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I just got six messages
from the adoption agency.
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We have a match.
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I free you from your "Jerry
Maguire at the U-Haul",
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what-if marriage
proposal that you made.
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Yeah, I don't think
I'm gonna take it back.
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Your life has really been
defined by your mothers.
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William told me everything
he knew about my birth mother.
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I'll never know much about her.
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There are things, Dr. Leigh,
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that I don't feel comfortable
talking to you about.
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I'm gonna make a change, and...
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find a Black therapist.
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Oh!
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Three pounds heavier.
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Hey, hey, you hear that, kid?
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Three pounds heavier than last year.
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He's still only in the 30th percentile.
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What's that supposed to mean?
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It means you've got a long
way to go to be average.
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Randall, just try to
be supportive, okay?
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Your brother's playing
football this year.
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He's gonna need the extra weight.
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Kev's going out for quarterback.
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Well, you boys are definitely
at the age where your bodies
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will start changing.
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Growth spurts. Added
muscle. Facial hair.
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Geez, Doc, would it kill you
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to have a Consumer Reports lying around?
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What is taking them so long?
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Stewart and Tonya will be
at the house in an hour.
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Stewart? I thought you
weren't talking to Stewart
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after the big breakup.
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He chose to be in my group project.
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Oh.
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He chose you.
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Interesting. Mm.
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- Oh.
- What happened
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- to the candies?
- What are you, six years old, nerd?
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At least I'm not built like
a six-year-old, dumb-ass.
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No, you guys just act like
a bunch of six-year-olds.
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- Ha-ha-ha! Ha!
- Dad!
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- Guys. Both of you.
- Come on, let's go to the car.
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Shotgun!
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Thanks.
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Not often do I send
parents off with three teens
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the exact same age going through puberty
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at the exact same time.
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I'm not a religious man,
but I'll pray for you.
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- Good luck.
- Mm-hmm.
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Hmm.
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- Yeah.
- Mm.
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I don't think of myself as
a therapist who works alone,
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I think of this as a... collaboration,
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like two songwriters.
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We will find your positive rhythms
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while minimizing any negative beats.
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- Uh-huh.
- Feel what I'm saying?
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Okay.
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I'm a proponent
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of CBT and CPT.
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CBT is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy,
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and CPT is Cognitive Processing Therapy.
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I'm sorry, are you frozen?
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No. No, I am not.
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That said, this isn't about me.
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You're gonna have to put in the work.
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I'm just here to help you find
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a deeper understanding of yourself
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and the loved ones around you.
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I... am so sorry.
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My wife had to run out.
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Downside of working from home, right?
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That's okay, man. Go ahead.
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Can you say hi?
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Hi.
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Hi.
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Oh, wow.
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I got three of those.
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Uh, this is my daughter, April.
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April, this is... I
can't tell you his name
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because of doctor-patient privilege.
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Excuse me.
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Potential patient.
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I don't mean to toot my own horn,
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but I put my foot up in these pancakes.
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Who wants some?
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- Please.
- Oh, yes.
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Thanks, Mom.
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- Put my foot in these pancakes...
- We heard.
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Yeah, I'm good with cereal.
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All right, well, y'all eat up, then.
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I don't want you late
for online school, okay?
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That's just a bad look.
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Made 'em from scratch.
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Yeah, a lot of love went into them
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- is all I'm saying.
- Oh, my God. Fine.
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Okay.
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- Morning.
- Morning, Dad.
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How is everybody?
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There's a lot of teen
attitude this morning.
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Yeah, one day you hung the moon,
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the next you're famine,
war and pestilence.
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Hey, um...
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I think I found my guy,
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- to replace Dr. Leigh.
- Oh, wow. That's great.
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So, did you talk about
family stuff, or...?
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Just generally.
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We, uh, we talked about
transracial identity.
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I'm having a longer Zoom
session with him today.
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But, uh, he checks all the boxes, Beth.
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He's cool, smart, funny,
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Black, a young father.
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We got a lot in common.
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- Young father?
- Hey, watch your mouth now.
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- Mm, mm.
- Mm-hmm.
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Hey. You barely touched the pancakes.
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You refuse to use cage-free eggs.
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- Tess, you need to eat.
- I had some yogurt. I'm good.
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Ugh. That girl is killing
me three times a day.
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Mm.
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Mmm.
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Damn, Beth, you put your
foot up in these pancakes.
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Thank God for you, baby.
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- Mm. Thank God for you.
- Mwah.
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Thank God for these pancakes.
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Hey.
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Geez, how many workouts
are you up to a day now?
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Two. Maybe two and a half. Why?
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- Curious. Me learning about you.
- Ah, yes.
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You know, I feel like lately
the half sessions are just me
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burning through crap I got going
on with my brother, you know?
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Not sure those are the
muscles you work on for that,
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but I am not a professional.
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Who brought those?
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Those are balloons from
your mom and Miguel.
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I thought you told 'em we're
not doing engaged engaged.
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No, I did. I did. I
told 'em the whole thing.
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But, you know, they're... old.
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So...
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Anyway, are you, um...
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What are we doing?
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We are doing a
nontraditional engagement,
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where the woman gets pregnant first
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and then the man moves in with her
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because of a global pandemic.
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Mm. That's right. Now it's...
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Now I remember. You know,
they really got to start
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making Hallmark cards for
people like us. You know?
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A-And you're-you're good
with... with where we are?
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Yeah.
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- You?
- Uh, yeah.
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Yes.
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Don't worry. These are
gluten-free and low-cal.
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- But no shirt, no service.
- I'm on it.
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What's going on here?
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Oh, wow.
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What?
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Uh...
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I think I just got the part.
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I mean, pending a-a good
meeting with the director,
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I-I got the part.
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The legal movie? The
lawyer with the glass eye?
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Yeah. Yeah, yeah. No, it's not...
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The-the title of the movie is Glass Eye.
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He's got two eyes just
like mine, made out of...
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- uh...
- I don't know
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what eyes are made out of.
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- But congratulations.
- This is... Thank you.
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Yeah, this is great.
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Um...
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Although I probably should, uh,
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stick to, like, just
straight-up lean chicken breast
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and water from here on out.
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I got to have my shirt off in the movie
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for a couple of scenes, love scenes.
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So I'm going straight-up
Gosling for this
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or Pitt in Fight Club or something.
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I don't know. I'm not...
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This is my agent. Sorry,
I have to take this.
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Um, I'm sorry about this.
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I'm-I'm gonna cook you
dinner, okay? I'll make dinner?
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Okay?
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I'm nervous.
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Yeah, I'm nervous, too.
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But I'm nervous and I'm excited.
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- What is that, like, nerve-cited?
- Yeah. Yeah.
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Remember, we're just meeting
a potential birth mother.
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- Right.
- All right? We're gonna get to know her.
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She's gonna get to know us.
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No expectations. Right?
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Now, am I looking for
her and her daughter
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or just Ellie?
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No, just Ellie.
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Someone's watching her daughter.
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Whose name is Willow, by the way.
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And she's eight years
old, just as a reminder.
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Babe.
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Oh, my gosh.
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Which mask should I wear?
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- You brought options?
- Yes.
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- Uh-huh.
- This one.
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And...
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Yeah.
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Ugh. Flowers.
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- What?
- Definitely the flowers.
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- Really?
- Yeah.
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I thought you would love this one.
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I love it. Wrong vibe.
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Okay. All right.
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Okay, kiss me.
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Okay. All right.
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Okay, uh...
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Gosh, Tobe, I want this so bad.
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I know.
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Now, are we in San
Pee-dro or San Pay-dro?
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I-I don't want to come
off looking like a rube.
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- I think it's Pay-dro. Yeah.
- Pay-dro.
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- Pay-dro. San Pay-dro.
- Pay-dro. Yeah.
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- San Pay-dro.
- Kate and Toby?
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- Hi.
- Hi!
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- Hi, I'm-I'm Ellie.
- Hi!
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Hi.
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How nice to meet you.
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Yeah. Welcome to San Pee-dro.
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Pee-dro. Damn it.
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- 'Kay.
- Ha-ha!
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- That is an amazing mask.
- Oh.
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Stewart chose to be in your
project for a reason, Kate.
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He clearly still likes you.
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You think so?
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I have got snacks. Nothing healthy.
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Only the fun stuff,
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- including Funyuns.
- Mom.
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Bagel Bites.
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Stewart loves Bagel Bites.
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Oh. How could I forget?
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- Thanks, Mom.
- Yeah.
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Hi, Randall.
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- Hey.
- We're building a desert biome.
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Want to see?
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No, I made that in third grade.
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Got it!
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Hi. I brought Play-Doh for
the cacti and aquarium sand
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- for the desert floor.
- Great. Come on in.
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By the way,
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- I love your mask.
- Oh.
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Um, my family's from Pittsburgh.
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We are diehard Steelers fans.
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I know. I saw it in your profile.
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I wore it as an homage.
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My dad is from Johnstown.
263
00:10:20,293 --> 00:10:21,460
- Really?
- Yeah.
264
00:10:21,461 --> 00:10:22,795
But don't tell me
that you actually named
265
00:10:22,796 --> 00:10:23,763
your daughter Willow
266
00:10:23,764 --> 00:10:25,764
- after...
- Willow Rosenberg. Yes.
267
00:10:25,765 --> 00:10:28,033
- No way.
- Yes. Oh, I'm a huge Buffy fan.
268
00:10:28,034 --> 00:10:29,368
- Huge. Yes.
- What?
269
00:10:29,369 --> 00:10:30,569
Okay. All right.
270
00:10:30,570 --> 00:10:31,770
So can we adopt you?
271
00:10:31,771 --> 00:10:33,572
Can we, Tobe? Can we...?
272
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- You know?
- I'm free.
273
00:10:35,208 --> 00:10:36,642
Is that crazy? Okay,
it's crazy. All right...
274
00:10:36,643 --> 00:10:38,410
No, it's not, I just think we might
275
00:10:38,411 --> 00:10:40,012
have strayed from the topic here.
276
00:10:40,013 --> 00:10:41,096
Yes, sorry, sorry.
277
00:10:41,097 --> 00:10:42,791
Having too much fun, okay.
278
00:10:43,667 --> 00:10:46,035
Okay, so, um,
279
00:10:46,036 --> 00:10:49,715
why am I placing this
child for adoption?
280
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I married my high school sweetheart,
281
00:10:53,176 --> 00:10:57,179
Willow's father, and
I lost him to cancer.
282
00:10:57,848 --> 00:10:58,890
Oh.
283
00:10:59,449 --> 00:11:00,916
And it was...
284
00:11:00,917 --> 00:11:04,095
awful beyond awful, so I
don't want to dwell on it,
285
00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:06,822
except to say that
it took me a few years
286
00:11:06,823 --> 00:11:10,685
to even think about another
man, let alone go out with one,
287
00:11:10,710 --> 00:11:13,111
in the middle of raising
my daughter by myself.
288
00:11:13,405 --> 00:11:14,755
But all of my girlfriends
289
00:11:14,756 --> 00:11:16,990
said that it was time for
me to get back out there.
290
00:11:16,992 --> 00:11:22,096
So I went on Match and I met
up with this handsome stranger
291
00:11:22,097 --> 00:11:24,140
and there were drinks,
292
00:11:24,399 --> 00:11:28,269
a lot of drinks, and
I ended up in his bed
293
00:11:28,270 --> 00:11:31,006
about five hours after
learning his name.
294
00:11:34,843 --> 00:11:36,928
You must think I'm so messed up.
295
00:11:37,879 --> 00:11:39,389
Not at all.
296
00:11:40,390 --> 00:11:43,751
Trust me, I have thought about this.
297
00:11:43,894 --> 00:11:46,128
I have thought about this
more than I have ever thought
298
00:11:46,130 --> 00:11:48,030
about anything else in my whole life.
299
00:11:48,031 --> 00:11:52,935
And... this baby will do better
if she is raised elsewhere.
300
00:11:52,936 --> 00:11:57,073
With parents who... really want her.
301
00:12:00,051 --> 00:12:02,913
And it'll make me feel like
I'm doing something right.
302
00:12:03,247 --> 00:12:04,956
Oh.
303
00:12:05,724 --> 00:12:07,750
I am so sorry. That is my friend.
304
00:12:07,751 --> 00:12:10,286
She's watching Willow today,
so just one sec. Sorry.
305
00:12:10,287 --> 00:12:12,221
♪ Ghostbusters! ♪
306
00:12:12,222 --> 00:12:14,357
When there's something
strange in the neighborhood.
307
00:12:14,358 --> 00:12:16,392
- She has "Ghostbusters". What?
- I know.
308
00:12:16,393 --> 00:12:17,994
It's like... it's like she's combed
309
00:12:17,995 --> 00:12:19,971
through our social media or something.
310
00:12:20,197 --> 00:12:23,099
It's validating that she has
exquisite taste in pop culture,
311
00:12:23,100 --> 00:12:25,501
- but we should exercise caution.
- I am so sorry.
312
00:12:25,502 --> 00:12:27,203
- No, it's okay.
- My child is having a meltdown,
313
00:12:27,204 --> 00:12:28,971
so, uh, I may have to wind this up
314
00:12:28,972 --> 00:12:30,740
- just a little sooner than I wanted.
- Oh, no.
315
00:12:30,741 --> 00:12:32,775
Like, got to call a Lyft in, like, 15.
316
00:12:32,776 --> 00:12:36,412
- Oh. All right, well...
- I mean, we could take you,
317
00:12:36,413 --> 00:12:38,523
- if you want, right, Tobe?
- Oh, no, you don't need to do that.
318
00:12:38,548 --> 00:12:40,325
No, it's fine. Like...
319
00:12:40,784 --> 00:12:43,586
- Okay, all right, then. Well, that buys us more time.
- Let's roll.
320
00:12:43,587 --> 00:12:45,021
So, how have things been since we spoke?
321
00:12:45,022 --> 00:12:46,873
All good, thanks.
322
00:12:47,224 --> 00:12:50,159
I, uh... I like that
painting behind you.
323
00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:52,645
Don't tell me. Uh, Kadir Nelson?
324
00:12:52,646 --> 00:12:54,681
Yes. You collect him?
325
00:12:54,682 --> 00:12:56,583
Uh, well, no.
326
00:12:56,584 --> 00:12:59,519
Um, I mean, I've seen his stuff before.
327
00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:01,421
My wife's the one who
turned me on to him.
328
00:13:01,422 --> 00:13:03,389
She's a big fan.
329
00:13:06,142 --> 00:13:09,010
Beth's her name... my wife.
330
00:13:09,011 --> 00:13:11,679
She's Black. Just so you know,
I'm married to a Black woman,
331
00:13:11,680 --> 00:13:13,114
so, you know...
332
00:13:14,806 --> 00:13:16,784
Randall, you know you
have absolutely nothing
333
00:13:16,785 --> 00:13:18,553
to prove to me, right?
334
00:13:20,122 --> 00:13:22,590
Uh...
335
00:13:24,805 --> 00:13:26,454
I'm a little nervous.
336
00:13:27,696 --> 00:13:29,364
I know I told you this morning
337
00:13:29,365 --> 00:13:31,376
what brought me here, and I just...
338
00:13:31,877 --> 00:13:33,602
This is important to me.
339
00:13:33,603 --> 00:13:36,137
- I want to do this right.
- I hear you.
340
00:13:36,138 --> 00:13:37,649
But this is a process.
341
00:13:37,907 --> 00:13:41,052
And keep in mind, not all the
work is done here in this room.
342
00:13:41,644 --> 00:13:43,678
You seem like a guy
who likes homework, so,
343
00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:45,079
here's your first assignment.
344
00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:47,949
Tonight, I want you
to write down a story
345
00:13:47,950 --> 00:13:49,917
from your childhood... just one story.
346
00:13:49,919 --> 00:13:52,453
Something that you think might
tell me something about you.
347
00:13:52,454 --> 00:13:55,156
Uh, grab a notebook and keep
it handy when it comes to you.
348
00:13:55,157 --> 00:13:57,659
Just something you'd like me to know.
349
00:13:59,128 --> 00:14:00,128
Okay.
350
00:14:01,330 --> 00:14:02,991
Um...
351
00:14:03,016 --> 00:14:09,180
Sorry. Let me shut this down. _
352
00:14:09,371 --> 00:14:10,749
Whew!
353
00:14:11,373 --> 00:14:13,875
All right, I'm all yours.
354
00:14:13,876 --> 00:14:15,677
Yeah, you've probably never
heard of the director before.
355
00:14:15,678 --> 00:14:17,779
His name is Jordan Martin Foster.
356
00:14:17,780 --> 00:14:20,214
He won the Jury Prize at Cannes.
357
00:14:23,886 --> 00:14:25,253
Are you okay?
358
00:14:25,254 --> 00:14:26,988
Yeah, fine.
359
00:14:30,159 --> 00:14:33,388
Sex scenes couldn't be less sexy.
360
00:14:33,413 --> 00:14:34,931
Okay? And I'm not even kidding.
361
00:14:34,956 --> 00:14:36,081
I mean, you got crew members
362
00:14:36,082 --> 00:14:37,516
standing around all over the place.
363
00:14:37,517 --> 00:14:39,227
Plus, with COVID now, I don't even know
364
00:14:39,252 --> 00:14:40,170
if we'll be in the same studio.
365
00:14:40,171 --> 00:14:41,637
For all I know, I'll
be in Burbank somewhere,
366
00:14:41,638 --> 00:14:43,005
she'll be in Culver
City, and they'll just
367
00:14:43,006 --> 00:14:44,715
throw us together in post.
368
00:14:44,716 --> 00:14:45,758
You got nothing to worry about.
369
00:14:45,759 --> 00:14:47,652
I'm not worried about it. Let's go back.
370
00:14:47,677 --> 00:14:49,878
- My feet hurt.
- I'm sorry. Excuse me.
371
00:14:49,879 --> 00:14:53,382
I'm so sorry. I just wanted
to say I am a big fan.
372
00:14:53,383 --> 00:14:55,150
- Oh, thank you.
- Um, Julia.
373
00:14:55,151 --> 00:14:56,585
- Hi.
- Could I get a picture?
374
00:14:57,170 --> 00:14:58,154
Okay.
375
00:14:58,155 --> 00:15:01,089
Oh. Wow. Congratulations.
376
00:15:01,090 --> 00:15:02,658
How many weeks do you have to go?
377
00:15:02,659 --> 00:15:05,160
- Um, just a few months.
- Oh, lucky girl.
378
00:15:05,161 --> 00:15:07,071
You just have the cute
little basketball belly.
379
00:15:07,072 --> 00:15:10,032
Me? My son's a year old,
I'm still running it off.
380
00:15:10,850 --> 00:15:12,534
Uh... let's get
381
00:15:12,535 --> 00:15:14,036
that socially-distanced selfie, right?
382
00:15:14,037 --> 00:15:15,497
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
383
00:15:17,540 --> 00:15:19,708
There you go. All right.
384
00:15:19,709 --> 00:15:21,076
- Thanks.
- It's a good one. Thank you.
385
00:15:21,077 --> 00:15:22,578
Madison! Hey, hey.
386
00:15:22,579 --> 00:15:24,546
Madison? Listen, if
you're upset with me...
387
00:15:24,547 --> 00:15:27,458
- I'm not.
- Okay, listen, you can come
388
00:15:27,459 --> 00:15:29,327
to the filming of the
love scene if that's really
389
00:15:29,328 --> 00:15:31,062
- what's bothering you.
- I am not upset about the love scene.
390
00:15:31,063 --> 00:15:32,396
It seems like you're
upset about the love scene.
391
00:15:32,397 --> 00:15:33,698
I'm not upset about the love scene!
392
00:15:33,699 --> 00:15:35,599
I'm upset about the pancakes.
393
00:15:35,601 --> 00:15:37,568
I'm upset that she
can tell I'm pregnant.
394
00:15:37,569 --> 00:15:39,236
Okay, I'm-I'm upset about
a whole bunch of stuff
395
00:15:39,238 --> 00:15:40,638
I'm not comfortable sharing with you
396
00:15:40,639 --> 00:15:42,382
because we're basically strangers.
397
00:15:50,315 --> 00:15:52,341
Don't follow me.
398
00:15:52,492 --> 00:15:54,518
I'm walking back to the house.
399
00:15:54,519 --> 00:15:56,271
Go a different way.
400
00:15:58,964 --> 00:16:02,633
I'm so sorry. Could I
get another? I-I blinked.
401
00:16:03,562 --> 00:16:04,946
What?
402
00:16:15,385 --> 00:16:17,491
The oil's boiling.
403
00:16:17,516 --> 00:16:20,324
_
404
00:16:21,124 --> 00:16:23,827
You said we only have
to speak Vietnamese
405
00:16:23,828 --> 00:16:25,462
when we are fishing.
406
00:16:25,878 --> 00:16:28,740
You always get the last word
407
00:16:29,100 --> 00:16:31,001
in every language.
408
00:16:31,617 --> 00:16:33,928
Everything takes so long.
409
00:16:34,172 --> 00:16:36,012
Fishing the fish, cooking the fish.
410
00:16:36,013 --> 00:16:37,974
Let's play Go Fish.
411
00:16:38,558 --> 00:16:40,811
You need to learn patience, Linh.
412
00:16:40,812 --> 00:16:44,689
Preparing a meal is the way
to show someone you love them.
413
00:16:44,939 --> 00:16:46,232
I learned to cook
414
00:16:46,257 --> 00:16:49,360
because I want to impress
someone very special to me.
415
00:16:49,554 --> 00:16:50,554
Who?
416
00:16:50,678 --> 00:16:53,413
So many questions in such a little body.
417
00:16:53,913 --> 00:16:54,913
Sit.
418
00:16:56,851 --> 00:16:59,319
I will not tell you who I cook for,
419
00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:02,723
but I will show you how I cook for her.
420
00:17:02,748 --> 00:17:05,735
Her! It's a girl.
421
00:17:07,553 --> 00:17:08,696
Sit.
422
00:17:08,955 --> 00:17:10,380
Hey,
423
00:17:10,381 --> 00:17:12,441
- what you doing?
- Oh, just straightening up a bit.
424
00:17:12,466 --> 00:17:13,933
Yeah, well, we don't go in
425
00:17:14,285 --> 00:17:16,579
for that sort of stuff around here.
426
00:17:16,991 --> 00:17:18,121
Huh.
427
00:17:18,146 --> 00:17:21,115
So, you, uh, didn't
find anything, did you?
428
00:17:21,140 --> 00:17:22,934
- Such as?
- Nothing. I mean,
429
00:17:22,935 --> 00:17:24,936
- I just lost Inky's ball.
- Inky?
430
00:17:24,937 --> 00:17:26,771
I love Mr. Belvedere.
431
00:17:26,772 --> 00:17:30,041
Although I'm more of
a Who's the Boss? girl.
432
00:17:32,313 --> 00:17:35,147
I bet you're the Brainiac that
doesn't need to do homework.
433
00:17:35,172 --> 00:17:38,307
You just watch TV all
day and get all As.
434
00:17:38,618 --> 00:17:40,285
I have a routine.
435
00:17:40,286 --> 00:17:44,348
Snack, watch Mr. Bel,
and then do my homework.
436
00:17:44,373 --> 00:17:46,792
I'm in the middle of
my routine right now.
437
00:17:46,793 --> 00:17:48,660
Hey, everybody.
438
00:17:48,661 --> 00:17:50,128
Hey.
439
00:17:50,129 --> 00:17:51,430
How was football?
440
00:17:51,431 --> 00:17:53,165
- Fine.
- Fine?
441
00:17:53,166 --> 00:17:55,968
Coach said we've got another
Terry Bradshaw right here.
442
00:17:55,969 --> 00:17:57,369
Minus the hair loss.
443
00:17:57,370 --> 00:17:58,837
- Yeah, of course.
- Obviously, Kevin.
444
00:17:58,838 --> 00:18:00,505
Hey, you know what else Coach said?
445
00:18:00,507 --> 00:18:02,608
Kev gets a little stronger,
he's gonna be a force.
446
00:18:02,609 --> 00:18:05,477
So I'm gonna take him out in
the garage, pump a little iron.
447
00:18:05,478 --> 00:18:08,580
Oh. The garage. Dad's sanctuary.
448
00:18:08,581 --> 00:18:10,849
- Okay.
- Go upstairs and change, all right?
449
00:18:10,850 --> 00:18:13,585
What's going on here?
450
00:18:14,528 --> 00:18:16,113
Study group.
451
00:18:17,281 --> 00:18:18,457
Studying what?
452
00:18:18,458 --> 00:18:20,726
Relax. They're fine, Jack.
453
00:18:20,727 --> 00:18:22,118
Really? You're not gonna meddle?
454
00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:24,730
No, no, no, no. Meddling
was so Seventh Grade Rebecca.
455
00:18:24,731 --> 00:18:26,264
- This is Eighth Grade Rebecca.
- Oh.
456
00:18:26,266 --> 00:18:28,166
Cool Mom Rebecca.
457
00:18:28,167 --> 00:18:32,188
You know, I can monitor the
situation, but in a cool way.
458
00:18:32,213 --> 00:18:34,439
- Okay. Yeah, Cool Mom.
- Cool Mom.
459
00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:35,575
Cool Mom.
460
00:18:35,942 --> 00:18:37,618
- Hey, babe.
- Yeah.
461
00:18:37,738 --> 00:18:40,879
You really think it's okay
for Kev to be pumping iron?
462
00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:44,182
I mean, teens' bones and
muscles are still developing.
463
00:18:45,672 --> 00:18:47,185
Say the thing you want to say.
464
00:18:47,670 --> 00:18:50,173
No. Cool Mom Rebecca doesn't meddle.
465
00:18:50,965 --> 00:18:53,158
Okay. I-I got this.
466
00:18:55,111 --> 00:18:56,311
Yeah, it's really cute.
467
00:18:56,336 --> 00:18:58,237
He, like, has his own
little made-up language.
468
00:18:58,238 --> 00:19:00,032
And everything rhymes.
469
00:19:00,057 --> 00:19:03,201
It's really cute. Oh,
hey, Tobe, the sitter said
470
00:19:03,202 --> 00:19:04,702
that she can't find any diapers.
471
00:19:04,703 --> 00:19:05,757
Yeah, well, you bought some yesterday.
472
00:19:05,758 --> 00:19:07,890
- Yeah. Yeah, I did.
- Well, where are they?
473
00:19:07,915 --> 00:19:09,582
I don't know. You
brought the groceries in.
474
00:19:09,583 --> 00:19:11,485
Okay.
475
00:19:13,854 --> 00:19:16,148
Ugh. Come on, Tobe.
476
00:19:16,173 --> 00:19:18,258
You were supposed to check the
diaper supply before we left.
477
00:19:18,259 --> 00:19:19,902
No, I checked the
diaper supply yesterday
478
00:19:19,927 --> 00:19:20,969
and saw that we were low
479
00:19:20,970 --> 00:19:22,870
and wrote "diapers"
on the shopping list.
480
00:19:22,871 --> 00:19:24,939
Right, and then I bought
the diapers that were
481
00:19:24,940 --> 00:19:26,607
on the shopping list, and
you were supposed to take them
482
00:19:26,609 --> 00:19:28,443
- out of the trunk.
- We wouldn't run out of diapers so fast
483
00:19:28,444 --> 00:19:30,611
if we could please just buy in bulk.
484
00:19:30,613 --> 00:19:32,747
I'm not gonna hoard diapers, Tobe.
485
00:19:33,107 --> 00:19:35,008
Like, other people need diapers, too.
486
00:19:35,009 --> 00:19:37,644
I'm not talking about buying
all of the diapers in the world,
487
00:19:37,645 --> 00:19:39,179
but this kid is a human outhouse.
488
00:19:39,180 --> 00:19:40,822
Maybe if we just get,
like, an extra box or two.
489
00:19:40,823 --> 00:19:43,491
Okay, so it's my fault? It would
be really great, just, like,
490
00:19:43,492 --> 00:19:45,593
one time if you could
be like, "My fault",
491
00:19:45,594 --> 00:19:47,295
like you took the blame
just for something.
492
00:19:47,296 --> 00:19:48,496
Just like, "Hey, it was me."
493
00:19:48,497 --> 00:19:50,665
I take the blame for everything.
494
00:19:50,666 --> 00:19:54,535
I am this family's blame piñata! Pow!
495
00:19:54,536 --> 00:19:56,739
Blame scattered on the floor.
496
00:19:57,782 --> 00:19:58,906
Blame piñata.
497
00:19:58,907 --> 00:20:00,208
That's good.
498
00:20:00,209 --> 00:20:02,119
Thanks, it felt good
rolling off the tongue.
499
00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,745
I'm sorry I left the
diapers in the trunk.
500
00:20:04,747 --> 00:20:06,380
- I'm an idiot.
- Babe, you're not an idiot.
501
00:20:06,381 --> 00:20:08,282
And we both know that,
uh, we've had our son
502
00:20:08,283 --> 00:20:10,051
sit in his diaper for a
lot longer than this, so...
503
00:20:10,052 --> 00:20:12,286
Yeah, I actually think he likes it.
504
00:20:12,287 --> 00:20:13,988
'Cause he's gross.
505
00:20:19,995 --> 00:20:21,762
- Ready?
- Yes.
506
00:20:27,236 --> 00:20:30,171
♪ Okay, you wanna,
you wanna play with me ♪
507
00:20:30,172 --> 00:20:32,707
♪ But so confused,
all the things to say ♪
508
00:20:32,708 --> 00:20:34,208
♪ Want to be invited to parties ♪
509
00:20:34,209 --> 00:20:36,077
♪ But you can't even pronounce my name ♪
510
00:20:36,078 --> 00:20:39,113
♪ You need to be up on this,
right here's where... ♪
511
00:20:39,114 --> 00:20:42,183
Hey, Mr. Phillips,
I'm a they, not a she.
512
00:20:42,184 --> 00:20:44,318
Told you about 17 times now,
513
00:20:44,319 --> 00:20:47,421
so if you've got a problem
with that, then screw you!
514
00:20:47,422 --> 00:20:50,091
♪ Gettin' lit, all of these
weekends I spend gettin' lit ♪
515
00:20:50,092 --> 00:20:52,426
♪ I swear to Jesus
it's been on my list... ♪
516
00:20:52,427 --> 00:20:54,495
Hey, Ms. Jennings.
When we get back to school,
517
00:20:54,496 --> 00:20:55,997
don't touch my hair anymore.
518
00:20:55,998 --> 00:20:59,567
Like Solange says, don't touch my hair.
519
00:20:59,568 --> 00:21:01,035
Does this make you uneasy?
520
00:21:01,036 --> 00:21:02,570
Does this make you uncomfortable?
521
00:21:02,571 --> 00:21:04,238
Because that's how you make us feel.
522
00:21:04,239 --> 00:21:05,406
- Screw you!
- Screw you!
523
00:21:06,642 --> 00:21:08,709
♪ Okay. ♪
524
00:21:12,748 --> 00:21:15,516
There anything you want
to say before we do?
525
00:21:17,452 --> 00:21:20,788
We did it last year after
Ms. Jennings touched my hair,
526
00:21:20,789 --> 00:21:23,324
- then kept doing it to other kids.
- Tess,
527
00:21:23,325 --> 00:21:24,944
if a teacher touched your hair,
528
00:21:24,969 --> 00:21:26,169
you know what, you should have gone
529
00:21:26,170 --> 00:21:27,670
to that teacher, or you
should have come to us.
530
00:21:27,671 --> 00:21:29,172
You do not post
531
00:21:29,173 --> 00:21:31,908
a profane, mocking dance video
532
00:21:31,909 --> 00:21:33,059
for the world to see.
533
00:21:33,060 --> 00:21:34,627
I did tell the teacher.
534
00:21:34,712 --> 00:21:37,188
I said, "Please don't touch my hair."
535
00:21:37,189 --> 00:21:38,382
And did she stop?
536
00:21:38,857 --> 00:21:40,324
She stopped with me.
537
00:21:40,326 --> 00:21:42,060
But not with all the
other Black students.
538
00:21:42,061 --> 00:21:44,028
Well, Tess, the other
students aren't your problem.
539
00:21:44,029 --> 00:21:45,696
Silence in the face of injustice
540
00:21:45,698 --> 00:21:47,449
is complicity with the oppressor.
541
00:21:47,450 --> 00:21:49,450
Okay, the teachers
didn't get the message
542
00:21:49,452 --> 00:21:52,502
when we asked nicely, but they
definitely got the message now.
543
00:21:52,527 --> 00:21:53,527
Hey.
544
00:21:53,528 --> 00:21:54,823
Check the attitude, okay, Tess?
545
00:21:55,499 --> 00:21:57,750
Now, this Alex, did
she make you do this?
546
00:21:57,751 --> 00:21:59,878
Alex is not a she. They're a they.
547
00:21:59,879 --> 00:22:01,713
Fine. They.
548
00:22:02,323 --> 00:22:04,867
No one made me do anything.
549
00:22:06,952 --> 00:22:09,121
You tell me to be myself.
550
00:22:09,955 --> 00:22:12,124
Well, this is me now, guys.
551
00:22:12,658 --> 00:22:15,326
Have you seen what's
going on in the world?
552
00:22:15,628 --> 00:22:18,756
I'm done waiting to figure out who I am.
553
00:22:19,365 --> 00:22:22,942
I'm done being the
prissy, quiet little girl
554
00:22:22,943 --> 00:22:25,044
you raised in the
straight, white suburbs
555
00:22:25,045 --> 00:22:27,223
surrounded by straight, white people.
556
00:22:28,307 --> 00:22:30,184
This is who I want to be.
557
00:22:31,084 --> 00:22:32,770
This is who I am.
558
00:22:36,634 --> 00:22:38,484
Go to your room, Tess.
559
00:22:51,937 --> 00:22:53,757
This'll go right here.
560
00:22:53,758 --> 00:22:57,060
Stewart, we can stop pretending
why you picked my study group.
561
00:22:57,864 --> 00:22:59,656
I miss you, too.
562
00:22:59,681 --> 00:23:02,617
I picked your group
because I like deserts.
563
00:23:02,642 --> 00:23:04,027
This is where the action is.
564
00:23:04,872 --> 00:23:07,354
Snakes, Gila monsters,
565
00:23:07,355 --> 00:23:09,007
scorpions.
566
00:23:24,672 --> 00:23:27,016
It's crazy. This tastes
just like root beer.
567
00:23:27,041 --> 00:23:28,693
Want to try?
568
00:23:30,978 --> 00:23:33,865
I should really get to my homework.
569
00:23:39,132 --> 00:23:40,872
That's an angry pour.
570
00:23:46,188 --> 00:23:47,462
Grazie.
571
00:23:49,314 --> 00:23:50,355
What's that?
572
00:23:50,356 --> 00:23:52,324
It's a journal for Dr. Vance.
573
00:23:52,325 --> 00:23:55,360
Supposed to write down a
story about my childhood.
574
00:23:55,361 --> 00:23:58,932
Can only imagine what Tess is
gonna write about us someday.
575
00:23:59,265 --> 00:24:01,226
She's lashing out.
576
00:24:01,601 --> 00:24:03,520
She should know better.
577
00:24:03,836 --> 00:24:06,271
The Internet has a long memory.
578
00:24:06,272 --> 00:24:07,973
We taught her to know better, Randall.
579
00:24:07,974 --> 00:24:09,941
Yeah. Yeah, we did.
580
00:24:09,943 --> 00:24:11,986
As a parent, I agree with you.
581
00:24:12,529 --> 00:24:15,298
She did not go about this the right way,
582
00:24:15,587 --> 00:24:18,493
but... and just stay with me here...
583
00:24:19,637 --> 00:24:21,904
part of me is kind of proud of her.
584
00:24:21,905 --> 00:24:23,831
Oh.
585
00:24:24,341 --> 00:24:26,976
If something bothered
me when I was her age,
586
00:24:26,977 --> 00:24:28,945
I swallowed it.
587
00:24:29,879 --> 00:24:32,215
I've always been worried
that Tess was like me.
588
00:24:32,216 --> 00:24:35,351
You know, internal. Anxious.
589
00:24:36,010 --> 00:24:37,779
But all of a sudden,
590
00:24:38,555 --> 00:24:40,557
she's coming into her own.
591
00:24:41,558 --> 00:24:43,593
She's not afraid of who she is.
592
00:24:43,594 --> 00:24:46,012
She's not gonna have to
go see a therapist at 40
593
00:24:46,037 --> 00:24:47,096
to figure that out.
594
00:24:47,121 --> 00:24:50,083
- I know. And I hear you.
- Mm-hmm.
595
00:24:50,692 --> 00:24:53,311
But they are teenagers now, husband.
596
00:24:53,336 --> 00:24:54,544
- Okay?
- Mm-hmm.
597
00:24:54,545 --> 00:24:56,380
This is what we have been training for.
598
00:24:56,381 --> 00:24:58,941
There has got to be consequences
599
00:24:58,966 --> 00:25:01,133
for what she's done. All right?
600
00:25:01,134 --> 00:25:05,039
And strong parenting is not
playing good cop, bad cop.
601
00:25:05,832 --> 00:25:08,199
We have to be on the same page.
602
00:25:08,201 --> 00:25:09,935
Starting now.
603
00:25:12,422 --> 00:25:15,800
So you want me to go talk to her?
604
00:25:16,726 --> 00:25:18,428
Ding, ding, ding.
605
00:25:21,097 --> 00:25:22,664
- No, just pull it once.
- Maybe. No. Hold on.
606
00:25:22,665 --> 00:25:24,332
- Just pull it once. Yeah.
- I'm sorry.
607
00:25:24,333 --> 00:25:26,134
There you go.
608
00:25:26,135 --> 00:25:29,013
Thank you for the ride. This was fun.
609
00:25:29,038 --> 00:25:32,233
Oh, i-i-it
was. Yeah.
610
00:25:34,019 --> 00:25:35,076
Uh...
611
00:25:35,077 --> 00:25:38,606
and I'm sorry if our arguing
made you feel uncomfortable.
612
00:25:38,631 --> 00:25:41,599
I mean, we actually get
along very well, so...
613
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,501
Yeah, which works out
good, 'cause we're married.
614
00:25:44,637 --> 00:25:46,638
Well, Doug... my husband...
615
00:25:46,639 --> 00:25:49,574
he used to overbuy condiments.
616
00:25:49,575 --> 00:25:52,143
It was as if he lived in perpetual fear
617
00:25:52,144 --> 00:25:53,378
of running out of mustard.
618
00:25:53,379 --> 00:25:54,879
It drove me nuts,
619
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,949
and we fought about it constantly.
620
00:25:57,950 --> 00:26:01,252
Mustard-gate. Ketchup-gate. Mayo-gate.
621
00:26:01,253 --> 00:26:03,698
Mayo-gate was, uh,
it was especially bad.
622
00:26:04,574 --> 00:26:07,101
I think you can tell a lot
about a couple by how they fight.
623
00:26:07,415 --> 00:26:09,120
How they recover.
624
00:26:11,898 --> 00:26:14,108
I have a strong feeling about you guys.
625
00:26:15,568 --> 00:26:17,895
Thanks for coming all
the way to San Pedro.
626
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:19,546
- Yeah.
- Oh, of course. Our pleasure.
627
00:26:19,547 --> 00:26:21,047
Yeah, love San Pedro.
628
00:26:21,048 --> 00:26:22,550
"We love San Pedro."
629
00:26:23,151 --> 00:26:25,118
Okay, bye.
630
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:26,087
See you.
631
00:26:26,088 --> 00:26:27,330
Bye.
632
00:26:38,900 --> 00:26:40,843
Hey. How you feeling?
633
00:26:41,469 --> 00:26:44,505
Fine. Soaked my feet.
634
00:26:44,506 --> 00:26:46,849
Oh, good. Good.
635
00:26:49,110 --> 00:26:51,646
- So, I-I didn't mean to, uh...
- Don't.
636
00:26:51,980 --> 00:26:53,881
You did nothing wrong.
637
00:26:53,882 --> 00:26:55,716
I said something. I don't...
638
00:26:55,717 --> 00:26:58,619
Was it about the movie
or the babies? Uh...
639
00:27:01,156 --> 00:27:03,616
I had an eating disorder, Kevin.
640
00:27:04,159 --> 00:27:05,693
I'm not sure how much you know,
641
00:27:05,694 --> 00:27:08,762
but I've been struggling
with eating issues
642
00:27:08,763 --> 00:27:11,457
for as long as I can
remember, and, um...
643
00:27:12,625 --> 00:27:15,002
then comes this pregnancy.
644
00:27:19,165 --> 00:27:21,633
You know why that ultrasound
picture is on the fridge
645
00:27:21,634 --> 00:27:25,138
and not on a bulletin
board or a bathroom mirror?
646
00:27:26,347 --> 00:27:28,157
I keep that there
647
00:27:28,407 --> 00:27:31,602
to remind me to eat.
648
00:27:33,396 --> 00:27:35,189
To eat food, Kev.
649
00:27:36,315 --> 00:27:39,168
To eat food to keep our babies healthy.
650
00:27:41,904 --> 00:27:43,688
Do you know when I go to the doctor,
651
00:27:43,689 --> 00:27:45,857
the first thing they do is weigh me?
652
00:27:45,858 --> 00:27:48,626
And they announce the number out loud,
653
00:27:48,953 --> 00:27:51,455
and I have to remind myself
654
00:27:51,456 --> 00:27:54,007
to act proud that I've put on two pounds
655
00:27:54,032 --> 00:27:56,768
when... for most of my adult life,
656
00:27:56,769 --> 00:27:59,213
news like that would
just make me spiral.
657
00:28:01,512 --> 00:28:03,384
It's hard to adjust.
658
00:28:07,305 --> 00:28:08,681
I didn't know.
659
00:28:11,993 --> 00:28:13,644
Of course you didn't.
660
00:28:15,216 --> 00:28:18,191
I've been hiding a
lot of myself from you.
661
00:28:19,108 --> 00:28:21,402
This whole thing isn't normal, Kev,
662
00:28:21,836 --> 00:28:24,438
as much as we pretend it is.
663
00:28:24,439 --> 00:28:26,440
Everything came backwards here,
664
00:28:26,441 --> 00:28:29,368
and I'm all over the place.
665
00:28:29,744 --> 00:28:31,469
Insecurities running wild,
666
00:28:31,470 --> 00:28:33,605
and-and you're walking around
667
00:28:33,606 --> 00:28:35,666
like an Olympic swimmer
most of the time.
668
00:28:37,251 --> 00:28:38,910
I'm sorry.
669
00:28:40,546 --> 00:28:42,006
I'm fine.
670
00:28:43,299 --> 00:28:45,234
I love our babies.
671
00:28:47,953 --> 00:28:50,264
I'm just dealing with a lot right now.
672
00:28:51,307 --> 00:28:52,683
It's on me.
673
00:29:02,460 --> 00:29:04,661
All right.
674
00:29:06,405 --> 00:29:07,798
You ready?
675
00:29:08,307 --> 00:29:09,740
I am Hans.
676
00:29:09,742 --> 00:29:11,092
And I am Franz.
677
00:29:11,093 --> 00:29:14,697
And we want to pump you up!
678
00:29:15,681 --> 00:29:17,248
Okay. Let's, uh...
679
00:29:17,249 --> 00:29:20,477
You know, let's start with just the bar.
680
00:29:20,478 --> 00:29:22,330
'Cause, you know, you're still
developing and everything.
681
00:29:22,355 --> 00:29:24,323
Come on, man, throw in some lead.
682
00:29:24,324 --> 00:29:25,440
No, Kev, come on.
683
00:29:25,441 --> 00:29:29,277
The bar is-is plenty
heavy. All right? But first,
684
00:29:29,278 --> 00:29:31,613
what I want you to do
is, you got to warm up.
685
00:29:31,614 --> 00:29:33,081
Right? We got to loosen things up.
686
00:29:33,082 --> 00:29:35,617
Pull your arm through.
Warm your shoulders up.
687
00:29:35,618 --> 00:29:38,429
There you go. Yeah. Go
the other arm. All right.
688
00:29:38,454 --> 00:29:41,332
Go across. Go across.
689
00:29:45,962 --> 00:29:47,655
All right, here we go.
690
00:29:49,199 --> 00:29:50,933
Knuckle popping is optional.
691
00:29:50,934 --> 00:29:52,677
All right.
692
00:29:56,573 --> 00:29:58,556
Stewart's a desert groupie, Mom.
693
00:29:58,557 --> 00:30:00,934
That's why he wanted to
be in our study project.
694
00:30:00,935 --> 00:30:02,936
- It wasn't to be with me.
- Oh.
695
00:30:02,937 --> 00:30:04,337
I see.
696
00:30:04,338 --> 00:30:06,272
I feel like an idiot.
697
00:30:06,273 --> 00:30:08,885
No, don't.
698
00:30:10,653 --> 00:30:13,046
Following your heart is
a real strength, Kate.
699
00:30:13,347 --> 00:30:16,926
Yeah, sometimes you end up getting hurt,
700
00:30:16,951 --> 00:30:18,819
but most of the time,
701
00:30:18,820 --> 00:30:20,605
it'll all work out.
702
00:30:21,823 --> 00:30:24,591
I know it's not the cool thing to say,
703
00:30:24,592 --> 00:30:27,570
but I'm really proud of you,
704
00:30:28,029 --> 00:30:30,130
and I love you.
705
00:30:40,659 --> 00:30:45,379
All right. Emergency
diaper stash restocked.
706
00:30:47,565 --> 00:30:49,649
- Ah...
- What's so funny?
707
00:30:49,650 --> 00:30:54,472
Oh, uh, Ellie said the Buffy
episode "Hush" was on, so...
708
00:30:55,890 --> 00:30:57,691
Babe, "Hush"?
709
00:30:57,934 --> 00:30:59,768
The one where everyone in Sunnydale
710
00:30:59,769 --> 00:31:00,936
loses the ability to talk?
711
00:31:00,937 --> 00:31:03,338
Do not insult me. I know the episode.
712
00:31:03,339 --> 00:31:05,207
- Please.
- Excuse me.
713
00:31:05,208 --> 00:31:07,917
But c-could we just not
714
00:31:07,918 --> 00:31:10,905
- text her as much, please?
- She texted me.
715
00:31:11,990 --> 00:31:14,190
Come on. Just admit, it went well.
716
00:31:14,191 --> 00:31:16,318
And could you just be a little excited
717
00:31:16,343 --> 00:31:17,610
- about that?
- Not really.
718
00:31:17,611 --> 00:31:19,845
This baby stuff wasn't
that easy the first time.
719
00:31:19,846 --> 00:31:21,213
You know, with this, we're dealing
720
00:31:21,214 --> 00:31:23,183
with a 33-year-old single mother
721
00:31:23,184 --> 00:31:25,703
who could, literally, at any moment,
722
00:31:25,728 --> 00:31:27,463
change her mind about us.
723
00:31:28,047 --> 00:31:30,048
So instead of asking
me to be more excited,
724
00:31:30,049 --> 00:31:33,669
could maybe you... you try
to be a little more terrified?
725
00:31:33,694 --> 00:31:36,021
Okay.
726
00:31:36,956 --> 00:31:40,226
You know what, she does smile
a lot when she rubs her belly.
727
00:31:40,593 --> 00:31:43,461
Which is better than
the opposite, obviously,
728
00:31:43,462 --> 00:31:45,930
but I don't know, I clocked it.
729
00:31:46,315 --> 00:31:48,449
- Oh, babe.
- See? Thank you.
730
00:31:48,450 --> 00:31:50,251
Thank... no, that makes me feel better.
731
00:31:50,252 --> 00:31:54,622
Thank you for registering an
acceptable level of terror.
732
00:31:54,623 --> 00:31:56,299
- Mm.
- I appreciate it.
733
00:31:56,300 --> 00:31:57,834
Yeah, okay, you're welcome.
734
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,846
She did say that her
favorite Star Wars character
735
00:32:01,847 --> 00:32:03,314
was Babu Frik.
736
00:32:03,315 --> 00:32:05,649
That's a fresh take. Respect.
737
00:32:05,650 --> 00:32:08,586
And did you see the look
on her face when she noticed
738
00:32:08,587 --> 00:32:10,654
that we had forgotten
the diapers in the car?
739
00:32:10,655 --> 00:32:14,658
That was the look of a woman
who is falling hard for us.
740
00:32:14,659 --> 00:32:17,394
- Babe.
- Yeah. Those are good things.
741
00:32:17,395 --> 00:32:19,932
- Those are good things.
- Okay, well, thank you
742
00:32:20,298 --> 00:32:23,969
for registering a, you know, an
acceptable level of excitement.
743
00:32:23,994 --> 00:32:25,370
Thank you.
744
00:32:25,371 --> 00:32:28,639
Also, I, um, bought the
diapers, for the record.
745
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,675
- You left 'em in the trunk.
- Uh...
746
00:32:31,676 --> 00:32:32,943
Uh, excuse me.
747
00:32:35,313 --> 00:32:36,506
"Come in."
748
00:32:36,507 --> 00:32:39,609
"Oh, thanks, daughter,
don't-don't mind if I do."
749
00:32:54,425 --> 00:32:56,993
"Silence in the face of inequality
750
00:32:56,994 --> 00:32:59,138
is complicity with the oppressor."
751
00:32:59,430 --> 00:33:02,098
- Ginetta Sagan.
- You caught that.
752
00:33:02,099 --> 00:33:03,851
I catch everything, daughter.
753
00:33:07,805 --> 00:33:09,639
There's a right way and a wrong way
754
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:11,417
to get your point across.
755
00:33:11,442 --> 00:33:13,844
Even loudly, if need be.
756
00:33:14,921 --> 00:33:17,756
And this was the wrong way.
757
00:33:18,199 --> 00:33:20,100
And it's not you.
758
00:33:20,451 --> 00:33:23,428
Telling adults to screw
themself on the Internet?
759
00:33:23,429 --> 00:33:24,666
- That's not you.
- It is me.
760
00:33:24,691 --> 00:33:25,730
It's not.
761
00:33:27,500 --> 00:33:31,212
That is not the person who
made my life somersault.
762
00:33:35,208 --> 00:33:37,593
- It's an old reference.
- I remember.
763
00:33:43,634 --> 00:33:45,976
We're taking your phone
away for six weeks.
764
00:33:46,395 --> 00:33:48,828
What? What if I'm out?
765
00:33:48,829 --> 00:33:51,182
You won't be, 'cause you're
grounded for six weeks, too.
766
00:33:51,207 --> 00:33:52,974
Fascist! This is bull...
767
00:33:52,975 --> 00:33:55,444
You finish that sentence,
tack on three more weeks.
768
00:34:00,216 --> 00:34:01,450
Good choice.
769
00:34:03,964 --> 00:34:05,329
God.
770
00:34:12,545 --> 00:34:14,187
Did she call you a fascist?
771
00:34:14,188 --> 00:34:17,299
Yeah, hon. I believe she did.
772
00:34:22,351 --> 00:34:25,704
What you want to do is, you
line your thumbs up, okay?
773
00:34:25,729 --> 00:34:28,006
Make sure that bar is nice and center.
774
00:34:28,007 --> 00:34:30,650
Wrap them around the
bar. Very important.
775
00:34:30,651 --> 00:34:33,053
Thumb around the bar. Important.
776
00:34:34,847 --> 00:34:36,214
Come on.
777
00:34:37,183 --> 00:34:38,517
Come on.
778
00:34:38,851 --> 00:34:40,018
Come on.
779
00:34:40,019 --> 00:34:41,653
Nice, Kev. You're doing great.
780
00:34:41,654 --> 00:34:42,921
Last one, Kev. Last one. Here we go.
781
00:34:42,922 --> 00:34:44,723
Push it, push it, push it.
782
00:34:44,724 --> 00:34:46,066
Push it.
783
00:34:46,726 --> 00:34:48,026
Work that chest.
784
00:34:48,027 --> 00:34:50,028
Push. Push.
785
00:34:50,029 --> 00:34:51,730
Push. Push, push, push, push,
786
00:34:51,731 --> 00:34:53,531
push, push, push. Yeah, hey.
787
00:34:53,532 --> 00:34:55,800
- All right, let's pull this up.
- No, don't touch it.
788
00:34:55,801 --> 00:34:57,235
What's it, too heavy? I
could take some weight off.
789
00:34:57,236 --> 00:35:00,171
- No, I got it.
- Well, come on. Man up.
790
00:35:00,172 --> 00:35:01,806
Come on, Kev, you're good.
791
00:35:01,807 --> 00:35:04,142
A couple more.
792
00:35:06,512 --> 00:35:07,588
Good.
793
00:35:09,849 --> 00:35:11,191
Look at you.
794
00:35:11,425 --> 00:35:12,597
You're a monster.
795
00:35:12,622 --> 00:35:13,777
I did it.
796
00:35:15,562 --> 00:35:16,889
Hey, look, Kev.
797
00:35:18,574 --> 00:35:22,376
You put your mind to it,
you can accomplish anything.
798
00:35:23,779 --> 00:35:25,079
Okay?
799
00:35:31,695 --> 00:35:33,656
I'm playing a trial lawyer.
800
00:35:35,265 --> 00:35:37,868
In the movie I-I play a trial lawyer.
801
00:35:39,621 --> 00:35:41,137
Let me ask you a question.
802
00:35:41,138 --> 00:35:43,682
Why does a trial lawyer
need to be ripped?
803
00:35:44,808 --> 00:35:45,960
I don't know.
804
00:35:46,460 --> 00:35:47,836
He doesn't.
805
00:35:52,333 --> 00:35:55,027
I count calories, too, Madison.
806
00:35:56,428 --> 00:35:59,072
And I panic inside if I don't get
807
00:35:59,073 --> 00:36:01,207
a second workout in every single day.
808
00:36:01,558 --> 00:36:04,118
And I prefer sweating in a dingy garage
809
00:36:04,119 --> 00:36:06,981
than going to some
celebrity gym because...
810
00:36:11,860 --> 00:36:14,196
Oh, God, so many reasons, actually.
811
00:36:14,762 --> 00:36:16,530
This one's stronger, right here.
812
00:36:16,531 --> 00:36:18,165
Put your hand right there. Strong...
813
00:36:18,166 --> 00:36:21,870
Eight, nine,
814
00:36:23,284 --> 00:36:24,471
ten.
815
00:36:24,472 --> 00:36:25,472
Switch it up.
816
00:36:25,846 --> 00:36:27,101
Flex that!
817
00:36:27,309 --> 00:36:28,726
At the top.
818
00:36:28,727 --> 00:36:30,895
Yeah, you did it!
819
00:36:30,896 --> 00:36:33,998
My boy's gonna be a beast.
820
00:36:36,135 --> 00:36:39,096
And as an actor, it
just became my currency.
821
00:36:39,738 --> 00:36:43,407
I actually... got famous...
822
00:36:44,810 --> 00:36:46,911
...by taking my shirt off.
823
00:36:50,115 --> 00:36:53,569
I'm getting older and
it's getting harder.
824
00:36:54,954 --> 00:36:57,255
And I'm not drinking anymore,
which is my other addiction,
825
00:36:57,256 --> 00:37:00,034
so I just come in here and I just...
826
00:37:00,492 --> 00:37:04,788
I channel all of that
here, and it's, uh...
827
00:37:06,332 --> 00:37:07,958
...not exactly healthy.
828
00:37:11,337 --> 00:37:13,204
I got stuff, too, Madison.
829
00:37:13,205 --> 00:37:15,507
I got a lot of stuff.
830
00:37:17,776 --> 00:37:20,645
Including stuff with my brother
that I still have to work out.
831
00:37:20,646 --> 00:37:21,889
And I...
832
00:37:25,818 --> 00:37:28,562
I lay in bed sometimes and I, um...
833
00:37:30,606 --> 00:37:33,150
...I just stare at the
ceiling and I worry.
834
00:37:37,446 --> 00:37:40,840
I worry that I'm gonna pass all
that on to my kids, you know?
835
00:37:40,841 --> 00:37:45,454
All that... my unhealthy stuff.
836
00:37:48,382 --> 00:37:49,666
Me, too.
837
00:38:01,929 --> 00:38:03,930
You know, I suppose being parents
838
00:38:03,931 --> 00:38:05,641
is gonna be hard enough on its own,
839
00:38:06,266 --> 00:38:08,701
without us walking around trying to be
840
00:38:08,702 --> 00:38:11,270
polite strangers in front of each other.
841
00:38:13,807 --> 00:38:17,227
I mean, I had the greatest,
most connected parents
842
00:38:17,252 --> 00:38:20,781
you can imagine, and
they missed so much.
843
00:38:58,461 --> 00:39:00,462
It's crazy. This tastes
just like root beer.
844
00:39:00,539 --> 00:39:01,864
Want to try?
845
00:39:04,330 --> 00:39:07,035
I should really get to my homework.
846
00:39:14,242 --> 00:39:15,851
I always wondered what it would be like
847
00:39:15,852 --> 00:39:17,546
to kiss someone like you.
848
00:39:36,608 --> 00:39:39,441
Sorry I was so preoccupied
with Kate's project,
849
00:39:39,442 --> 00:39:42,310
I didn't even get to
ask you how your day was.
850
00:39:43,279 --> 00:39:44,948
- It w... it was good.
- Yeah?
851
00:39:45,281 --> 00:39:47,242
Tonya seems very nice.
852
00:39:47,950 --> 00:39:50,352
Yeah. Night, Mom.
853
00:40:01,931 --> 00:40:04,176
Madison, I'm an alcoholic
854
00:40:05,068 --> 00:40:08,203
and I'm a workout
addict with daddy issues.
855
00:40:14,510 --> 00:40:16,344
Also, sometimes I get foot corns,
856
00:40:16,346 --> 00:40:17,946
and when that baby
flares up in the summer,
857
00:40:17,947 --> 00:40:20,115
I've been known to wear
shoes and socks at the beach.
858
00:40:29,258 --> 00:40:30,786
It's bulimia,
859
00:40:32,628 --> 00:40:34,456
my eating disorder.
860
00:40:35,765 --> 00:40:40,879
Um, it almost killed me when I was 17.
861
00:40:46,342 --> 00:40:48,053
I have a handle on it,
862
00:40:49,263 --> 00:40:52,214
but even now, sometimes,
my daily state of mind
863
00:40:52,215 --> 00:40:54,935
is still determined by my weight.
864
00:41:00,999 --> 00:41:02,484
Also,
865
00:41:03,626 --> 00:41:06,363
I am obsessed with the show Outlander.
866
00:41:07,406 --> 00:41:09,698
I've gone to conventions.
867
00:41:11,567 --> 00:41:12,593
No.
868
00:41:12,594 --> 00:41:13,994
- Yeah.
- You're one of those people?
869
00:41:13,995 --> 00:41:17,374
Yeah. I'm one of those people.
870
00:41:47,262 --> 00:41:48,947
Hey, Grandpa.
871
00:41:49,297 --> 00:41:50,699
The woman?
872
00:41:51,266 --> 00:41:53,367
The one you were trying to
impress with your cooking?
873
00:41:53,969 --> 00:41:57,537
Is she the woman in all
the pictures around here?
874
00:41:57,931 --> 00:42:01,908
So many questions in such a little body.
875
00:42:05,813 --> 00:42:10,217
Linh, it's the woman
in all the pictures.
876
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:13,553
I knew it.
877
00:42:30,659 --> 00:42:35,272
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