, the pie.
429
00:18:39,568 --> 00:18:41,546
The famous sugar pie. Mom.
430
00:18:41,570 --> 00:18:43,381
What is the secret ingredient, huh?
431
00:18:43,405 --> 00:18:46,217
What is it? Is it, um...
hmm, let me see.
432
00:18:46,241 --> 00:18:48,086
Is it... is it baloney?
433
00:18:48,110 --> 00:18:51,189
Because you haven't had
a slice of this in 20 years.
434
00:18:51,213 --> 00:18:52,790
Rebecca...
435
00:18:56,518 --> 00:18:58,263
It's everything I say.
436
00:18:58,287 --> 00:18:59,564
- Honey...
- Everything.
437
00:18:59,588 --> 00:19:01,699
Yeah...
438
00:19:05,861 --> 00:19:08,139
- Fill her up.
- There you... Boom.
439
00:19:08,163 --> 00:19:11,276
- All right, so, you excited for Thanksgiving?
- Yeah.
440
00:19:11,300 --> 00:19:14,445
Yeah, you want to feel this?
T-This is the Pilgrim Rick hat.
441
00:19:14,469 --> 00:19:18,116
It celebrates the creepy
roadside motel clerk
442
00:19:18,140 --> 00:19:19,517
of Pearson lore.
443
00:19:19,541 --> 00:19:21,719
Every year, one special person
gets to wear it,
444
00:19:21,743 --> 00:19:23,454
and this year, it's Daddy's turn.
445
00:19:23,478 --> 00:19:25,023
Let me get you... oop, yeah.
446
00:19:25,047 --> 00:19:28,549
Let's just get these out
of the way, yeah, all right...
447
00:19:31,253 --> 00:19:33,464
- Seriously, Tobe?
- Hmm?
448
00:19:33,488 --> 00:19:35,733
What are you afraid of?
449
00:19:35,757 --> 00:19:39,660
Just say it. Are you worried
that Jack's gonna get fat?
450
00:19:40,529 --> 00:19:43,074
Um, am I not allowed
to have any opinion
451
00:19:43,098 --> 00:19:44,842
about what we feed our son at all?
452
00:19:44,866 --> 00:19:47,245
Yeah, you can have a say,
but you're criticizing.
453
00:19:47,269 --> 00:19:48,947
And you always do that.
454
00:19:48,971 --> 00:19:50,214
It's like you're
a one-man tribunal, okay?
455
00:19:50,238 --> 00:19:51,649
I am here with them every day
456
00:19:51,673 --> 00:19:53,785
- doing the hard work.
- I did that work
457
00:19:53,809 --> 00:19:55,353
when I was unemployed, Kate.
458
00:19:55,377 --> 00:19:57,689
What do you want me to do?
Just not have any opinions
459
00:19:57,713 --> 00:19:59,724
about our kids because
you're overly sensitive
460
00:19:59,748 --> 00:20:01,459
about everything I say?
461
00:20:01,483 --> 00:20:02,927
Hey, Tobe.
462
00:20:02,951 --> 00:20:05,830
Come on, man, just...
maybe take it easy?
463
00:20:05,854 --> 00:20:07,799
You know, if I want advice
from a 41-year-old man-child
464
00:20:07,823 --> 00:20:10,435
sleeping on my couch,
I'll let you know.
465
00:20:10,459 --> 00:20:11,903
Kate, I support our family.
466
00:20:11,927 --> 00:20:15,106
All right? I-I am not, uh,
some absentee father
467
00:20:15,130 --> 00:20:17,542
throwing parties in San Francisco.
468
00:20:17,566 --> 00:20:18,610
You can't treat me like a bystander
469
00:20:18,634 --> 00:20:19,744
in our children's lives.
470
00:20:19,768 --> 00:20:21,079
And yes, I am worried
471
00:20:21,103 --> 00:20:22,747
that we are overfeeding Jack a little,
472
00:20:22,771 --> 00:20:25,049
and I think, I think
we would be insane
473
00:20:25,073 --> 00:20:27,975
not to acknowledge our genetics here.
474
00:20:35,784 --> 00:20:37,785
Toby, take off the hat.
475
00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,121
What?
476
00:20:41,056 --> 00:20:43,958
Take off the hat.
477
00:20:46,461 --> 00:20:50,097
I swear, every year with this family.
478
00:20:55,462 --> 00:20:57,130
Um...
479
00:20:59,366 --> 00:21:04,247
You don't know how many weeks
she worked on tonight's dinner.
480
00:21:04,271 --> 00:21:07,217
I mea... Studying family recipes.
481
00:21:07,241 --> 00:21:11,944
She really just wanted it
to be perfect for you.
482
00:21:13,213 --> 00:21:17,150
You know, she-she used
to want to be just like me.
483
00:21:18,819 --> 00:21:21,020
Dave used to call her my shadow.
484
00:21:25,826 --> 00:21:31,164
Listen, um, Dave and I,
we're moving to Connecticut.
485
00:21:32,099 --> 00:21:34,167
Dave got a new job, and...
486
00:21:35,002 --> 00:21:37,681
I can barely get her to visit me here.
487
00:21:37,705 --> 00:21:40,950
Do you really think
she's gonna drive eight hours?
488
00:21:40,974 --> 00:21:43,420
Yeah, she will.
489
00:21:43,444 --> 00:21:47,914
I promise, Janet, we will.
490
00:21:51,785 --> 00:21:55,788
You know, just... Give me ten minutes.
491
00:21:59,326 --> 00:22:01,271
Smile. Face.
492
00:22:01,295 --> 00:22:02,872
- Uh...
- Um, oh.
493
00:22:02,896 --> 00:22:06,109
It's-it's my, uh,
sixth favorite thing about you.
494
00:22:06,133 --> 00:22:07,577
My dimples.
495
00:22:07,601 --> 00:22:08,978
Aww, that was it?
496
00:22:09,002 --> 00:22:11,614
That's sweet.
497
00:22:11,638 --> 00:22:12,882
Okay, Marguerite.
498
00:22:12,906 --> 00:22:14,517
- All right, here we go.
- Oh...
499
00:22:14,541 --> 00:22:16,686
Um, I wish I could say it in French.
500
00:22:16,710 --> 00:22:19,289
Uh, what-what is the word
for nourriture? Um...
501
00:22:19,313 --> 00:22:21,825
Um... apples.
502
00:22:21,849 --> 00:22:24,394
- Uh, orange. Um...
- What kind of...
503
00:22:24,418 --> 00:22:26,329
- Eating. Bell... uh, stomach ache.
- No, no, no, no.
504
00:22:26,353 --> 00:22:27,664
- Tummy ache.
- Oh, no.
505
00:22:27,688 --> 00:22:30,700
Um, it is a place
with colorful flowers.
506
00:22:30,724 --> 00:22:33,002
Can't say "flowers."
507
00:22:33,026 --> 00:22:34,304
- Okay.
- Take us home.
508
00:22:34,328 --> 00:22:36,306
Come on, old guys, we got this.
509
00:22:36,330 --> 00:22:38,210
All right, Rebecca,
let's get some points.
510
00:22:39,767 --> 00:22:45,115
Okay, this is kind of similar
to a turtle, but not...
511
00:22:45,139 --> 00:22:47,517
- Uh, a tortoise.
- No, not a tortoise.
512
00:22:47,541 --> 00:22:50,820
Oh, Miguel, you had
two of these growing up,
513
00:22:50,844 --> 00:22:52,555
- named Lucy and Desi.
- Oh, lizards.
514
00:22:52,579 --> 00:22:53,923
- Yes! Okay.
- Lizards.
515
00:22:53,947 --> 00:22:55,458
How did you even remember that?
516
00:22:55,482 --> 00:22:56,543
- All right.
- Um...
517
00:22:56,567 --> 00:22:59,262
Oh, uh, okay, you and Jack
518
00:22:59,286 --> 00:23:01,564
once went to Froggy's,
you saw "Mean" Joe Greene,
519
00:23:01,588 --> 00:23:03,566
- you got his...
- Autograph.
520
00:23:03,590 --> 00:23:05,402
- Yes.
- Yes.
521
00:23:05,426 --> 00:23:07,337
Um...
522
00:23:07,361 --> 00:23:10,206
You used to call me Mary Tyler
Moore because I wore a...
523
00:23:10,230 --> 00:23:11,741
- A beret.
- Yes!
524
00:23:11,765 --> 00:23:14,244
This is so fun. Um...
525
00:23:14,268 --> 00:23:18,648
Okay, you were chased
by one of these one year
526
00:23:18,672 --> 00:23:20,917
at the Lundy family picnic,
you had to escape
527
00:23:20,941 --> 00:23:22,385
by jumping in a kiddie pool.
528
00:23:22,409 --> 00:23:23,620
The bumblebee.
529
00:23:23,644 --> 00:23:25,155
Yeah, that was not my finest moment.
530
00:23:25,179 --> 00:23:27,390
Oh, I thought it was really cute.
531
00:23:27,414 --> 00:23:29,259
Um...
532
00:23:29,283 --> 00:23:30,827
Oh, your biggest fear in life.
533
00:23:30,851 --> 00:23:32,762
Balding. Going bald.
534
00:23:32,786 --> 00:23:35,031
Okay, okay, okay, okay...
535
00:23:35,055 --> 00:23:39,169
Uh, okay, this is the greatest
Billy Joel song of all time.
536
00:23:39,193 --> 00:23:41,404
Uh, ♪ She's always a woman. ♪
537
00:23:41,428 --> 00:23:43,807
Okay, but another word
for the last word of that song.
538
00:23:43,831 --> 00:23:46,910
- Uh, uh, girl?
- Not girl, not girl.
539
00:23:46,934 --> 00:23:48,178
But, um...
540
00:23:48,202 --> 00:23:51,247
Oh, uh, okay.
Um, Susan Dey from L.A. Law.
541
00:23:51,271 --> 00:23:53,750
- You always say she's one beautiful...
- Female!
542
00:23:53,774 --> 00:23:55,018
Female, yes! I love you, Miguel!
543
00:23:55,042 --> 00:23:58,210
Time's up, time's up, time's up, guys.
544
00:24:05,252 --> 00:24:06,752
All right.
545
00:24:15,896 --> 00:24:18,308
- Hey.
- Hey.
546
00:24:20,133 --> 00:24:22,935
Aww. Look at this.
547
00:24:23,704 --> 00:24:25,905
So much love.
548
00:24:27,708 --> 00:24:29,152
I hate to be the bearer of bad news,
549
00:24:29,176 --> 00:24:31,621
but I've been sent
to confiscate your phone.
550
00:24:31,645 --> 00:24:33,990
What? "Sent"?
551
00:24:34,014 --> 00:24:35,158
By whom?
552
00:24:35,182 --> 00:24:37,827
Damn near everybody.
553
00:24:37,851 --> 00:24:40,820
- Have I been that annoying?
- Yes.
554
00:24:41,822 --> 00:24:45,001
The girls know and love your mom.
555
00:24:45,025 --> 00:24:47,026
I know.
556
00:24:48,395 --> 00:24:50,830
I feel disconnected from her.
557
00:24:52,499 --> 00:24:54,811
She used to live
30 minutes away from us.
558
00:24:54,835 --> 00:24:57,914
The girls are used to her
just popping over.
559
00:24:57,938 --> 00:25:00,973
Now she lives on a whole other coast.
560
00:25:02,409 --> 00:25:05,922
Kev is building her a house.
561
00:25:05,946 --> 00:25:07,824
She's practically raising
all these babies with them.
562
00:25:07,848 --> 00:25:10,983
And I'm happy for them, I am,
I just...
563
00:25:12,653 --> 00:25:14,320
I miss her.
564
00:25:16,223 --> 00:25:17,723
I know.
565
00:25:20,260 --> 00:25:21,938
But I am gonna need to take the phone.
566
00:25:21,962 --> 00:25:24,664
- Your mom was pretty adamant about it.
- Okay.
567
00:25:46,553 --> 00:25:49,855
We just keep having the same
argument over and over again.
568
00:25:52,092 --> 00:25:53,392
I know.
569
00:25:55,062 --> 00:25:56,873
You're upset that I'm not around more.
570
00:25:56,897 --> 00:25:58,441
I'm sensitive about that.
571
00:25:58,465 --> 00:26:01,133
Pointed jabs, rinse and repeat.
572
00:26:05,539 --> 00:26:07,039
I know.
573
00:26:09,409 --> 00:26:10,920
But in this...
574
00:26:10,944 --> 00:26:13,813
... specific argument, I want to say...
575
00:26:16,717 --> 00:26:19,162
... we were both fat kids.
576
00:26:19,186 --> 00:26:21,898
And it was hell.
577
00:26:21,922 --> 00:26:26,025
And Jack has our genes.
578
00:26:27,828 --> 00:26:30,974
So if I can help him to eat healthy
579
00:26:30,998 --> 00:26:36,335
and to avoid any of that pain,
I'm gonna do it.
580
00:26:46,313 --> 00:26:48,948
Do you remember the song "Kiss Me"?
581
00:26:50,117 --> 00:26:52,729
It played during the
makeover/transformation scene
582
00:26:52,753 --> 00:26:54,430
from She's All That.
583
00:26:54,454 --> 00:26:55,932
Freddie Prinze Jr. is standing
584
00:26:55,956 --> 00:26:57,600
at the bottom of the stairs,
and the formerly
585
00:26:57,624 --> 00:27:00,536
nerdy girl Laney Boggs
walks down the stairs
586
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,438
in this incredible red dress,
587
00:27:02,462 --> 00:27:05,475
and she's so gorgeous
that he's completely floored.
588
00:27:05,499 --> 00:27:08,611
♪ Kiss me, out of
the bearded barley... ♪
589
00:27:08,635 --> 00:27:10,413
Do you remember the scene?
590
00:27:10,437 --> 00:27:12,582
I don't think that the makeover scene
591
00:27:12,606 --> 00:27:15,051
from She's All That is the piece
of cinematic history
592
00:27:15,075 --> 00:27:17,420
- that you think it is.
- Okay.
593
00:27:20,647 --> 00:27:24,727
After my dad died and I started
gaining all the weight,
594
00:27:24,751 --> 00:27:29,455
I would stop myself from eating
by singing "Kiss Me."
595
00:27:36,797 --> 00:27:41,911
♪ Swing, swing,
swing the spinning step... ♪
596
00:27:41,935 --> 00:27:45,081
I would imagine myself at Kate 2.0
597
00:27:45,105 --> 00:27:46,949
walking down the stairs
598
00:27:46,973 --> 00:27:49,919
thin and beautiful.
599
00:27:49,943 --> 00:27:52,144
Like I was meant to be.
600
00:27:55,182 --> 00:27:58,461
Until I would eat something bad
or too much of it.
601
00:27:58,485 --> 00:28:03,166
You know, and then, I just saw
Kate 2.0 slipping away.
602
00:28:03,190 --> 00:28:05,501
And the shame would keep building
603
00:28:05,525 --> 00:28:07,003
and I'd keep binging and...
604
00:28:07,027 --> 00:28:10,306
my entire life has been
a cycle of just...
605
00:28:10,330 --> 00:28:12,642
... dieting and binging.
606
00:28:12,666 --> 00:28:16,746
I mean, food has always had
this intense power over me.
607
00:28:16,770 --> 00:28:19,972
And I don't want it to have
that power over our kids.
608
00:28:20,741 --> 00:28:22,552
I want them to enjoy Thanksgiving
609
00:28:22,576 --> 00:28:24,754
without having shame about it.
610
00:28:24,778 --> 00:28:26,989
Toby...
611
00:28:27,013 --> 00:28:30,193
I need you to know
that I've put a lot of thought
612
00:28:30,217 --> 00:28:32,852
into what I feed our children.
613
00:28:33,553 --> 00:28:35,154
A lot of thought.
614
00:28:35,889 --> 00:28:37,333
And I...
615
00:28:37,357 --> 00:28:40,359
I just don't know
how you don't know that.
616
00:28:43,430 --> 00:28:45,374
Sorry to interrupt. Um...
617
00:28:45,398 --> 00:28:47,543
Kate, are you ready for that talk?
618
00:28:47,567 --> 00:28:50,613
Yeah. Yeah.
619
00:28:50,637 --> 00:28:52,972
Okay.
620
00:29:00,489 --> 00:29:02,099
I can't stand her, Jack.
621
00:29:02,123 --> 00:29:04,034
Every single word that comes
out of her mouth,
622
00:29:04,058 --> 00:29:06,436
- every word i-is just...
- I-I... I know.
623
00:29:06,460 --> 00:29:08,561
I know, she just...
624
00:29:09,597 --> 00:29:11,875
She-she feels like she's losing you.
625
00:29:11,899 --> 00:29:14,044
And she knows
she's driving you crazy...
626
00:29:14,068 --> 00:29:16,513
If someone knows they're acting crazy
627
00:29:16,537 --> 00:29:19,816
and never stops, that is crazy, right?
628
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:23,487
Look, I just, I think
things are heightened right now.
629
00:29:23,511 --> 00:29:27,847
I mean, with the holiday,
the wedding, them moving.
630
00:29:28,582 --> 00:29:30,083
Who's moving?
631
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:35,232
You're moving to Connecticut?
632
00:29:35,256 --> 00:29:36,900
Yes.
633
00:29:36,924 --> 00:29:39,770
Your father finally got his dream job.
634
00:29:39,794 --> 00:29:41,471
Two years before retirement.
635
00:29:41,495 --> 00:29:44,030
We're moving right after the holidays.
636
00:29:45,833 --> 00:29:48,345
Mom.
637
00:29:48,369 --> 00:29:52,038
I'm gonna miss you so much.
638
00:29:52,940 --> 00:29:54,384
My baby girl.
639
00:29:54,408 --> 00:29:55,852
Aww.
640
00:29:55,876 --> 00:29:59,422
Rebecca, your dinner was very good.
641
00:29:59,446 --> 00:30:01,091
- It was.
- No, no, the turkey was dry.
642
00:30:01,115 --> 00:30:03,760
I cannot believe
you're gonna be so far away.
643
00:30:03,784 --> 00:30:05,862
I need you here for my wedding, Mom.
644
00:30:05,886 --> 00:30:08,732
Aww. Jack, why did you
tell her like that?
645
00:30:08,756 --> 00:30:11,368
You weren't supposed
to just blurt it out.
646
00:30:11,392 --> 00:30:12,969
Yeah, my mom told you
647
00:30:12,993 --> 00:30:14,204
- in confidence, Jack.
- Yeah.
648
00:30:14,228 --> 00:30:15,962
What the hell?
649
00:30:23,137 --> 00:30:27,040
Seems like I've been focusing
on the wrong guy all day, huh?
650
00:30:29,243 --> 00:30:31,744
I'm sorry, what?
651
00:30:33,414 --> 00:30:36,159
I did something terrible.
652
00:30:36,183 --> 00:30:37,917
To Sophie.
653
00:30:39,086 --> 00:30:40,787
You know, I blew it.
654
00:30:42,556 --> 00:30:45,558
And I can literally
hear him sometimes.
655
00:30:47,228 --> 00:30:48,895
I can hear his voice.
656
00:30:50,064 --> 00:30:52,642
You know, h-his disappointment in me,
657
00:30:52,666 --> 00:30:55,512
in my choices and...
658
00:30:55,536 --> 00:30:58,204
things I should have had a handle on.
659
00:31:01,242 --> 00:31:03,209
You ever get that feeling?
660
00:31:05,012 --> 00:31:08,792
Uh, I'm not sure I get anything
you're saying right now, Kevin.
661
00:31:08,816 --> 00:31:10,861
You should drink some water.
662
00:31:10,885 --> 00:31:12,986
You were his best friend, man.
663
00:31:13,988 --> 00:31:15,732
So...
664
00:31:15,756 --> 00:31:17,767
if you're even considering
acting on whatever the hell
665
00:31:17,791 --> 00:31:20,337
is going on with my mom...
666
00:31:20,361 --> 00:31:21,838
Just know when you feel the Earth
667
00:31:21,862 --> 00:31:26,243
rumbling beneath your feet, it's him.
668
00:31:26,267 --> 00:31:28,534
Turning over in his grave.
669
00:31:41,315 --> 00:31:44,327
I'm a little nervous,
so I wrote down some notes.
670
00:31:44,351 --> 00:31:46,686
Um...
671
00:31:51,458 --> 00:31:54,504
There is no easy way to start this.
672
00:31:54,528 --> 00:31:56,562
Um...
673
00:31:58,032 --> 00:32:02,746
When Dad died, it was a shock.
674
00:32:02,770 --> 00:32:06,216
Right? And we were
all left scrambling,
675
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,685
trying to figure out
676
00:32:08,709 --> 00:32:12,188
our roles and how to move on.
677
00:32:12,212 --> 00:32:14,090
Um...
678
00:32:14,114 --> 00:32:18,795
And the one silver lining
of this awful disease
679
00:32:18,819 --> 00:32:22,299
is that I have the opportunity
to make a plan.
680
00:32:22,323 --> 00:32:26,937
To try and ease
some of the burden, so...
681
00:32:26,961 --> 00:32:31,007
First things first, um,
no matter how this thing goes,
682
00:32:31,031 --> 00:32:34,811
no matter how slow or fast,
683
00:32:34,835 --> 00:32:38,181
if decisions need to be made for me,
684
00:32:38,205 --> 00:32:41,418
Miguel is the captain of that ship.
685
00:32:41,442 --> 00:32:45,188
- We have talked through every sad scenario...
- Mm-hmm.
686
00:32:45,212 --> 00:32:48,625
... and the last thing
he needs to deal with
687
00:32:48,649 --> 00:32:52,028
are disagreements about my care.
688
00:32:52,052 --> 00:32:54,397
So I need to hear you all
agree to that.
689
00:32:54,421 --> 00:32:55,966
We agree.
690
00:32:55,990 --> 00:32:57,067
- Of course.
- Yes.
691
00:32:57,091 --> 00:32:58,268
- Yeah?
- Great.
692
00:32:58,292 --> 00:32:59,869
Thank you.
693
00:32:59,893 --> 00:33:04,507
Um, and Kev, Miguel wasn't
asking about the guesthouse
694
00:33:04,531 --> 00:33:06,199
for fishing buddies.
695
00:33:07,668 --> 00:33:10,013
If we are really doing this,
696
00:33:10,037 --> 00:33:12,549
if this incredibly
generous thing you're doing
697
00:33:12,573 --> 00:33:14,807
for all of us is real, then...
698
00:33:16,143 --> 00:33:17,988
... at some point,
699
00:33:18,012 --> 00:33:19,856
I'm probably gonna need
permanent care,
700
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,682
and they're gonna need
a place to stay.
701
00:33:30,290 --> 00:33:32,168
But hopefully, we are
702
00:33:32,192 --> 00:33:35,205
a very, very long way away
from that. Um...
703
00:33:35,229 --> 00:33:39,409
But in the event that, uh,
Miguel, God forbid,
704
00:33:39,433 --> 00:33:42,178
is not here to make
those decisions for me,
705
00:33:42,202 --> 00:33:45,081
I'm gonna need one of you
to stand in for him.
706
00:33:46,607 --> 00:33:51,421
And I've thought long and hard
about who that should be.
707
00:33:51,445 --> 00:33:55,381
I just, I don't want there
to be any confusion or fights.
708
00:33:57,051 --> 00:33:59,062
There are a lot of reasons
for my decision.
709
00:33:59,086 --> 00:34:05,057
I just, I hope that
the three of you can respect it.
710
00:34:09,830 --> 00:34:13,166
Kate, I want it to be you.
711
00:34:24,178 --> 00:34:26,222
Hmm.
712
00:34:26,246 --> 00:34:27,924
Believe it or not,
that was the easy part
713
00:34:27,948 --> 00:34:31,117
of the family meeting. Um...
714
00:34:33,720 --> 00:34:36,433
My last request is, um,
715
00:34:36,457 --> 00:34:41,337
less a request and
more of a demand, actually.
716
00:34:41,361 --> 00:34:44,107
Um...
717
00:34:44,131 --> 00:34:47,544
This disease is a real bastard.
718
00:34:47,568 --> 00:34:49,546
And it-it's set me on a road
719
00:34:49,570 --> 00:34:52,649
that's gonna have a lot
of ugly twists and turns,
720
00:34:52,673 --> 00:34:54,874
and I'm afraid it's gonna be a lot...
721
00:34:56,543 --> 00:34:59,322
... harder on all of you
722
00:34:59,346 --> 00:35:01,224
than it will be on me
and I hate knowing that.
723
00:35:01,248 --> 00:35:03,526
I hate it.
724
00:35:04,718 --> 00:35:06,362
But what I don't want,
725
00:35:06,386 --> 00:35:08,598
I don't want every holiday
for the camera
726
00:35:08,622 --> 00:35:11,501
to be focused on me.
727
00:35:11,525 --> 00:35:15,004
So I need you all
to hear my voice right now,
728
00:35:15,028 --> 00:35:18,931
your mother's voice,
with all of her faculties.
729
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:24,170
You will not make your lives
smaller because of me.
730
00:35:24,905 --> 00:35:27,250
This thing that's happening to me
731
00:35:27,274 --> 00:35:31,488
will not be the thing
that holds you back.
732
00:35:31,512 --> 00:35:34,290
So... take the risks.
733
00:35:34,314 --> 00:35:39,095
Make the big moves,
even if they're small moves.
734
00:35:39,119 --> 00:35:42,966
Forge ahead with your lives
in any and every direction
735
00:35:42,990 --> 00:35:45,068
that moves you.
736
00:35:45,092 --> 00:35:49,929
I am your mother, and I'm sick.
737
00:35:50,931 --> 00:35:53,799
And I'm asking you be fearless.
738
00:35:55,402 --> 00:35:58,481
And if that seems like a tall
order, well, guess what? It is.
739
00:35:58,505 --> 00:36:00,550
But...
740
00:36:00,574 --> 00:36:03,620
The only acceptable response
741
00:36:03,644 --> 00:36:06,078
is a resounding "Yes, ma'am."
742
00:36:07,748 --> 00:36:10,349
Yes, ma'am.
743
00:36:13,213 --> 00:36:16,189
Okay, I will call you tomorrow
to go over everything.
744
00:36:16,190 --> 00:36:18,068
Dress, food, venues.
745
00:36:18,092 --> 00:36:21,027
- All of it.
- Oh, I can't wait.
746
00:36:30,505 --> 00:36:33,673
Oh. There you are.
747
00:36:37,912 --> 00:36:40,724
- Thanks for helping me clean up.
- Oh, ye... of course.
748
00:36:40,748 --> 00:36:42,693
You know, I'm always,
uh, happy to help.
749
00:36:49,357 --> 00:36:52,536
He thought it was "Piano Man."
750
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:54,538
Huh?
751
00:36:54,562 --> 00:36:57,508
Billy Joel's, uh, best song?
752
00:36:57,532 --> 00:37:00,277
Yeah, remember, we argued
about it all night at Froggy's?
753
00:37:00,301 --> 00:37:02,946
Uh, Jack was for "Piano Man"
754
00:37:02,970 --> 00:37:05,883
and I was for "She's Always a Woman."
755
00:37:05,907 --> 00:37:08,252
Yeah, I do remember that. Yeah.
756
00:37:08,276 --> 00:37:09,810
Yeah.
757
00:37:14,048 --> 00:37:17,884
Earlier, um, my jabs at Matt...
758
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:21,265
... they weren't harmless.
759
00:37:21,289 --> 00:37:24,891
And they weren't accidental.
760
00:37:28,429 --> 00:37:32,265
Not were mine, at her.
761
00:37:35,937 --> 00:37:39,950
These past two years, Miguel,
762
00:37:39,974 --> 00:37:45,974
you have been so good to me,
to us, and...
763
00:37:48,950 --> 00:37:52,596
... I-I just think somewhere
along the way, I just...
764
00:37:52,620 --> 00:37:55,889
I'm moving to Houston.
765
00:37:57,358 --> 00:37:59,870
I got, I got a job offer there
a few months back.
766
00:37:59,894 --> 00:38:02,239
It's-it's... It's near my kids.
767
00:38:02,263 --> 00:38:07,667
And it's why she was making
Houston jokes tonight.
768
00:38:09,637 --> 00:38:12,483
Oh.
769
00:38:12,507 --> 00:38:13,984
I'm sorry.
770
00:38:14,008 --> 00:38:17,244
I-I'm sorry to tell you like this.
771
00:38:20,381 --> 00:38:23,393
I feel like I've been staying around,
772
00:38:23,417 --> 00:38:27,187
you know, because I, um...
773
00:38:31,292 --> 00:38:34,961
It's... It's just, it's time, Rebecca.
774
00:38:36,430 --> 00:38:39,833
Now that you're back up
on your feet, um...
775
00:38:42,537 --> 00:38:44,871
It's time for me to go.
776
00:38:56,250 --> 00:39:00,287
It's just, I don't, I don't...
I don't know what else to do.
777
00:39:03,958 --> 00:39:06,159
You're my favorite person.
778
00:39:21,375 --> 00:39:23,720
Oh, Captain, my captain.
779
00:39:23,744 --> 00:39:26,590
Uh...
780
00:39:26,614 --> 00:39:28,058
I got the plans here.
781
00:39:28,082 --> 00:39:29,827
You know, I was thinking, um,
782
00:39:29,851 --> 00:39:31,461
maybe we could go over them together.
783
00:39:31,485 --> 00:39:33,230
Maybe tomorrow,
we could walk the property,
784
00:39:33,254 --> 00:39:37,057
just you and me,
and you tell me what I missed.
785
00:39:37,758 --> 00:39:39,859
I'd like that very much.
786
00:39:40,595 --> 00:39:43,863
- Um...
- Kevin.
787
00:39:45,366 --> 00:39:47,867
Really is a hell of a thing
that you're doing.
788
00:39:49,203 --> 00:39:51,181
Back at you, Cap.
789
00:39:51,205 --> 00:39:53,340
Back at you.
790
00:39:57,078 --> 00:39:59,623
I don't know what to do, guys.
She's still crying.
791
00:39:59,647 --> 00:40:01,191
You can't do anything.
792
00:40:01,215 --> 00:40:04,084
You can't just fix people, Randall.
793
00:40:05,553 --> 00:40:08,565
This house is too sad.
794
00:40:08,589 --> 00:40:10,100
Hey, where are you going?
795
00:40:10,124 --> 00:40:11,835
I heard the pool closed down.
796
00:40:11,859 --> 00:40:13,370
The one we went to growing up.
797
00:40:13,394 --> 00:40:15,138
I just want to check it out
before it disappears.
798
00:40:15,162 --> 00:40:16,640
Kev, right now's probably
not the right...
799
00:40:16,664 --> 00:40:18,832
Don't follow me. I'm not 12.
800
00:40:45,426 --> 00:40:48,428
He's moving to Houston.
801
00:40:56,404 --> 00:40:59,439
I got to ask.
802
00:41:03,144 --> 00:41:05,278
Why me?
803
00:41:08,115 --> 00:41:10,050
What?
804
00:41:11,953 --> 00:41:15,232
You are my daughter
and my best friend.
805
00:41:19,026 --> 00:41:21,094
It's okay.
806
00:41:22,430 --> 00:41:24,097
It was always you, Kate.
807
00:42:00,810 --> 00:42:03,855
_
808
00:42:06,650 --> 00:42:08,517
I'll tell you one day, baby.
809
00:42:09,402 --> 00:42:10,402
But not yet.
810
00:42:10,430 --> 00:42:13,789
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