1 00:00:00,445 --> 00:00:02,085 Previously on This Is Us... 2 00:00:02,116 --> 00:00:04,742 First day of summer, we don't want to be the last ones in the pool. 3 00:00:04,766 --> 00:00:05,857 Hey, where you going? 4 00:00:05,881 --> 00:00:07,281 Heard the pool closed down. 5 00:00:07,282 --> 00:00:08,893 Just want to check it out before it disappears. 6 00:00:08,917 --> 00:00:10,351 What are you doing? 7 00:00:11,386 --> 00:00:13,554 I hate that I'm doing this over FaceTime, 8 00:00:13,655 --> 00:00:15,032 - and I miss you. - I miss you, too. 9 00:00:15,056 --> 00:00:16,857 36 blissful hours 10 00:00:16,958 --> 00:00:19,103 until I have to listen to the Southwest flight attendants 11 00:00:19,127 --> 00:00:22,029 turn the safety protocol into a parody song again. 12 00:00:22,130 --> 00:00:24,799 If you and Toby need your space, just tell me. 13 00:00:24,900 --> 00:00:26,801 Yeah, Kev, it's... 14 00:00:26,902 --> 00:00:28,636 that's not even our problem right now. 15 00:00:28,737 --> 00:00:30,471 We have a lot more going on than that. 16 00:00:30,572 --> 00:00:33,007 Hey, can you just, can you help me instead of instructing me? 17 00:00:33,108 --> 00:00:34,341 Yeah, Tobe, I can. 18 00:00:34,443 --> 00:00:36,811 I'm here with them every day doing the hard work. 19 00:00:36,912 --> 00:00:37,978 What do you want me to do? 20 00:00:38,079 --> 00:00:39,680 Just not have any opinions about our kids 21 00:00:39,781 --> 00:00:42,216 because you're overly sensitive about everything I say? 22 00:00:42,317 --> 00:00:44,885 We just keep having the same argument over and over again. 23 00:00:47,422 --> 00:00:49,657 You're upset that I'm not around more. 24 00:00:49,758 --> 00:00:50,858 I'm sensitive about that. 25 00:00:50,959 --> 00:00:53,327 Pointed jabs. Rinse and repeat. 26 00:00:57,232 --> 00:00:59,467 Come on, guys, come on. First day of summer, 27 00:00:59,568 --> 00:01:01,469 we don't want to be the last ones in the pool. 28 00:01:01,570 --> 00:01:03,637 And guess what Mom and Dad have for you guys. 29 00:01:03,738 --> 00:01:05,072 Swim goggles! 30 00:01:05,173 --> 00:01:06,740 - I want one. - Yeah? 31 00:01:06,842 --> 00:01:08,242 - Okay. - Come on, come on. 32 00:01:08,343 --> 00:01:10,478 Hey, Bug, you want some goggles? 33 00:01:12,514 --> 00:01:14,158 I want to go on the diving board. 34 00:01:14,182 --> 00:01:15,993 Don't you think we ought to teach you how to swim 35 00:01:16,017 --> 00:01:17,261 - first, Kev? - Yeah, I know 36 00:01:17,285 --> 00:01:18,763 you didn't like taking your swim lessons, 37 00:01:18,787 --> 00:01:21,355 but they helped your brother learn how to swim at the Y. 38 00:01:21,456 --> 00:01:23,136 Guys, I'm gonna touch the drain! 39 00:01:23,225 --> 00:01:25,359 That girl is swimming upside down. 40 00:01:25,460 --> 00:01:28,162 No. She's doing the backstroke. 41 00:01:28,263 --> 00:01:30,023 And you would've learned how to do that, too, 42 00:01:30,098 --> 00:01:31,599 if you stayed in class at the Y. 43 00:01:31,700 --> 00:01:33,934 I want to dive off the diving board 44 00:01:34,035 --> 00:01:35,536 - and touch the drain. - Hey, 45 00:01:35,637 --> 00:01:37,037 once more for the cheap seats. 46 00:01:37,138 --> 00:01:38,616 We got to teach you how to swim first, okay? 47 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,774 There's Mr. Mike. Can I go see him? 48 00:01:40,876 --> 00:01:43,244 - Hey, you got Kate? - Yeah. 49 00:01:43,345 --> 00:01:44,478 I got Kate. 50 00:01:44,579 --> 00:01:47,581 Sweetheart, how about... 51 00:01:47,682 --> 00:01:49,216 we try going in? Yeah? 52 00:01:49,317 --> 00:01:51,462 Yeah, let's take those shoes off. Come on. 53 00:01:51,486 --> 00:01:54,154 - Come on. Baby... - It's too cold. 54 00:01:54,256 --> 00:01:56,924 No, no, no, no, no, but we have to get in first. 55 00:01:57,025 --> 00:01:59,293 It's not gonna be too cold once you get in. 56 00:01:59,394 --> 00:02:00,427 Come on. 57 00:02:00,529 --> 00:02:02,863 Come on, g... Ow, Kate. 58 00:02:02,964 --> 00:02:04,632 Come on, baby doll. 59 00:02:04,733 --> 00:02:06,033 No? It's fun. 60 00:02:06,134 --> 00:02:07,568 It's nice and warm. Try it. 61 00:02:07,669 --> 00:02:10,604 Ow. You're hurting Mommy. You're hurting me. 62 00:02:10,705 --> 00:02:13,741 Come on. Here. Take my hand. Come on. 63 00:02:16,411 --> 00:02:18,279 Wow. 64 00:02:21,283 --> 00:02:24,418 Can't believe we'll never be back here again. 65 00:02:24,519 --> 00:02:26,153 I know. It feels weird. 66 00:02:26,254 --> 00:02:28,422 Goodbye, pool. Thanks for the memories. 67 00:02:28,523 --> 00:02:30,491 Because of you, pool, 68 00:02:30,592 --> 00:02:32,992 Randall got to see our mother in a bathing suit every summer, 69 00:02:33,028 --> 00:02:34,895 and for that he is forever grateful. 70 00:02:34,996 --> 00:02:37,156 - You're demented. - Ow. You know it's true. 71 00:02:37,232 --> 00:02:39,099 - Hey. - Get help. 72 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,602 I... Where's the brick? 73 00:02:41,703 --> 00:02:44,538 - What brick? - The brick that propped open the door. 74 00:02:45,907 --> 00:02:48,609 - Nice. - Oh... 75 00:02:48,710 --> 00:02:51,712 - Hmm? - This brick? 76 00:02:51,813 --> 00:02:54,782 Great. Great, yeah, so we're locked in? 77 00:02:54,883 --> 00:02:57,685 Oh, God, yeah, so this is how 78 00:02:57,786 --> 00:02:59,720 my obituary will read... um... 79 00:02:59,821 --> 00:03:02,089 "Sunny Delight poster boy, valedictorian 80 00:03:02,190 --> 00:03:03,958 and 'other' die trapped in pool." 81 00:03:04,059 --> 00:03:05,770 No, come on, Kate. You know they're gonna mention 82 00:03:05,794 --> 00:03:07,595 the fact I got cut out of Days of Our Lives. 83 00:03:07,620 --> 00:03:08,672 - Stop. - Ah. 84 00:03:08,697 --> 00:03:09,863 Can you not hit me? 85 00:03:09,965 --> 00:03:11,709 Hey, hey, hey, can we look for another way out? 86 00:03:11,733 --> 00:03:13,400 Come on. 87 00:03:18,640 --> 00:03:21,041 How is this my life? 88 00:03:21,142 --> 00:03:24,211 I need you all to hear my voice right now. 89 00:03:24,312 --> 00:03:27,348 Your mother's voice with all of her faculties. 90 00:03:27,449 --> 00:03:31,051 You will not make your lives smaller because of me. 91 00:03:31,152 --> 00:03:34,188 This thing that's happening to me 92 00:03:34,289 --> 00:03:38,525 will not be the thing that holds you back. 93 00:03:38,627 --> 00:03:40,527 So, take risks. 94 00:03:40,629 --> 00:03:42,963 Make the big moves, 95 00:03:43,064 --> 00:03:44,865 even if they're small moves. 96 00:03:44,966 --> 00:03:47,735 Forge ahead with your lives 97 00:03:47,836 --> 00:03:50,604 in any and every direction that moves you. 98 00:03:50,705 --> 00:03:53,207 I'm your mother, 99 00:03:53,308 --> 00:03:55,242 and I'm sick, 100 00:03:55,343 --> 00:03:57,745 and I'm asking you to be fearless. 101 00:04:00,215 --> 00:04:01,615 Safe travels, siblings. 102 00:04:01,716 --> 00:04:03,684 Okay, we'll see you guys in L.A. 103 00:04:03,785 --> 00:04:05,252 for Mom and Mig's anniversary party. 104 00:04:07,322 --> 00:04:09,657 - All right, you ready? - Yeah. 105 00:04:09,758 --> 00:04:11,058 Hey, Tobe. 106 00:04:14,796 --> 00:04:16,263 We can't sustain this, 107 00:04:16,364 --> 00:04:18,432 living in two different cities, 108 00:04:18,533 --> 00:04:20,534 so I'd like to go to San Francisco 109 00:04:20,635 --> 00:04:21,935 with you for the weekend. 110 00:04:22,037 --> 00:04:24,638 - See how it feels. - Really? 111 00:04:24,739 --> 00:04:26,240 Yeah. 112 00:04:27,242 --> 00:04:29,276 Okay, yeah, I'd like that. 113 00:04:30,311 --> 00:04:31,945 Okay. 114 00:04:33,915 --> 00:04:35,949 I'm really excited for this weekend. 115 00:04:36,051 --> 00:04:38,452 I know. Me, too. Only four more days till you come see me. 116 00:04:38,553 --> 00:04:40,287 A whole weekend just you and me. 117 00:04:40,388 --> 00:04:42,033 - When's the last time we did that? - I don't know. One, two... 118 00:04:42,057 --> 00:04:44,258 three lifetimes ago, at least. 119 00:04:44,359 --> 00:04:47,061 Oh, man, I am so excited. 120 00:04:47,162 --> 00:04:48,862 Oh, you know what, I got to run. 121 00:04:48,963 --> 00:04:50,497 All right, babies, I love you so much. 122 00:04:50,598 --> 00:04:52,399 I'll see you soon. Be good to Mommy, okay? 123 00:04:52,500 --> 00:04:53,500 You say bye to Daddy? 124 00:04:53,601 --> 00:04:54,879 - Bye, babies. I love you. - Bye. 125 00:04:54,903 --> 00:04:56,170 Bye. 126 00:04:56,271 --> 00:04:59,073 - Love you. Bye. - Bye. Love you. 127 00:04:59,174 --> 00:05:01,942 Okay. Oh, 9:25. It's time to go to the park. 128 00:05:02,043 --> 00:05:04,678 - Park. - Yay, we're going to the park. 129 00:05:04,779 --> 00:05:06,980 ♪ Tuesday ♪ 130 00:05:07,082 --> 00:05:09,717 ♪ In the park ♪ 131 00:05:09,818 --> 00:05:11,952 ♪ Jack's excited for the swing set ♪ 132 00:05:12,053 --> 00:05:15,222 ♪ And 12 steps to the sidewalk. ♪ 133 00:05:15,323 --> 00:05:17,057 And then what are we gonna do? 134 00:05:17,158 --> 00:05:19,660 Then we make a turn to the... 135 00:05:19,761 --> 00:05:21,962 - Left. - The left. Exactly. 136 00:05:22,063 --> 00:05:24,965 ♪ To the lover of my youth ♪ 137 00:05:25,066 --> 00:05:28,268 ♪ The solace for my age... ♪ 138 00:05:28,369 --> 00:05:29,847 You just wrote your first song, Courtney. 139 00:05:29,871 --> 00:05:32,005 ♪ From what harms ♪ 140 00:05:34,275 --> 00:05:35,476 ♪ You will reach for me ♪ 141 00:05:35,577 --> 00:05:37,745 Is that silly? 142 00:05:37,846 --> 00:05:40,681 ♪ On our darkest days ♪ 143 00:05:40,782 --> 00:05:42,783 ♪ And I will come home ♪ 144 00:05:42,884 --> 00:05:44,952 ♪ To your arms ♪ 145 00:05:45,053 --> 00:05:47,020 Can we do it? Can we do it? 146 00:05:47,122 --> 00:05:49,123 ♪ And I will hold... ♪ 147 00:05:49,224 --> 00:05:52,192 ♪ Hey, hey, hey, we're on our way ♪ 148 00:05:52,293 --> 00:05:53,627 ♪ Wave to Gregory ♪ 149 00:05:53,728 --> 00:05:54,962 ♪ How's your day? ♪ 150 00:05:55,063 --> 00:05:56,607 You know what? Stop putting me in your dumb songs 151 00:05:56,631 --> 00:05:58,198 if I'm not getting a writer's cut. 152 00:05:58,299 --> 00:05:59,376 Come on, you're part of the neighborhood. 153 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:00,501 You're a part of the song. 154 00:06:00,602 --> 00:06:02,703 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 155 00:06:04,072 --> 00:06:06,640 Slow down, bud. Slow down. 156 00:06:06,741 --> 00:06:09,977 ♪ Sheila's a jolly good fellow ♪ 157 00:06:10,078 --> 00:06:12,546 ♪ Sheila's a jolly good fellow ♪ 158 00:06:14,716 --> 00:06:16,350 Thank you. Thank you, Kate. 159 00:06:16,451 --> 00:06:18,018 You made an old gal feel very special. 160 00:06:18,119 --> 00:06:19,553 Oh, good. 161 00:06:19,654 --> 00:06:21,121 - Thank you. - Yes. 162 00:06:21,222 --> 00:06:23,390 Aren't you gonna have some, too? 163 00:06:23,491 --> 00:06:25,325 No, I'm good. I'm just gonna have some water. 164 00:06:25,426 --> 00:06:27,161 ♪ There is time upon ♪ 165 00:06:27,262 --> 00:06:30,898 ♪ Your faces ♪ 166 00:06:30,999 --> 00:06:34,401 ♪ I will cherish you ♪ 167 00:06:34,502 --> 00:06:37,538 ♪ Till you leave me for... ♪ 168 00:06:37,639 --> 00:06:39,984 ...sensitive side, then you turn into a total ass. 169 00:06:40,008 --> 00:06:41,218 Is that a pretty accurate description 170 00:06:41,242 --> 00:06:42,543 of our relationship, Tyler? 171 00:06:42,644 --> 00:06:44,211 So, Edward Norton 172 00:06:44,312 --> 00:06:46,213 was just imagining Brad Pitt 173 00:06:46,314 --> 00:06:48,315 the entire time? 174 00:06:48,416 --> 00:06:50,217 Are you just now realizing that? 175 00:06:50,318 --> 00:06:51,885 We've seen this, like, 18 times. 176 00:06:51,986 --> 00:06:54,521 It's just so much shirtless Brad Pitt. 177 00:06:54,622 --> 00:06:56,190 - I get distracted. - No, I... 178 00:06:56,291 --> 00:06:57,591 Fair. Fair. 179 00:06:59,694 --> 00:07:01,228 You know what's funny? Um... 180 00:07:01,329 --> 00:07:04,298 Sometimes, I... 181 00:07:04,399 --> 00:07:07,634 imagine hanging out with Old Toby. 182 00:07:07,735 --> 00:07:09,536 "Old Toby"? 183 00:07:09,637 --> 00:07:11,939 Yeah. You know, who he was 184 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:13,774 before he lost all the weight at the gym 185 00:07:13,875 --> 00:07:16,944 and got his fancy job and better clothes. 186 00:07:17,045 --> 00:07:19,580 I guess Old Toby's like my Tyler Durden. 187 00:07:19,681 --> 00:07:22,182 I-I know that sounds crazy. 188 00:07:22,283 --> 00:07:25,586 You guys just need a good weekend. 189 00:07:26,588 --> 00:07:28,622 Yeah. We do. 190 00:07:29,691 --> 00:07:32,559 You're right. Which is why I'm just... 191 00:07:32,660 --> 00:07:35,062 I'm gonna go to the Bay to be with my bae, 192 00:07:35,163 --> 00:07:37,164 you know, with an open heart and mind. 193 00:07:37,265 --> 00:07:39,800 Old Toby is still in there. 194 00:07:39,901 --> 00:07:41,101 Go find him. 195 00:07:42,503 --> 00:07:45,305 Yeah. Okay. 196 00:07:48,042 --> 00:07:49,743 Hey, babe. Don't worry, 197 00:07:49,844 --> 00:07:51,545 I'm already packed and leaving on time. 198 00:07:51,646 --> 00:07:53,947 - Miracles do exist. - There's a, 199 00:07:54,048 --> 00:07:56,383 there's a, uh, slight hitch in our giddy-up. 200 00:07:56,484 --> 00:07:59,753 Okay, my-my meeting for my Tokyo project got rescheduled, 201 00:07:59,854 --> 00:08:02,122 so I won't be able to be at the airport, 202 00:08:02,223 --> 00:08:04,625 so I-I booked you the finest electric vehicle 203 00:08:04,726 --> 00:08:06,927 that San Francisco has to offer to pick you up, 204 00:08:07,028 --> 00:08:09,162 and I am... I am, uh, hustling here 205 00:08:09,264 --> 00:08:11,265 to make sure I can get back to the apartment 206 00:08:11,366 --> 00:08:13,934 to personally roll out the red carpet for you myself. 207 00:08:15,370 --> 00:08:16,747 No worries, we have the whole weekend. 208 00:08:16,771 --> 00:08:19,473 Oh, I know it, Kate. I am very excited. 209 00:08:19,574 --> 00:08:21,842 I have made plans. I've made so many plans, 210 00:08:21,943 --> 00:08:23,577 my plans have plans. 211 00:08:23,678 --> 00:08:26,113 Listen, I'm gonna try and clear my plate here. 212 00:08:26,214 --> 00:08:28,181 Uh, I'm gonna text you the guy's info. 213 00:08:28,283 --> 00:08:30,194 I'll leave my phone on, in case there are any problems, 214 00:08:30,218 --> 00:08:31,528 and I hope you have a safe flight. 215 00:08:31,552 --> 00:08:33,921 - All right, I love you. - Okay, love you. 216 00:08:35,456 --> 00:08:38,358 ♪ I know these days ♪ 217 00:08:38,459 --> 00:08:39,993 ♪ Will pass away... ♪ 218 00:08:40,094 --> 00:08:41,528 Well, that sucks. 219 00:08:43,131 --> 00:08:46,366 - You would've picked me up. - Without question. 220 00:08:46,467 --> 00:08:48,302 But do not fret, my sweet pet, 221 00:08:48,403 --> 00:08:52,205 I will be with you the whole time. 222 00:08:52,307 --> 00:08:54,308 It's gonna be fun. 223 00:08:58,980 --> 00:09:02,049 ♪ So I will hold ♪ 224 00:09:02,150 --> 00:09:04,017 ♪ You dear. ♪ 225 00:09:07,089 --> 00:09:09,047 Come on, Kate, just take one more step in. 226 00:09:09,048 --> 00:09:11,258 - I don't want to. - But look. 227 00:09:11,259 --> 00:09:13,343 Mommy took one more step in, and she's fine. 228 00:09:13,344 --> 00:09:15,044 Just put your face in the water. 229 00:09:15,145 --> 00:09:17,473 Pretend it's one giant bathtub. 230 00:09:17,474 --> 00:09:19,642 You blow bubbles in the bath all the time. 231 00:09:19,743 --> 00:09:20,944 Right? Watch. 232 00:09:21,045 --> 00:09:22,545 Mommy'll do it. 233 00:09:22,646 --> 00:09:24,257 Ooh, there's probably a lot of pee in here. 234 00:09:24,281 --> 00:09:25,521 ...sinking to the bottom. 235 00:09:25,616 --> 00:09:27,450 Hey, how about you swim to that wall. 236 00:09:27,551 --> 00:09:29,185 - Think you can do that? - See? 237 00:09:29,286 --> 00:09:31,054 - It's easy. - Okay, here we go. 238 00:09:31,155 --> 00:09:33,056 But, Kate, how will we know 239 00:09:33,157 --> 00:09:34,634 that your brand-new bathing suit even works 240 00:09:34,658 --> 00:09:36,059 if you don't get it wet? 241 00:09:37,494 --> 00:09:38,494 Jack. 242 00:09:38,529 --> 00:09:40,263 Yeah, I-I got him. 243 00:09:40,364 --> 00:09:41,598 Jack. 244 00:09:41,699 --> 00:09:44,367 Okay. I got you. 245 00:09:44,468 --> 00:09:46,236 - He's just a child, Jack. - Yeah, 246 00:09:46,337 --> 00:09:48,177 and someday he's gonna be a man. 247 00:09:48,205 --> 00:09:51,374 Hey, you're not ready for the deep end yet, bud. 248 00:09:51,475 --> 00:09:53,343 Leave me alone. 249 00:09:55,012 --> 00:09:56,713 Okay, uh, hey, 250 00:09:56,814 --> 00:09:58,581 Bug, you're gonna stay here with Daddy. 251 00:09:58,682 --> 00:10:00,293 I'm trying to get her to put her face in the water, 252 00:10:00,317 --> 00:10:03,853 - so good luck with that. - Okay. Great. 253 00:10:05,155 --> 00:10:07,490 Hey, no problemo. We got this. 254 00:10:07,591 --> 00:10:08,925 Put your face in the water. 255 00:10:09,026 --> 00:10:10,660 Daddy, it's not gonna happen. 256 00:10:14,431 --> 00:10:16,666 All right, why do they make it so hard to get out? 257 00:10:16,767 --> 00:10:18,407 They're trying to make it hard to get into 258 00:10:18,435 --> 00:10:21,004 so teenagers like you aren't wandering around drinking beer, 259 00:10:21,105 --> 00:10:23,106 - playing with safety equipment. - Hey. 260 00:10:23,207 --> 00:10:26,542 What? Oh. 261 00:10:26,644 --> 00:10:28,011 I'm literally trapped. 262 00:10:28,112 --> 00:10:29,946 Ah, don't worry. 263 00:10:30,047 --> 00:10:31,607 We're not gonna be stuck here all night. 264 00:10:31,682 --> 00:10:33,917 No, I'm not... I'm not talking about the pool. 265 00:10:34,018 --> 00:10:36,886 Although, if I die where I had my first sloppy kiss 266 00:10:36,987 --> 00:10:39,789 with Stuart, I will be pissed. Um... 267 00:10:39,890 --> 00:10:41,557 No, I'm... 268 00:10:41,659 --> 00:10:43,660 trapped in Pittsburgh. 269 00:10:43,761 --> 00:10:45,028 What's so bad about Pittsburgh? 270 00:10:47,531 --> 00:10:49,766 Nothing. Nothing's wrong with Pittsburgh. It's... 271 00:10:49,867 --> 00:10:51,301 It's my life in Pittsburgh. 272 00:10:51,402 --> 00:10:53,102 Yeah, I mean, 273 00:10:53,203 --> 00:10:55,305 I wake up, eat breakfast, 274 00:10:55,406 --> 00:10:58,608 go to the diner where I serve greasy food to unhappy people, 275 00:10:58,709 --> 00:11:01,611 then I go home and eat dinner, watch TV. 276 00:11:01,712 --> 00:11:04,314 Oh, yeah, there's-there's the added bonus lately 277 00:11:04,415 --> 00:11:06,749 of listening to Mom get flirty on the phone. 278 00:11:06,850 --> 00:11:09,285 She has a flirty voice. It's... it's haunting. 279 00:11:09,386 --> 00:11:11,387 Only thing I get excited about is 280 00:11:11,488 --> 00:11:14,457 eating ice cream at the end of the day, but, um... 281 00:11:14,558 --> 00:11:16,392 we can all see where that's gotten me. 282 00:11:16,493 --> 00:11:18,227 So... 283 00:11:21,565 --> 00:11:23,433 Aren't you glad you asked? 284 00:11:51,829 --> 00:11:55,798 You being here felt like cause for celebration. 285 00:11:55,899 --> 00:11:57,967 This is some of the finest bubbly going. 286 00:11:58,068 --> 00:11:59,969 - Well... - I am so excited 287 00:12:00,070 --> 00:12:02,038 that you are finally here. 288 00:12:02,139 --> 00:12:03,873 I can hardly stand it. 289 00:12:03,974 --> 00:12:05,685 - I can't believe it. You're here. - I know. 290 00:12:05,709 --> 00:12:07,610 - Cheers. - Cheers. 291 00:12:07,711 --> 00:12:09,445 - Mmm. - Mmm. 292 00:12:09,546 --> 00:12:11,681 - Très délicieux. - Mmm. 293 00:12:11,782 --> 00:12:13,416 Come here. I want to show you something. 294 00:12:15,419 --> 00:12:18,388 Over to the right is Coit Tower, 295 00:12:18,489 --> 00:12:20,490 over the hill is North Beach, 296 00:12:20,591 --> 00:12:22,602 and if you look right through there, when there's not fog, 297 00:12:22,626 --> 00:12:25,161 which is... never... 298 00:12:25,262 --> 00:12:27,830 - ...is the Golden Gate Bridge. - Wow. 299 00:12:27,931 --> 00:12:30,299 It's a really beautiful view. 300 00:12:30,401 --> 00:12:32,301 It really is, isn't it? 301 00:12:37,674 --> 00:12:38,708 Mmm. 302 00:12:40,010 --> 00:12:42,111 It has been... 303 00:12:42,212 --> 00:12:43,212 forever. 304 00:12:43,313 --> 00:12:44,747 It sure feels like it. 305 00:12:44,848 --> 00:12:46,716 I think I'm nervous. 306 00:12:46,817 --> 00:12:48,351 Oh... 307 00:12:48,452 --> 00:12:49,685 Well, it's cute. 308 00:12:51,488 --> 00:12:54,057 Can we just... 309 00:12:54,158 --> 00:12:57,393 promise to not let this much time go by? 310 00:12:57,494 --> 00:13:00,496 I promise. 311 00:13:02,966 --> 00:13:05,134 Now, I think we have about 20 minutes 312 00:13:05,235 --> 00:13:07,437 before the vegan barbecue arrives, 313 00:13:07,538 --> 00:13:10,506 which I know doesn't sound sexy, but I promise you that it is. 314 00:13:10,607 --> 00:13:13,109 - Well, then, bon appétit. - Mm-hmm. 315 00:13:19,316 --> 00:13:21,217 I missed that. Mmm. 316 00:13:22,853 --> 00:13:24,854 Well, I mean... you. 317 00:13:24,955 --> 00:13:26,189 - W-Well, everything. - Yeah. 318 00:13:26,290 --> 00:13:28,034 - You know what I mean. - Yeah. 319 00:13:28,058 --> 00:13:29,625 - Is that offensive? - Offensive? 320 00:13:29,726 --> 00:13:32,728 I want those words written on my tombstone. 321 00:13:32,830 --> 00:13:35,098 Oh, babe, The Great British Bake Off is back. 322 00:13:35,199 --> 00:13:36,866 You want a little cake and a cuddle? 323 00:13:36,967 --> 00:13:39,135 How about a little squeeze and a scone? 324 00:13:39,236 --> 00:13:42,271 Ah, I would love to, my sweet profiterole, 325 00:13:42,372 --> 00:13:44,073 but I have... I actually have 326 00:13:44,174 --> 00:13:45,819 a work phone call that I have to make real quick 327 00:13:45,843 --> 00:13:48,177 that I would've made earlier, were it not for 328 00:13:48,278 --> 00:13:50,346 the eight-hour time difference in Tokyo, 329 00:13:50,447 --> 00:13:53,082 so I'm gonna knock this out real quick... I will not be long... 330 00:13:53,183 --> 00:13:56,619 Then it is just me, you, Paul and Prue, okay? 331 00:13:57,621 --> 00:13:59,655 Okay, yeah, I'll just be here. 332 00:14:04,695 --> 00:14:07,964 You know I'm always down for a little Netflix and chill, right? 333 00:14:08,065 --> 00:14:09,332 Wink! 334 00:14:09,433 --> 00:14:12,235 Let's see what this guy's watching. 335 00:14:12,336 --> 00:14:14,637 Oh, right, 336 00:14:14,738 --> 00:14:18,574 Inside Bill's Brain: Decoding Bill Gates. 337 00:14:18,675 --> 00:14:21,744 - What is this, school? Ick. - Ew. 338 00:14:21,845 --> 00:14:24,514 Let's see here. 339 00:14:24,615 --> 00:14:26,682 Oh, oh, oh, who-who-who are these 340 00:14:26,783 --> 00:14:28,351 stranger dangers? 341 00:14:28,452 --> 00:14:29,829 He doesn't even know how many quarters there are 342 00:14:29,853 --> 00:14:30,987 in a baseball match. 343 00:14:31,088 --> 00:14:33,122 Ridiculous. And 5K is... 344 00:14:33,223 --> 00:14:35,458 Since when does he run without being chased? 345 00:14:35,559 --> 00:14:39,996 Oh, and these-these fancy pants, these fancy clothes. 346 00:14:40,097 --> 00:14:41,564 Ooh! Look at me. 347 00:14:41,665 --> 00:14:45,535 What, do you get poured into these pants? Ugh. 348 00:14:47,004 --> 00:14:49,472 Hello. 349 00:14:49,573 --> 00:14:50,873 The name's Boring. 350 00:14:50,974 --> 00:14:52,508 James Boring. 351 00:14:52,609 --> 00:14:56,045 Oh, uh-oh, Kate, uh-oh. 352 00:14:56,146 --> 00:14:57,647 Yeah. 353 00:14:57,748 --> 00:14:59,582 It's a... 354 00:14:59,683 --> 00:15:01,250 a fat guy 355 00:15:01,351 --> 00:15:03,920 in a little coat. 356 00:15:04,021 --> 00:15:08,257 A fat guy in a little coat. 357 00:15:08,358 --> 00:15:10,403 - All right, that's enough. - Come on! You guys have sex 358 00:15:10,427 --> 00:15:12,295 for, like, the first time in a millennia, 359 00:15:12,396 --> 00:15:13,916 and dude gets up to take a phone call? 360 00:15:13,997 --> 00:15:15,742 At least he waited to put his earbuds back in. 361 00:15:15,766 --> 00:15:18,034 - Give me the jacket. - Okay, all right, all right. 362 00:15:18,135 --> 00:15:19,235 I took it too far. 363 00:15:19,336 --> 00:15:20,856 I was just trying to have a little fun. 364 00:15:22,406 --> 00:15:25,074 I was trying to make you laugh. 365 00:15:25,175 --> 00:15:27,810 Do you have any idea how much I miss your laugh? 366 00:15:32,115 --> 00:15:34,483 Fine. 367 00:15:34,585 --> 00:15:35,952 But you're gonna miss me. 368 00:15:46,780 --> 00:15:49,982 Good morning, love of my life. 369 00:15:50,083 --> 00:15:51,884 - Hi. - What's this? 370 00:15:51,985 --> 00:15:54,053 This is some of my favorite coffee 371 00:15:54,154 --> 00:15:56,055 from my favorite coffee shop in the entire city. 372 00:15:56,156 --> 00:15:58,491 I ran down and picked us up a... 373 00:15:58,592 --> 00:16:00,660 - a couple of cups. - Ooh. 374 00:16:00,761 --> 00:16:02,261 "Brew Can Do It". 375 00:16:02,362 --> 00:16:04,173 You know I love a coffee shop with a good pun name. 376 00:16:04,197 --> 00:16:06,198 Yeah, and check this out. Okay. 377 00:16:06,300 --> 00:16:09,201 So, I have marked 378 00:16:09,303 --> 00:16:10,863 everything that I think we can do today. 379 00:16:10,938 --> 00:16:12,538 You ready? Okay, 380 00:16:12,639 --> 00:16:15,508 so after we enjoy our java, I'm going to take you 381 00:16:15,609 --> 00:16:17,243 for a delicious brunch at the Fairmont. 382 00:16:17,344 --> 00:16:19,144 After that, I thought we could go to this cool 383 00:16:19,179 --> 00:16:20,647 photography exhibit at the de Young Museum 384 00:16:20,671 --> 00:16:21,714 in Golden Gate Park. 385 00:16:21,815 --> 00:16:23,316 I know how much you enjoy it 386 00:16:23,417 --> 00:16:25,718 - when we pretend to understand art. - I do. 387 00:16:25,819 --> 00:16:27,720 For ten minutes at a time, of course. 388 00:16:27,821 --> 00:16:30,189 Yeah, anything longer just, like, defeats the purpose. 389 00:16:30,290 --> 00:16:32,468 Then we're coming back here to get all gussied up for my boss's 390 00:16:32,492 --> 00:16:34,493 cocktail party tonight. 391 00:16:34,595 --> 00:16:36,929 After which, I am taking you 392 00:16:37,030 --> 00:16:40,833 to a very, very exclusive dinner at the Top of the Mark, 393 00:16:40,934 --> 00:16:43,069 where I have procured, using my wit, my charm, 394 00:16:43,170 --> 00:16:44,781 and yes, my best friend Benjamin Franklin, 395 00:16:44,805 --> 00:16:46,772 a table on the window 396 00:16:46,873 --> 00:16:49,609 with a view of the entire city. 397 00:16:51,178 --> 00:16:53,980 - Wow. - Yeah. 398 00:16:54,081 --> 00:16:56,248 Well, you got this city down. 399 00:16:56,350 --> 00:16:58,417 I have been living here alone for three months, 400 00:16:58,518 --> 00:17:00,720 so Mr. Frommer and I have become pretty tight. 401 00:17:00,821 --> 00:17:03,222 So, what do you say? 402 00:17:05,058 --> 00:17:07,727 It really... It sounds amazing. 403 00:17:07,828 --> 00:17:09,595 - Yeah. - Yeah. 404 00:17:13,667 --> 00:17:16,035 I was just... I don't know. 405 00:17:16,136 --> 00:17:18,471 Babe, I was just hoping that we could have an old-school 406 00:17:18,572 --> 00:17:23,109 KaToby day, where there's just no fancy plans or pressure. 407 00:17:23,210 --> 00:17:25,778 We could just go out and see where the day takes us. 408 00:17:25,879 --> 00:17:29,215 Oh. Um... Okay. 409 00:17:29,316 --> 00:17:31,484 Sure. Yeah. 410 00:17:31,585 --> 00:17:34,030 Well, if that's what you want to do, then that's what we'll do. 411 00:17:34,054 --> 00:17:36,094 Really, babe? 'Cause I know that you worked so hard. 412 00:17:36,156 --> 00:17:38,257 - I'm just... - No, listen to me. 413 00:17:38,358 --> 00:17:41,560 Being together is the only thing that matters, okay? 414 00:17:41,662 --> 00:17:45,064 Plus, you said "KaToby," and you know well and good 415 00:17:45,165 --> 00:17:47,485 that when you use our ship name, you get whatever you want. 416 00:17:47,567 --> 00:17:49,301 I love that. 417 00:17:52,105 --> 00:17:54,006 Yeah! 418 00:17:54,107 --> 00:17:55,947 Didn't you love those Rice-A-Roni ads as a kid? 419 00:17:56,043 --> 00:17:58,344 ♪ Rice-A-Roni ♪ 420 00:17:58,445 --> 00:18:00,012 ♪ The San Francisco treat. ♪ 421 00:18:01,314 --> 00:18:02,759 Do you think they'll let me ring the bell? 422 00:18:02,783 --> 00:18:03,949 Maybe. 423 00:18:04,051 --> 00:18:06,352 Maybe. Let's ask. Here. 424 00:18:25,605 --> 00:18:28,174 Hi, babies. Hi. 425 00:18:28,275 --> 00:18:31,444 We're having a great time, but we're missing you. 426 00:18:31,545 --> 00:18:33,379 - We are. - Where's Daddy? 427 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:35,425 - Daddy's here, too. Yeah. - Yeah, yeah, if you guys 428 00:18:35,449 --> 00:18:37,209 could just put all of that in an email, okay? 429 00:18:37,250 --> 00:18:39,010 Yeah, I got to get on, uh, an important call. 430 00:18:39,086 --> 00:18:41,220 Big VIPs on the other line. Yeah. Thank you. Bye. 431 00:18:41,321 --> 00:18:43,433 We wanted to show you the sea lions that are usually here, 432 00:18:43,457 --> 00:18:45,224 but today they went somewhere else. 433 00:18:45,325 --> 00:18:47,059 Not all of them. 434 00:19:11,318 --> 00:19:13,219 So, where are we now? Wait, let me guess. 435 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:14,797 Is this the neighborhood where they filmed 436 00:19:14,821 --> 00:19:16,021 So I Married an Axe Murderer? 437 00:19:16,123 --> 00:19:18,390 "Look at the size of that boy's head. 438 00:19:18,492 --> 00:19:20,659 It's like a... an orange on a toothpick." 439 00:19:20,761 --> 00:19:23,329 N-Not quite. 440 00:19:23,430 --> 00:19:25,064 - Oh. - I-I wanted you... 441 00:19:25,165 --> 00:19:27,967 - Uh-huh. - ...to see this. 442 00:19:31,538 --> 00:19:34,907 We haven't really mentioned the elephant in the room, 443 00:19:35,008 --> 00:19:38,878 and I think it's time that we at least start talking about it. 444 00:19:38,979 --> 00:19:40,513 I miss you. 445 00:19:40,614 --> 00:19:44,250 I miss the kids, and I think, I think that this would be 446 00:19:44,351 --> 00:19:45,918 perfect for us. 447 00:19:47,454 --> 00:19:48,687 To... buy? 448 00:19:48,789 --> 00:19:51,857 To think about, if you're willing. 449 00:19:55,228 --> 00:19:56,529 Can I show you? 450 00:19:58,565 --> 00:19:59,999 Come on. 451 00:20:00,100 --> 00:20:03,502 There's three bedrooms upstairs, each with their own bathroom. 452 00:20:03,603 --> 00:20:05,004 And don't forget the converted ADU 453 00:20:05,105 --> 00:20:06,405 off the garage for grandma. 454 00:20:06,506 --> 00:20:08,546 - Good to see you, Toby. - How are you, Larry? 455 00:20:08,575 --> 00:20:09,642 Thanks for seeing us. 456 00:20:09,743 --> 00:20:10,943 - This is my wife. - Kate. 457 00:20:11,044 --> 00:20:12,945 So nice to finally meet you. 458 00:20:13,046 --> 00:20:14,446 Hi. 459 00:20:14,548 --> 00:20:17,283 Toby, in answer to your question, I found out the owners 460 00:20:17,384 --> 00:20:19,251 updated the kitchen and the HVAC 461 00:20:19,352 --> 00:20:20,519 - five years ago. - Great. 462 00:20:20,620 --> 00:20:21,754 And they'd be open 463 00:20:21,855 --> 00:20:23,789 to leaving the trampoline for Jack and Hailey. 464 00:20:23,890 --> 00:20:25,758 Yes! 465 00:20:27,227 --> 00:20:29,562 - I'll let you guys explore. - Thank you. 466 00:20:29,663 --> 00:20:30,903 Oh, yeah, there's a trampoline. 467 00:20:32,365 --> 00:20:33,966 How many times have you been here? 468 00:20:34,067 --> 00:20:35,801 Just a couple. I run by here all the time. 469 00:20:35,902 --> 00:20:37,269 I've always loved this house. 470 00:20:37,370 --> 00:20:39,738 One day, a "for sale" sign went up, and, I don't know, 471 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:42,308 it just got me thinking. The great part is that 472 00:20:42,409 --> 00:20:44,654 the kids' rooms aren't too far from what would be our room, 473 00:20:44,678 --> 00:20:46,718 so we'd be close but not right on top of each other. 474 00:20:46,746 --> 00:20:48,647 Come on, I want to show you. 475 00:20:53,753 --> 00:20:56,121 Larry, thank you so much. I'll call you, okay? 476 00:20:56,223 --> 00:20:58,557 I will. Don't do anything until I call. 477 00:21:00,727 --> 00:21:03,696 So... so, what'd you think, huh? 478 00:21:04,731 --> 00:21:06,899 I think it's overwhelming. 479 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,869 I'm... I am sure. I know that, I know that this feels quick, 480 00:21:09,970 --> 00:21:12,004 but don't panic, the owners aren't accepting offers 481 00:21:12,105 --> 00:21:14,265 until the day after tomorrow, so we have plenty of time 482 00:21:14,307 --> 00:21:16,575 to think about it and put together a pros-and-cons list. 483 00:21:16,676 --> 00:21:18,477 Uh, the day after tomorrow is not enough time 484 00:21:18,578 --> 00:21:20,813 to-to make this... this huge decision. 485 00:21:20,914 --> 00:21:23,616 I mean, Toby, can we even afford it? 486 00:21:23,717 --> 00:21:25,150 Yes. We can. 487 00:21:25,252 --> 00:21:26,986 Because I may have already gotten us 488 00:21:27,087 --> 00:21:28,621 preapproved for a loan 489 00:21:28,722 --> 00:21:30,789 and talked to a real estate agent back in L.A. 490 00:21:30,891 --> 00:21:32,625 about what we could get for our house. 491 00:21:34,227 --> 00:21:36,795 Toby, I thought that we were just, like, 492 00:21:36,897 --> 00:21:39,632 wrapping our heads around the idea of San Francisco, and... 493 00:21:39,733 --> 00:21:41,400 and now we're making this big decision 494 00:21:41,501 --> 00:21:42,902 and putting an offer on a house 495 00:21:43,003 --> 00:21:45,537 - that I'm-I'm seeing for the first time? - I know. 496 00:21:45,639 --> 00:21:47,473 I'm sorry. I just, I-I didn't, 497 00:21:47,574 --> 00:21:49,808 I didn't want to present you with hypotheticals. 498 00:21:49,910 --> 00:21:52,645 Kate, trust me, I have put a lot of thought into this. 499 00:21:52,746 --> 00:21:56,015 There are these incredible hiking trails 500 00:21:56,116 --> 00:21:58,117 that lead to an awesome park right on the Bay. 501 00:21:58,218 --> 00:22:00,552 We're near the airport for easy trips back to L.A. 502 00:22:02,989 --> 00:22:04,723 Kate... 503 00:22:04,824 --> 00:22:07,092 we can do this. 504 00:22:07,193 --> 00:22:09,395 We can make a life up here, 505 00:22:09,496 --> 00:22:11,563 together. 506 00:22:13,867 --> 00:22:16,302 Come on, let me show you where your mom and Miguel can stay. 507 00:22:16,403 --> 00:22:17,736 Come on. You're gonna love it. 508 00:22:19,637 --> 00:22:23,675 Okay, Katie girl. You ready to get your face in the water, huh? 509 00:22:23,676 --> 00:22:26,511 Come on, come on. Let's do it together, let's do it together. 510 00:22:26,512 --> 00:22:28,380 - We'll do it together. - No, no, no, no, no! 511 00:22:28,481 --> 00:22:30,215 Okay, okay, how about, uh... 512 00:22:33,286 --> 00:22:35,954 How about a new tactic, okay? 513 00:22:36,055 --> 00:22:39,391 How about... how about we float on your back? 514 00:22:39,492 --> 00:22:42,527 Okay? I'll be right here so that you don't go under, okay? 515 00:22:42,628 --> 00:22:45,263 All right, here, just let go, just let go. 516 00:22:46,899 --> 00:22:49,601 Okay, so... 517 00:22:49,702 --> 00:22:51,236 you're in a bad spot, 518 00:22:51,337 --> 00:22:54,373 but that's just for now. 519 00:22:54,474 --> 00:22:55,974 Dad hasn't been gone that long. 520 00:22:56,075 --> 00:22:58,143 - Everything's weird. - Yeah. 521 00:22:58,244 --> 00:23:00,445 And maybe instead of focusing on what's not so great, 522 00:23:00,546 --> 00:23:02,447 you can focus on what you want to happen next. 523 00:23:02,548 --> 00:23:05,150 Like, what do you want to do? What do you want to be? 524 00:23:05,251 --> 00:23:08,487 God, you guys. Come on. 525 00:23:08,588 --> 00:23:11,156 Guidance counselor's not a good look on either of you. 526 00:23:11,257 --> 00:23:13,992 If you could dream of doing anything, 527 00:23:14,093 --> 00:23:16,795 what would it be? Anything. 528 00:23:16,896 --> 00:23:19,131 That is the problem. 529 00:23:20,733 --> 00:23:22,634 I can't think of anything. 530 00:23:22,735 --> 00:23:24,469 Okay, I'm not like you guys. 531 00:23:24,570 --> 00:23:26,471 You know, you want to be an actor, 532 00:23:26,572 --> 00:23:29,107 and you want to change the world. 533 00:23:29,208 --> 00:23:31,843 We're the exact same age, and you guys are 534 00:23:31,944 --> 00:23:34,479 way ahead of me. 535 00:23:34,580 --> 00:23:37,983 Randall, you've already met the love of your life. 536 00:23:38,084 --> 00:23:39,851 And, Kevin, I mean, 537 00:23:39,952 --> 00:23:42,152 you're so far ahead, you've already ruined one marriage. 538 00:23:46,526 --> 00:23:47,993 I just... 539 00:23:51,798 --> 00:23:54,800 When I look into my future... 540 00:23:56,235 --> 00:23:58,804 I literally see 541 00:23:58,905 --> 00:24:00,906 nothing. 542 00:24:01,007 --> 00:24:03,942 No job, no family. 543 00:24:06,779 --> 00:24:08,447 Nothing. 544 00:24:09,816 --> 00:24:11,583 You know, 545 00:24:11,684 --> 00:24:13,985 you wouldn't think it would take this long to get a Lyft 546 00:24:14,086 --> 00:24:15,954 in the town where the company was started. 547 00:24:17,490 --> 00:24:19,891 Hey, listen, I'm sorry 548 00:24:19,992 --> 00:24:22,194 that I sprung the house thing on you like that. 549 00:24:22,295 --> 00:24:24,729 I-I meant for it to be a grand gesture, 550 00:24:24,831 --> 00:24:27,232 and I think it might have been a grand mistake. 551 00:24:27,333 --> 00:24:29,534 I'm just excited for you to be up here. 552 00:24:29,635 --> 00:24:32,204 I know. I am, too. 553 00:24:32,305 --> 00:24:35,507 I'm just processing is all. 554 00:24:35,608 --> 00:24:37,342 - Okay. Yeah. - Yeah. 555 00:24:37,443 --> 00:24:39,621 Everybody at work is really excited to meet you tonight. 556 00:24:39,645 --> 00:24:41,546 I think we're gonna have a really good time. 557 00:24:41,647 --> 00:24:43,215 Me, too. 558 00:24:43,316 --> 00:24:47,085 - The driver can cancel? That's a thing? - Mm-hmm. 559 00:24:47,186 --> 00:24:48,854 - Okay. - Can we just walk? 560 00:24:48,955 --> 00:24:52,524 Uh, it... No, I'll just get another one. 561 00:24:52,625 --> 00:24:55,327 Well, I thought you said your boss lived close by. 562 00:24:55,428 --> 00:24:58,763 Yeah, it's not far, but it's... it's... 563 00:24:58,865 --> 00:25:00,599 - You know. - But what? 564 00:25:00,700 --> 00:25:04,903 It's-it's all up... uphill, so... 565 00:25:08,841 --> 00:25:13,111 There we go. Casey is gonna be here in eight minutes. 566 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:16,982 Why is the car spinning in circles? 567 00:25:17,083 --> 00:25:19,117 Oh, this is so beautiful. 568 00:25:19,218 --> 00:25:21,586 Yeah, my-my boss sold his first company 569 00:25:21,687 --> 00:25:24,055 to Google for a boatload of money. 570 00:25:24,156 --> 00:25:25,876 Like, literally, that's how he got his boat. 571 00:25:25,925 --> 00:25:28,260 But he's surprisingly down to earth, as is everyone, 572 00:25:28,361 --> 00:25:29,705 especially for a bunch of tech weenies. 573 00:25:29,729 --> 00:25:31,429 Oh, and here's a warning. 574 00:25:31,531 --> 00:25:33,865 Do not ask anyone what they actually do 575 00:25:33,966 --> 00:25:35,267 for work, trust me. 576 00:25:35,368 --> 00:25:37,469 There they are. The couple of the hour. 577 00:25:37,570 --> 00:25:39,471 Finally, I get to meet the famous Kate. 578 00:25:39,572 --> 00:25:41,373 - Hi. - Kate, this is my boss, Amir. 579 00:25:41,474 --> 00:25:43,575 Nice to meet you, and you are way too young 580 00:25:43,676 --> 00:25:45,220 to be the Amir that I've heard so much about. 581 00:25:45,244 --> 00:25:46,578 What are you, like, 25? 582 00:25:46,679 --> 00:25:48,313 I love her instantly, Toby. 583 00:25:48,414 --> 00:25:49,814 I knew you would. 584 00:25:49,916 --> 00:25:52,027 - Well, thank you for having us tonight. - Are you kidding? 585 00:25:52,051 --> 00:25:54,196 I've been wanting to meet you ever since Toby joined us. 586 00:25:54,220 --> 00:25:57,155 - Come on, I'll give you a tour. - Okay. 587 00:25:57,256 --> 00:25:58,700 So you've been with the company a while, then? 588 00:25:58,724 --> 00:26:02,060 Yupper. Started here after Facebook, 589 00:26:02,161 --> 00:26:04,796 - and just never left. - Wow. And what do you do? 590 00:26:04,897 --> 00:26:07,832 Uh, you know how most businesses can't afford 591 00:26:07,934 --> 00:26:12,170 non-technical managers ideating unrealistic features? 592 00:26:12,271 --> 00:26:14,172 Mm-hmm. 593 00:26:14,273 --> 00:26:16,508 And your kids are so cute. Toby showed me the picture 594 00:26:16,609 --> 00:26:18,777 of Hailey wrapped around Jack like a baby koala. 595 00:26:18,878 --> 00:26:22,013 I called my wife immediately and told her, "Let's have a baby." 596 00:26:22,114 --> 00:26:24,482 - Oh. - Their cuteness is powerful. 597 00:26:24,584 --> 00:26:28,153 - Oh. - It really is. Thank you. 598 00:26:28,254 --> 00:26:30,622 So, whether it's reporting or machine learning, 599 00:26:30,723 --> 00:26:32,624 I automate tasks for the company 600 00:26:32,725 --> 00:26:34,292 because no one wants communication 601 00:26:34,393 --> 00:26:36,273 and product inefficiencies between the engineers 602 00:26:36,362 --> 00:26:37,762 and everybody else, right? 603 00:26:37,863 --> 00:26:39,364 - Right. - Which is where I come in. 604 00:26:39,465 --> 00:26:41,366 What do you know about infrastructure platforms? 605 00:26:41,467 --> 00:26:43,579 - Um... - She thinks they're overrated, just like Smash Mouth. 606 00:26:43,603 --> 00:26:45,704 Have you tried this? Try this. 607 00:26:45,805 --> 00:26:47,583 - Oh. Thanks. Sure. - Thanks so much. Can I borrow her? Hey, come on. 608 00:26:47,607 --> 00:26:48,940 Enjoy. 609 00:26:49,041 --> 00:26:50,442 How you doing? You doing okay? 610 00:26:50,543 --> 00:26:52,043 Yeah. Yeah, I really am. 611 00:26:52,144 --> 00:26:55,280 - I mean, Toby, everybody's really great. - Yeah. 612 00:26:55,381 --> 00:26:57,515 - Hi, Kate. Sorry to interrupt. - Hi. 613 00:26:57,617 --> 00:26:59,718 But Warren said you agreed to trade him Steph Curry. 614 00:26:59,819 --> 00:27:01,886 - What? No! - Is that true? 615 00:27:01,988 --> 00:27:03,966 Why would I do that? Curry's like the heart of my team. 616 00:27:03,990 --> 00:27:05,557 Sorry. This is fantasy basketball. 617 00:27:05,658 --> 00:27:07,993 I'll be back in one and a half seconds. Oh. 618 00:27:08,094 --> 00:27:09,694 What are you... 619 00:27:09,795 --> 00:27:12,330 What are you talking about, I give you Curry? 620 00:27:12,431 --> 00:27:14,142 - You said it. - I said it in a bar. 621 00:27:14,166 --> 00:27:16,167 - Oh, no. - I said it in bar. 622 00:27:16,268 --> 00:27:18,737 You can't believe anything anyone says in a bar. 623 00:27:18,838 --> 00:27:20,598 - That counts. - That does not count. 624 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,174 - Not in the state of California. - It's happening. I'm sorry. 625 00:27:37,423 --> 00:27:39,491 I'm so happy you came. 626 00:27:39,592 --> 00:27:41,760 Toby's been a lifesaver up here. 627 00:27:41,861 --> 00:27:44,562 Most popular at the company by multiple degrees 628 00:27:44,664 --> 00:27:47,198 in an office where everyone genuinely likes each other. 629 00:27:47,299 --> 00:27:50,101 Well, the feeling is very mutual. 630 00:27:50,202 --> 00:27:52,771 Thank God he turned down the job offer back in L.A. 631 00:27:52,872 --> 00:27:56,341 Losing him would've been a huge blow for us. 632 00:27:59,845 --> 00:28:04,015 - Will you just excuse me for a second? - Sure. 633 00:28:36,598 --> 00:28:38,160 - Do you understand it? - No, not at all. 634 00:28:38,185 --> 00:28:39,190 Do you understand it? 635 00:28:39,215 --> 00:28:41,677 - Uh... Warren might. - We work here, and we don't understand it. 636 00:28:41,678 --> 00:28:43,846 - This is my point. - We need to leave. 637 00:28:43,847 --> 00:28:45,748 Uh, yeah, good-good call. 638 00:28:45,849 --> 00:28:47,526 We got to... We have dinner reservations, okay? 639 00:28:47,550 --> 00:28:49,769 Let's just find Amir, and we can say goodbye. 640 00:28:49,770 --> 00:28:51,137 We're not saying goodbye. 641 00:28:51,238 --> 00:28:53,206 We're not going to dinner. We need to leave. 642 00:28:54,708 --> 00:28:57,243 Okay. I'll just call us a Lyft. 643 00:28:57,344 --> 00:28:59,512 Hey, what is...? Okay. 644 00:28:59,613 --> 00:29:01,981 Kate? Kate? Kate, Kate, Kate. 645 00:29:02,082 --> 00:29:03,560 What is...? What's-what's the matter? 646 00:29:03,584 --> 00:29:05,051 You got a job offer in L.A.? 647 00:29:07,855 --> 00:29:10,657 Y-Yeah, I applied for that job 648 00:29:10,758 --> 00:29:12,659 long before I got the job up here. 649 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,327 And the official offer came in 650 00:29:14,428 --> 00:29:16,062 two weeks ago, and it was a joke. 651 00:29:16,163 --> 00:29:18,208 It was, like, a big step-down in title, and barely any money. 652 00:29:18,232 --> 00:29:19,952 You made a decision that directly affects me 653 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:21,901 and our children without telling me? 654 00:29:22,002 --> 00:29:24,037 - You lied to me. - I didn't lie to you. 655 00:29:24,138 --> 00:29:26,172 And you made a fool out of me in there. 656 00:29:27,241 --> 00:29:28,441 Uh... 657 00:29:31,278 --> 00:29:33,256 Can we just talk about this before we get in this car? 658 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:34,447 No. I need a minute. 659 00:30:02,610 --> 00:30:04,477 All right, how much? 660 00:30:05,679 --> 00:30:07,046 How much what? 661 00:30:07,147 --> 00:30:09,215 How much more does the job pay up here? 662 00:30:10,251 --> 00:30:11,851 You want me to give you numbers? 663 00:30:11,952 --> 00:30:14,020 Yeah. Yeah, Toby, I'd like numbers. 664 00:30:14,121 --> 00:30:16,856 I need to know how much is worth me giving up my job, 665 00:30:16,957 --> 00:30:19,225 and a house where Jack feels comfortable, 666 00:30:19,326 --> 00:30:22,395 not to mention being near my family and my sick mother 667 00:30:22,496 --> 00:30:25,031 in the same city as Hailey has two cousins the same age 668 00:30:25,132 --> 00:30:27,267 - to grow up with. - That's not a fair question. 669 00:30:27,368 --> 00:30:30,036 It's not fair that you're not thinking about our family? 670 00:30:30,137 --> 00:30:32,238 I'm not thinking about our family? 671 00:30:32,339 --> 00:30:33,907 Wow. That's awesome. 672 00:30:34,008 --> 00:30:35,775 How have you been, then? 673 00:30:35,876 --> 00:30:37,777 What do you think I have been doing up here? 674 00:30:37,878 --> 00:30:39,779 Living out of a suitcase, 675 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:41,672 not-not sure which city I'm waking up in, 676 00:30:41,673 --> 00:30:44,784 spending all these lonely nights in this antiseptic apartment. 677 00:30:44,885 --> 00:30:47,787 This is all for our family, Kate. 678 00:30:47,888 --> 00:30:49,889 Do you know that we have a blind son? 679 00:30:49,990 --> 00:30:51,791 Oh, really? I-I didn't realize. 680 00:30:51,892 --> 00:30:53,259 I thought he was just clumsy. 681 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,261 He knows every inch of our house. 682 00:30:55,362 --> 00:30:57,463 We're teaching him a song to get to the park. 683 00:30:57,565 --> 00:30:59,299 Okay, you think it's easy to just, like, 684 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,367 uproot him and-and put him in a new environment? 685 00:31:01,468 --> 00:31:03,970 Okay, you get to ask a bunch of questions. 686 00:31:04,071 --> 00:31:06,239 Let me ask a few. 687 00:31:06,340 --> 00:31:08,708 Have you penciled out how expensive it would be 688 00:31:08,809 --> 00:31:10,910 to send Jack to a special school if he needs one? 689 00:31:11,011 --> 00:31:12,812 Because I have. 690 00:31:12,913 --> 00:31:16,115 Never mind all of the assistive technology he's gonna need. 691 00:31:16,216 --> 00:31:20,520 Do you know a braille notetaker alone costs six grand? 692 00:31:20,621 --> 00:31:22,021 And that-that-that... that's just 693 00:31:22,122 --> 00:31:23,856 when he's living at home with us. 694 00:31:23,958 --> 00:31:25,458 What if he wants to go off to college 695 00:31:25,559 --> 00:31:27,260 or live on his own one day? 696 00:31:28,295 --> 00:31:30,530 I have big dreams for our son, Kate, 697 00:31:30,631 --> 00:31:34,000 and I'm gonna be damn sure that he has whatever he needs 698 00:31:34,101 --> 00:31:36,536 to live his life however he so chooses. 699 00:31:36,637 --> 00:31:40,139 And we can't afford any of that on an assistant teacher salary 700 00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,442 and some middling job in Los Angeles 701 00:31:42,543 --> 00:31:44,521 that doesn't pay me any real money. 702 00:31:44,630 --> 00:31:47,464 Right. Money. Still haven't told me the number. 703 00:31:51,885 --> 00:31:54,120 It's not just about the money, is it? 704 00:31:56,724 --> 00:31:59,359 It's kind of about you. Right? 705 00:31:59,460 --> 00:32:01,361 Watching you up here... I don't know... 706 00:32:01,462 --> 00:32:03,930 You're pretty much the happiest you've ever been, aren't you? 707 00:32:04,031 --> 00:32:06,666 Kate, I am away from my family. 708 00:32:06,767 --> 00:32:10,203 I'm-I'm on four planes a week. I am exhausted. 709 00:32:10,304 --> 00:32:12,972 Yeah, but you're happy, right? 710 00:32:13,073 --> 00:32:14,974 You're happy with your job, with your stature. 711 00:32:15,075 --> 00:32:16,453 Personally, you're happy. 712 00:32:16,477 --> 00:32:17,601 I-I don't know why you just can't admit it. 713 00:32:17,602 --> 00:32:19,539 Yes, yes, I'm happy! I'm happy. 714 00:32:19,578 --> 00:32:21,367 And this is gonna sound like a strange question 715 00:32:21,368 --> 00:32:23,236 to ask my wife, but don't you want that for me? 716 00:32:23,337 --> 00:32:25,471 Of course I want that for you. 717 00:32:27,441 --> 00:32:29,709 Then why doesn't it feel that way? 718 00:32:32,512 --> 00:32:34,614 You know, sometimes I look at you, Toby, 719 00:32:34,715 --> 00:32:38,618 and I don't even know who you are anymore. I don't. 720 00:32:38,719 --> 00:32:42,088 You drink expensive champagne. 721 00:32:42,189 --> 00:32:44,257 You know how to work a room. 722 00:32:44,358 --> 00:32:47,560 You're not the guy who wore those terrible Hawaiian shirts 723 00:32:47,661 --> 00:32:50,096 or would make those loud, inappropriate jokes. 724 00:32:50,197 --> 00:32:52,098 You're not the guy who'd ask for the wine list 725 00:32:52,199 --> 00:32:53,799 and says, "Bring me the whole left side." 726 00:32:53,867 --> 00:32:56,836 The goofy guy from our first date, 727 00:32:56,937 --> 00:33:00,406 the Old Toby, the guy that I fell in love with. 728 00:33:01,942 --> 00:33:03,976 I miss him. 729 00:33:05,712 --> 00:33:09,515 I miss him so much that I've been picturing him 730 00:33:09,616 --> 00:33:11,951 this weekend here with me. 731 00:33:13,153 --> 00:33:15,121 So this whole time that I've been thinking 732 00:33:15,222 --> 00:33:17,089 that we're really connecting, 733 00:33:17,190 --> 00:33:19,358 you've just been imagining yourself 734 00:33:19,459 --> 00:33:21,460 with a different version of me? 735 00:33:21,561 --> 00:33:24,297 That is not what I said. That's not what I'm saying. 736 00:33:24,398 --> 00:33:26,299 - Is he... is he here? - Don't do that. 737 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,634 Is he here now? Oh, you know, maybe we should just... 738 00:33:28,735 --> 00:33:31,370 we should get him out here. Hey, let's get Old Toby out here 739 00:33:31,471 --> 00:33:34,640 to join in on this fun! Huh? Hey, you know... 740 00:33:34,741 --> 00:33:36,842 you know what I'd love to say to Old Toby, Kate? 741 00:33:37,844 --> 00:33:40,179 He was a mess. 742 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:44,483 He was miserable and insecure and self-loathing. 743 00:33:44,584 --> 00:33:47,086 And all-all of that goofiness 744 00:33:47,187 --> 00:33:51,190 and-and the loud jokes... that was out of self-defense. 745 00:33:51,291 --> 00:33:54,026 Kate, you fell in love with a coping mechanism. 746 00:33:54,127 --> 00:33:57,029 And FYI, if that guy hadn't changed, 747 00:33:57,130 --> 00:33:59,665 he would have jumped off a bridge or died of a heart attack 748 00:33:59,766 --> 00:34:01,500 making a joke at his own expense. 749 00:34:01,601 --> 00:34:03,969 Wait. I almost did that last part. 750 00:34:07,774 --> 00:34:11,577 What is so terrible about me right now? 751 00:34:12,612 --> 00:34:14,980 That I don't want to dress like a clown? 752 00:34:15,082 --> 00:34:17,950 That I want to buy a nice house for my family? 753 00:34:20,087 --> 00:34:21,787 I don't know, Toby. 754 00:34:21,888 --> 00:34:23,556 You're just different. 755 00:34:24,558 --> 00:34:27,326 And you're not, Kate? 756 00:34:28,962 --> 00:34:31,030 Why is this conversation all about me? 757 00:34:32,566 --> 00:34:34,633 When-when... when we first got together, 758 00:34:34,735 --> 00:34:37,470 it felt like you and me against the world. 759 00:34:37,571 --> 00:34:40,606 And today, you couldn't go 20 minutes 760 00:34:40,707 --> 00:34:42,808 just us, without FaceTiming the kids. 761 00:34:42,909 --> 00:34:44,810 After shooting down an entire day 762 00:34:44,911 --> 00:34:47,279 that I spent weeks planning for you. 763 00:34:47,381 --> 00:34:48,714 Admit I'm happy? 764 00:34:48,815 --> 00:34:50,449 Kate, what about you? 765 00:34:50,550 --> 00:34:53,686 You love the life that you are living, 766 00:34:53,787 --> 00:34:57,623 this life that you are building without me, 767 00:34:57,724 --> 00:35:00,393 where you're the... you're the working supermom 768 00:35:00,494 --> 00:35:02,695 who gets to live with her brother again. 769 00:35:02,796 --> 00:35:05,464 You finally get to be the fully realized 770 00:35:05,565 --> 00:35:08,033 version of yourself, and all you had to do 771 00:35:08,135 --> 00:35:10,202 was get me out of that house. 772 00:35:17,978 --> 00:35:20,780 When I was younger, I would... 773 00:35:20,881 --> 00:35:22,982 well, I couldn't even think about the future 774 00:35:23,083 --> 00:35:25,751 because it just was blank. 775 00:35:25,852 --> 00:35:29,522 And... 776 00:35:29,623 --> 00:35:31,524 I felt that way for a really... 777 00:35:31,625 --> 00:35:33,826 a long, long time until I met you. 778 00:35:33,927 --> 00:35:38,631 And you... you took away a lot of that emptiness. 779 00:35:39,766 --> 00:35:43,469 And so, yeah, Toby, now I have a full life 780 00:35:43,570 --> 00:35:46,138 that I could have never dreamed. 781 00:35:47,374 --> 00:35:50,342 And I feel healthy, I feel connected, 782 00:35:50,444 --> 00:35:53,846 I feel like I have a purpose. 783 00:35:53,947 --> 00:35:57,049 I love my life. I'm-I'm really, really happy. 784 00:36:04,090 --> 00:36:07,993 Except for the one thing that's making me really, really sad. 785 00:36:24,850 --> 00:36:26,884 Thank you. 786 00:36:29,855 --> 00:36:31,756 We should have talked about the L.A. offer 787 00:36:31,857 --> 00:36:33,691 even if it wasn't a good one. 788 00:36:37,496 --> 00:36:40,264 We probably should have also talked 789 00:36:40,366 --> 00:36:42,266 about the fact that for most of my life, 790 00:36:42,368 --> 00:36:46,771 I have been desperate, desperate to feel valued at my job, 791 00:36:46,872 --> 00:36:49,941 to not just feel like I'm taking up space. 792 00:36:52,177 --> 00:36:54,278 I can relate. 793 00:36:54,380 --> 00:37:00,051 And... I'm not just taking up space here, Kate. 794 00:37:01,053 --> 00:37:03,388 And neither are you. 795 00:37:03,489 --> 00:37:08,659 As wrung out and as exhausted as I am, 796 00:37:08,761 --> 00:37:11,396 I'm happy for us. 797 00:37:11,497 --> 00:37:13,598 We have both figured out our worth. 798 00:37:15,701 --> 00:37:17,769 We evolved. 799 00:37:17,870 --> 00:37:20,805 I love you. I love our family. 800 00:37:20,906 --> 00:37:24,008 But there are some real-world logistics at play here, 801 00:37:24,109 --> 00:37:26,110 and we are gonna have to move to San Francisco. 802 00:37:26,211 --> 00:37:28,846 That's how these logistics are gonna play out. 803 00:37:28,947 --> 00:37:31,549 I need you to get on board because... 804 00:37:31,650 --> 00:37:34,819 moving here is the only way that we are gonna stay a family. 805 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,088 It is the only option. 806 00:37:42,961 --> 00:37:45,263 I'm gonna go get some air. 807 00:37:47,766 --> 00:37:49,801 Okay. 808 00:37:57,109 --> 00:37:59,477 All right, gang, it's time to get the hell out of here. 809 00:37:59,578 --> 00:38:00,812 How? 810 00:38:02,581 --> 00:38:04,248 We climb. 811 00:38:26,104 --> 00:38:29,040 Hey, Katie girl, look at me. Look at me. 812 00:38:29,141 --> 00:38:31,576 I believe you can do it. 813 00:38:31,677 --> 00:38:34,879 Okay, and Mommy, Randall and Kevin... 814 00:38:34,980 --> 00:38:36,614 They believe you can do it. 815 00:38:36,715 --> 00:38:39,083 Now the only thing that needs to happen 816 00:38:39,184 --> 00:38:42,487 is that you believe you can do it. 817 00:38:45,057 --> 00:38:46,524 Okay? 818 00:38:55,334 --> 00:38:56,774 I'm gonna go over to the other side, 819 00:38:56,869 --> 00:38:58,369 and then I'll help you down. 820 00:39:07,613 --> 00:39:09,180 Just... 821 00:39:10,716 --> 00:39:12,517 I'll meet you at the top. 822 00:39:19,625 --> 00:39:23,427 One step at a time, Kate. No sweat. 823 00:39:47,853 --> 00:39:50,888 Okay, Katie girl. Here's the moment. 824 00:39:51,924 --> 00:39:54,825 Just let go. Katie, just let go. Let go. 825 00:39:54,927 --> 00:39:57,995 I will never let go, Daddy, ever! 826 00:39:58,096 --> 00:39:59,430 Yeah? Why not? 827 00:40:00,432 --> 00:40:02,433 Why would I? 828 00:40:09,041 --> 00:40:10,875 Come on, Kate. Just grab it. 829 00:40:12,844 --> 00:40:14,912 - Guys... - You got this. 830 00:40:15,013 --> 00:40:17,248 - You got this, Kate. - You got it. 831 00:40:17,349 --> 00:40:18,916 Okay. 832 00:40:23,422 --> 00:40:25,323 You got it. 833 00:40:25,424 --> 00:40:26,734 You're almost there, Kate. Let's go. 834 00:40:26,758 --> 00:40:28,492 Almost there! Oh! 835 00:40:28,594 --> 00:40:30,494 - No. - Okay. 836 00:40:30,596 --> 00:40:31,996 - Okay, relax. - Uh-uh. No. 837 00:40:32,097 --> 00:40:33,864 - We're gonna try it again. - No, I can't. 838 00:40:33,966 --> 00:40:36,467 I can't, no. 839 00:40:36,568 --> 00:40:38,169 No. 840 00:40:45,010 --> 00:40:47,111 This one. 841 00:40:49,581 --> 00:40:50,848 How'd she do? 842 00:40:50,949 --> 00:40:53,951 Today is not the day. 843 00:41:29,521 --> 00:41:31,422 Hey, Kate. How's Frisco? 844 00:41:31,523 --> 00:41:34,091 Is it foggy and expensive? 845 00:41:34,192 --> 00:41:37,504 Did you, uh, fill Sheila's job yet? 846 00:41:38,509 --> 00:41:41,540 Uh, no, but we're looking at applicants. 847 00:41:43,674 --> 00:41:45,407 I'd like to be considered. 848 00:41:46,063 --> 00:41:51,484 sync and corrections by awaqeded www.addic7ed.com.